10 Malangizo Oona Mtima Othandiza Kuti Muthane Ndi Kukhala Amisala

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Koma ngati mulidi oyipa, mungathane bwanji ndi izi?

Kodi mumatani kuti mukhale osasangalatsa?



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1. Mwa Mzimu Wa Chilungamo

Tiyeni tisakhale otetezera - pomwe kukongola kuli mbali ina yokha, palinso chinthu china chokhudza izi.

Aliyense wa ife ali ndi mawonekedwe omwe mwina sangakonde aliyense kapena sangakhale nawo, koma ngati mungafunse anthu 100 kuti aone kukongola kwa munthu aliyense mwa khumi, mudzawona zambiri zomwe zimagwirizana pamiyeso ina pamlingo .

Chifukwa chake munthu m'modzi atha kupeza paliponse pakati pa 4 ndi 7, koma mavoti ambiri atha kukhala 5 kapena 6.

Mwina mumalemba pakati pa 1 ndi 4 ndikuchulukitsa ambiri ngati 2 kapena 3.

Tiyeni tisamenye kuzungulira tchire. Muli kumapeto osakongola kwenikweni.

Ndipo mwina mumadana nazo anthu akafuna kukutsimikizirani zina.

ndiuzeni zina zosangalatsa za inu mayankho anu

Amanena zinthu monga, 'Ndiwe wokongola m'njira yako' kapena ' Ndiwe wapadera. '

Zomwe mumamva m'mabukuwa ndizabodza zomwe zimawoneka ngati zaulemu.

Mukhululukireni, chifukwa sadziwa zomwe anena. Tivomerezane, kuuza wina kuti ndiwosakongola sikophweka…

Pokhapokha mutamudziwadi winawake ndi momwe angachitire, ndi kwachilengedwe kulakwitsa.

Koma tiyeni titenge pamtengo, ngati mungakhululukire pun, ndikuvomereza kuti mulidi munthu woyipa pamtunda.

Funso lanu loyamba likhoza kukhala…

2. Ndichifukwa Chiyani Ndine Wonyansatu?

Ndimadana nanu kuti ndikuthyokereni, koma mwina mwangokhala ndi mwayi wochepa pamayendedwe amtundu pakubwera kwanu.

Momwe mumaonekera mumaonekera kwa makolo anu okha. Makolo ocheperako amakhala ndi ana ocheperako.

Nsagwada yanu, mphuno zanu, maso anu, ngakhale kulemera kwanu zimakhudzidwa ndi majini omwe mudakupatsirani.

Mbali yabwino, izi zimatenga udindo waukulu pamapewa anu. Sikulakwa kwako kuti umawoneka momwe ukuonekera.

momwe mungaoneke wokongola mukakhala woipa

Zachidziwikire, zinthu zachilengedwe monga zakudya zomwe mumadya komanso zosankha pamoyo wanu zitha kutenganso gawo, monganso zochitika m'moyo wanu mpaka pano.

Koma mawonekedwe anu makamaka amakhala okhudza chibadwa chanu.

Ichi ndichifukwa chake gawo limodzi pothana ndi vuto lanu ndikuti…

3. Vomerezani Kuti Ndinu Oipa

Ndipo sizongonena kuti mumamvetsetsa mwanzeru kuti simusangalatsa.

Kuvomereza kumatanthauza kusakhalanso ndi mkwiyo kapena mkwiyo kapena kusatetezeka chifukwa cha mawonekedwe anu.

Zimatanthawuza kukhala pamtendere ndikuti ndiwe wonyozeka kuposa ambiri.

Sizophweka, koma ndizotheka.

Monga momwe ziliri ndi mitundu yonse yovomereza, chinsinsi ndicho kuzindikira kuti mulibe mphamvu pazochitikazo, kupatula kuthekera kochitidwa opaleshoni yodzikongoletsa (ngakhale sizotheka kapena kufunidwa nthawi zonse).

Zachidziwikire, mutha kuyesa kugwiritsa ntchito momwe mungathere ndikusankha zovala, makongoletsedwe, ndi zodzoladzola zomwe zikukuyenererani…

..koma pali malire pazomwe zingakupangitseni kukhala osiririka.

Ndipo ngati kusakongola kwanu kumachitika chifukwa chakusankha kwanu, izi zitha kuthetsedwa.

Mwambiri, komabe, muyenera kuvomereza momwe mukuwonekera pano komanso pano.

Ngakhale zingangothandiza pang'ono, mungafunike kukumbutsa kuti…

4. Ngakhale Anthu Okopa Amakhala Oipa

Kuvomereza momwe munthu amawonekera sikuli kwa anthu ngati inu omwe mukudziwa kuti ndi oyipa.

Zikuoneka kuti nkhawa za momwe timaonekera ndizofala.

Ndipo pomwe munganene kuti munthu amene amakhala ndi mphambu zisanu kapena zisanu mwa zisanu ndi chimodzi mwa khumi samadziwa chilichonse choyipa, sichimachepetsa momwe angaganizire.

Chithunzi cha munthu (gawo lawo lonse kudzidalira ) sizimagwirizana nthawi zonse ndi zenizeni. Kotero si zachilendo kuti 6 aziganiza kuti ndi 2. Kapena kuti 8 aziganiza kuti ndi 4.

M'malo mwake, anthu ambiri mwina amatsitsa kukongola kwawo mosaneneka.

Chifukwa chake iwo omwe ali owoneka bwino samakhala ndizosavuta kwambiri mu dipatimenti yamaganizidwe.

Zachidziwikire, anthu ena atha kuwawona kuti ndiwokopa kuposa inu, koma amathanso kuvutika monga momwe mumafunira mkati.

M'malo mwake, ngati momwe amadzionera amasiyana kwambiri ndi momwe ena amawawonera, atha kukhala ovuta kwambiri kuvomereza izi.

Ngati mukudziwa kuti simusangalatsa, mwina mumakhala ndi zenizeni kuposa iwo.

Kumbukirani izi ndipo…

5. Osakhala Wansanje Kapena Wansanje Anthu Okopa Kwambiri

Ndikosavuta kuponya diso lako kwa anthu okongola akunja ndikumva nsanje ndi nsanje zikukugwira.

Amangowoneka kuti ali ndi mwayi wonse, sichoncho?

Mutauzidwa kuti timaweruza anthu pamawonekedwe tikangopeza , zingaoneke zomveka kuti mukamakopeka kwambiri, m'pamenenso wina angamvere za inu.

Koma kupyola kuweruza kosachedwa, mawonekedwe athu amangotifikitsa mpaka pano. Amatha kutithandizira kuyika phazi pakhomo, koma sangathe kukusungani mchipindacho.

wotopetsa ndipo ukusowa chochita

Khalidwe ndi lomwe anthu amakonda kwambiri ndipo amakonda kapena kusakonda.

Ndipo potere, simuli pachiwopsezo chilichonse.

Pali anthu okongola omwe ndi owopsa mukawadziwa ndipo pali anthu oyipa amene ali okongola komanso womveka.

Ngati mukuyang'ana ndi nsanje kwamuyaya kwa iwo omwe angakwere pamwamba panu mu dipatimenti yowoneka, simudzatha kudzvomereza nokha kuti ndinu ndani.

Simungadziyese ndikudzilemekeza pomwe nthawi yomweyo mumalakalaka mutakhala wina.

Izi ndizofunikanso mukafika ku…

Mwinanso mungakonde (nkhani ikupitirira pansipa):

6. Ubale Kwa Anthu Oipa

Kodi malo azibwenzi ndi ovuta kwa anthu oyipa?

Mwinanso, ngakhale anthu ambiri amitundu yonse yazokopa amalimbana ndi zibwenzi komanso maubale.

Apanso, muyenera kuyesetsa kuti musawone mawonekedwe anu ngati cholepheretsa kukhala osangalala komanso ubale wabwino .

Ndiye mumatani kuti mukhale oyipa komanso kukhala pachibwenzi?

Muyenera kuwongolera zomwe mukuyembekezera ndikudzikumbutsa kuti mawonekedwe sizinthu zonse mwa mnzanu.

Mwanjira ina, mwina mukuyenera kukhala ndi chibwenzi ndi munthu yemwe amakhalanso kumapeto kwenikweni kwa chikoka.

Sikuti ndi wogonja. Ndizowona.

Zimangochitika kuti anthu ambiri amatha kukhala paubwenzi ndi wina yemwe ali ndi gawo lofananira.

Chifukwa chake 6 amatha kukhala ndi 5 kapena 7. An 8 atha kukhala pachibwenzi kulikonse pakati pa 7 ndi 10.

Ngati mukuyang'ana 2 kapena 3 mwachidziwikire, ndibwino kuti mupeze bwenzi lomwe mulinso 2, kapena 3, kapena 4.

Funsani aliyense amene wakhala pachibwenzi chokhazikika komanso chodzipereka kwazaka zambiri zomwe zili zofunika kwambiri mwa mnzanu ndipo sizikhala mawonekedwe awo 100%.

Udzakhala umunthu wawo, kusangalala komwe ungakhale nawo, zinthu zabwino zomwe amachita, thandizo lomwe amakupatsa.

Ngati mukuda nkhawa kuti simudzawapeza okongola mwakuthupi kapena mwakugonana, kumbukirani kuti zinthu izi zimakula mukamadziwana ndi wina.

Chifukwa chake ngakhale mutayang'ana munthu tsiku loyamba ndikupumira pang'ono ndikulakalaka atakhala kuti akuwoneka bwino, musawachotse nthawi yomweyo kuti ali ndi mwayi wothandizana naye.

Kupatula apo, mungafune kuti anthu ena asayang'ane mawonekedwe anu ndikukupatsaninso mwayi, sichoncho?

Kukopa kwanu kwa iwo kumatha kukula monga momwe amakopekera kwa inu momwemonso.

Ndipo kukhala pachibwenzi ndi omwe nawonso siosangalatsa momwe mungapezere mwayi wina…

Ikhoza kuchotsa zina mwa kudzidalira komwe mungakhale nako pozungulira mawonekedwe anu.

Kukakamira kuthana ndi mawonekedwe anu powonetsa chithunzi cha chidaliro komanso chisangalalo kumachepa chifukwa nonse mumavomereza kuti mawonekedwe mwina sangakhale oyendetsa ngakhale tsikulo likupita ku china.

Mutha kukhala omasuka ndikulola umunthu wanu wowona komanso wowona kuti udziwonetse m'malo momverera kufunikira kodzipangira 'kuyipa kwanu poyeserera kukhala chomwe simuli.

Ichi ndi chifukwa chimodzi chokha chomwe muyenera ...

7. Lekani Kuyang'ana Maganizo Anu

Zachidziwikire, ndizosavuta kuzinena kuposa kuzichita, makamaka ngati mukukhulupirira kuti simosangalatsa kwenikweni kuposa ambiri.

Koma poganizira za momwe iwe uliri wonyansa, utha kukhala kuti ungakhudze magawo ako okhutira ndi moyo.

Izi ndichifukwa cha china chotchedwa kuyika chinyengo .

Kwenikweni, mwa kulingalira za gawo la moyo wanu lomwe simukusangalala nalo, mumadetsa chikhulupiriro chonse chomwe muli nacho chokhudza zabwino kapena zoipa moyo wanu.

Izi zidawonetsedwa mu kuphunzira kwapadera yomwe inafunsa anthu mafunso okhutira ndi moyo komanso kukhutira thupi.

Hafu imodzi idapatsidwa mafunso okhutiritsa thupi choyamba ndipo winayo adayankha funso loyamba lokhutiritsa moyo.

Iwo omwe adafunsidwa poyamba zakukhutira thupi lawo adawonetsa kusiyanasiyana kwakukulu pankhani yakukhutira ndi moyo.

Izi zikutanthauza kuti ngati aliyense wokhudzidwa atakhutira ndi mawonekedwe awo, amatha kunena zakukhutira ndi moyo wawo.

Koma ngati ophunzira sanakhutire ndi mawonekedwe awo, amaperekanso kuwunika koyipa pokhudzana ndi moyo wawo.

Kunena mwachidule, ngati simukukonda momwe mukuwonekera, kuganizira za izi kumatha kuyika pansi zomwe mumamvako pamoyo wanu.

Kumbali ina, ngati mungaganize zazinthu zomwe mumakonda za inu kapena moyo wanu, zingakupangitseni kukhala osangalala ndi moyo wanu wonse.

Ngakhale zitakhala zovuta bwanji, ngati mungaganize za mawonekedwe anu, yesetsani kusokoneza malingaliro amenewo ndikusunthira malingaliro anu kuzinthu zina.

Pang'ono ndi pang'ono momwe mungaganizire za momwe mungakhalire oyipa, sizingakugwetseni pansi komanso kukhala ndi chiyembekezo chotsalira cha moyo wanu wonse.

ndi ana angati omwe smith adzakhala nawo

M'malo mwake, ngati mungayesetse kuyamikira tsiku lililonse ndikuganiza zina mwazinthu zomwe mumayamikiradi, zingakuthandizeni kukhala ndi chiyembekezo chamoyo.

Ponena za malingaliro, ngati ndinu achichepere komanso oyipa, ndikofunikira kudziwa kuti…

8. Ukali Ungakhale Gawo

Gawoli makamaka ndi la owerenga omwe ndi achichepere komanso omwe matupi ndi nkhope zawo mwina zimasinthabe mwachangu kwambiri.

Ndizowona kuti paunyamata komanso uchikulire, titha kukhala ndi mavuto ambiri okhudzana ndi mawonekedwe athu.

Ndi mahomoni omwe akuyenda mthupi lathu, titha kukhala ndi khungu loyipa, ziphuphu, kukula, kusintha thupi, msanga kapena kuchedwa kukula kwa thupi…

… Osatchula nkhope zomwe zikupezabe malo oyenera.

Ndipo mahomoni omwewo amatha kutenga malingaliro athu kuchokera pamwamba mpaka pansi pakamphindi. Izi zingatipangitse kudandaula kwambiri ndi mawonekedwe athu kuposa momwe tingachitire.

Panthawi ino ya moyo, nkofunika kukumbukira kuti zomwe mumawona pakalilole tsopano sizingakhale momwe zinthu zimathera.

Mutha kukhala mukuchita zomwe ena amatcha mwachikondi gawo lonyansa ndipo mutha kukula ndikukhala owoneka bwino tsopano.

Heck, ingoyang'anani zina mwa zitsanzozi a anthu omwe adutsa gawo lino.

Ndiye ngakhale nkhaniyi ili yokhudzana ndi kuwona mtima ndikuiuza monga ilili, mutha kuvomerezabe mawonekedwe anu apano osavomereza kuti umu ndi momwe mudzaonekere mutakhwima mokwanira kukhala munthu wamkulu.

Ndipo ngati mungakule kukhala osakongola kuposa anzanu, mungafune kukumbukira kuti alipo…

9. Pali Ubwino Wokhala Wouma

Mutha kuganiza kuti chifukwa ndinu oyipa, muli ndi vuto m'moyo wanu ...

… Koma pali zina zokhumudwitsa kuti mukhale amodzi mwa anthu osakongola kwambiri padziko lapansi.

1. Kukalamba si chinthu chomwe mumadandaula nacho koposa. Zikuwoneka zikutha pakapita nthawi, koma zanu mwina sizingasinthe kwambiri. Poyerekeza ndi ena, mwina mungapeze malo ena pamtengo wokongola.

2. Palibe amene amaganiza kuti umadutsa pa mawonekedwe ako. Amadziwa kuti aweruzidwa kuti uli ndi zambiri za iwe ngati wakwanitsa kuchita bwino pamoyo.

3. Anthu amakukondani chifukwa cha zomwe muli, osati mawonekedwe anu. Izi ziyenera kunena zabwino za umunthu wanu (poganiza kuti sakufuna ndalama zanu!)

4. Simuyenera kuthamangitsa mafashoni aposachedwa. Mayina akulu akulu komanso zomwe zangochitika kumene zomwe zimawononga dziko lapansi sizoyenera kudandaula nazo. Mutha kugula zovala ZIMENE mumakhala omasuka.

5. Simuyenera kukhala zaka zambiri mutenga selfie yangwiro ya Instagram.

6. Ngati ndinu mkazi, azimayi ena samakuwonani ngati chiwopsezo chodzidalira kapena maubwenzi awo ndipo atha kukhala bwino ndi inu.

7. Anthu oyipa nthawi zambiri amanyalanyazidwa. Chifukwa chake mukamawonetsa kuchuluka kwa talente yomwe muli nayo, mumayamba kusangalala ndi mawonekedwe odabwitsa pankhope za anthu. Kukayika? Mwachidziwikire simunamvepo Susan Boyle .

muli ndi abwenzi angati

8. Simuli osaya . Mutha kuyang'ana kupyola mawonekedwe a anthu ena. Simusamala ngati wina ali woyipa, mudzawapatsa mwayi wofanana ndi wina aliyense.

9. Ngati ndinu wolowetsa , uyenera kuthana ndi mayanjano ocheperako opanda tanthauzo komanso zokambirana zochepa.

10. Maganizo Anu Ndi Chida Chanu Champhamvu Koposa

Chowonadi chake ndi chakuti, ngakhale kuyipa kwanu kungakhale kwakuya khungu, kumatha kukukhudzani mpaka pachimake.

Ndipo inde, kukhala woyipa kumatha kutengera zomwe mumachita pamoyo wanu komanso momwe ena amakuchitirani.

Koma njira yabwino yolimbanirana nayo ndikusintha momwe mumaganizira.

Monga tanenera poyamba, kuganizira za mawonekedwe anu molakwika kumatha kukupangitsani kukhala opanda chiyembekezo pamoyo wanu wonse.

Komabe, ngati mungavomereze momwe mukuwonekera ndikuwona zabwino zomwe zingabweretse, zitha kusintha mawonekedwe anu.