Zosankha 11 Anthu Olimbikitsa Amapanga Tsiku Lililonse

Kuwona moyo wokhala ndi chiyembekezo sichikugwirizana ndi magalasi amtundu wa rozi omwe amaperekedwa kwa iwo omwe 'samawona' zenizeni. Zimatengera ntchito yochulukirapo kuti mukhale ndi chiyembekezo chotsutsa kuyesaku ngati Pollyannaish kapena kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi pokana.

Pali zinthu zingapo zofunika zomwe munthu wamaganizidwe abwino amachita kuti akhalebe kumbali yopambana yazinthu.

1. Iwo Ganizirani Pakanthawi

Kupezekapo kumatenga chifuniro cha Herculean pomwe zimawoneka kuti zochitika zonse zatsiku ndi tsiku zimapangidwa kuti zisokoneze ndikusokoneza monga zachuma, zandale, kapena zauzimu.





Komabe, kuti mukhale ndi chiyembekezo, muyenera kukumbukira.

Kukhoza kuzindikira zomwe zimachitika pakamphindi kakang'ono, kenako, kenako pambuyo pake kumayang'ana zokhumba zathu ndi malingaliro athu muubongo wazomwe zimalepheretsa kuchuluka kwa mabodza ngati zikwangwani.



Kukhala okhazikika, okhazikika, komanso ozindikira ndikofunikira kuti mukhale ndi malingaliro abwino.

2. Amafuna Kukongola

Gulu la funk-soul Earth, Wind & Fire linali ndi talente yopanga nyimbo zomwe zimakhala mu gawo lotentha kwambiri la moyo. 'Ngati kulibe kukongola muyenera kupanga kukongola' kuchokera munyimboyo Zonse Za Chikondi ndi chimodzi.

Dziko ndi malo oyipa. Ndikokweza, ndizowopsa, ndipo nthawi zambiri kumakhala koyenera kulira.



Koma yendani m'nkhalango iliyonse ndipo mudzawona kuti dziko lapansi ndi malo okongola kwambiri. Malo odekha. Ndipo ngati mungadutse njira ndi mlendo m'nkhalango momwemo, mutha kukhala ndi mwayi kudziwa kuti munthuyo ndi wokongola komanso wofatsa.

Kukongola sikulepheretsa zinthu zosasangalatsa, zoyipa m'moyo. Imeneyo si ntchito yake. Kukongola mwakachetechete, modekha kukuyembekeza kukumbutsa aliyense kuti kuli pambali pa mphepo yamkuntho, zitsamba zam'mimba, ndi zipsinjo zopindika zomwe timakonda kuyang'ana ngati moyo 'weniweni'.

Kusankha kuwona kukongola kumayika kukongola patsogolo pathu. Ndipo ngati mwangozi sichikupezekabe, timakwanitsa.

Makhalidwe abwenzi pa intaneti atatha tsiku loyamba

3. Amagwiritsa Ntchito Zaluso Zawo

Kodi mwazindikira kuti anthu abwino amakonda kukhala opanga?

Azakhali omwe anali achangu kuseka adaphika ma pie abwino kwambiri msungwana waku koleji yemwe adamwetulira ndi nsalu yake yonse yolukidwa ndi magolovesi ngati atha kale.

Anthu abwino amasankha kukhala opanga pazinthu zina. Adzayesa zakudya zatsopano kukhitchini, kapena mwina adzasakaniza misanganizo ya zakumwa kuti aone ngati angakonde kukoma.

Nthawi zambiri amakhala owerenga, kuwerenga kukhala masewera omaliza azoseweretsa zamaganizidwe.

Chisankho chimapangidwa kuti tipeze pothawirapo pachilengedwe pazofuna zanyumba, ntchito, banja, ngakhale chikondi. Ngati, monga anthu, sitingathe kupanga malo oti tifotokozere 'ife,' timalimbitsa tokha kusangalala ndikutenga chilengedwe choyipa monga chopatsidwa.

4. Amakumana Ndi Zoona Zenizeni

Mulungu andipatse bata kuvomereza zinthu zomwe sindingasinthe kulimba mtima kuti ndisinthe zomwe ndingathe ndi nzeru kuti ndidziwe kusiyana kwake.

Tikudziwa kuti ngati Serenity Prayer, yomwe idalembedwa koyamba mu 1951 ndi Reinhold Niebuhr waumulungu.

Ndizofunikira ndikofunikira pamalingaliro abwino chifukwa zikuwonetsa gawo lofunikira pakukhala ndi moyo wabwino: kuyang'anizana ndi dziko lapansi kumapangitsa mphamvu zomwe zimatha kubwerera mwadala zomwe sizingatheke.

Ndizovuta kukhala wotsimikiza pokhapokha munthu atakhala moyo wowona mtima. Munthu amene ali ndi chiyembekezo amasankha moyenera kuti akwaniritse zenizeni kuti akwaniritse zomwe angathe kuti athandize onse, kupatula kukwiya komanso kudziimba mlandu chifukwa chosakhala gawo lazothetsera chilichonse.

5. Amapeza 'Zopambana'

Kutsiriza ntchito yayikulu yokopera popanda kupanikizana pepala limodzi: win.

Kugwira magetsi onse obiriwira panthawi yoyenda kwambiri: win.

Phunzitsani bwino mwana wanu malingaliro okopa kukopeka kwamaginito ndi kunyansidwa: win.

Munthu wodalitsika amafunafuna nthawi yamasana awo kuti awerenge ngati opambana, chifukwa monga anthu, timafunikira ma pop of light kuti atidziwitse kuti tikuchita bwino.

Kupambana kwakukulu ndikwabwino, koma kupambana kocheperako tsiku ndi tsiku kumatithandiza.

6. Sakhazikika Pakale

Kukhala wotsimikiza sikutanthauza kusakumana ndi (kapena kusakhala tokha chifukwa cha) zovuta.

chochita pamene bwenzi lanu lakale likufuna kuti mubwererenso

Zomwe zikutanthauza ndikuti munthu amene ali ndi chiyembekezo amasankha kuti asadzidyere okha m'mbuyomu ngati ntchentche zowonongedwa kupita ku mapepala am'mapepala.

Wokondayo amasankha kuvomereza zakale ndipo, ngati ali ndi mwayi, amaphunzirapo kanthu, koma amatenga mzere pakumverera kuti wakakamizidwa nazo.

Munthu sangathe kuyang'ana mtsogolo kapena ngakhale mtsogolo mwa iye nthawi yomweyo poyesera kukhala ndi moyo wakale.

Mwinanso mungakonde (nkhani ikupitirira pansipa):

7. Ndi Nyali Yowunika Kwa Ena

Chodabwitsa chokhudzana ndi kusayanjanitsika mtima chimapangitsa kuti anthu azikhala olimbikira podzipereka okha koma adyera kuti adzipweteketse, kusiya moyo wawo wonse kumverera pang'onopang'ono komanso kutsogolera.

Ndi zinthu zochepa zomwe zimakhala zolimbikitsa, komabe, kwa munthu wamaganizidwe abwino kuposa kuwona wina akuwala, ndipo ngati atati munthu wotsimikiza akhoza kuwalitsa kuwala kwake pa nzeru za wina, nthawi zambiri amatero.

8. Amamvetsera Koposa Kulankhula

Zanenedwa kuti timaphunzira zambiri ndi milomo yathu yotsekedwa kuposa yotseguka.

Ngakhale pa intaneti, zomwe timachita koyamba mukawona china chomwe tikuganiza kuti ena angachite nazo chidwi ndi 'kuyankhula' pa icho. Ngati sitikupereka ndemanga munjira ina kapena ina, kumverera kumakalowa: tikutha chifukwa chopezeka!

Harlan Ellison adalemba nkhani yayifupi kumapeto kwa zaka za makumi asanu ndi limodzi zotchedwa 'Ndilibe Pakamwa Ndipo Ndiyenera Kufuula,' yomwe mwachidziwikire idakulitsa kutengera kwa 21stmoyo wazaka zana.

Wodzidalira amadziwa kuti ali ndi pakamwa komanso mawu, koma amasankha mawu awo pang'ono pokhapokha atakhala ndi chowonjezera chomwe chingapangitse zokambirana zomwe zingalimbikitse onse omwe akutenga nawo gawo kupitilira zomwe anganene.

makhalidwe amuna amafuna mwa mkazi

9. Siziwonjezera Paphokoso Lonse Lachigawenga

Pamzere wa kumvetsera , munthu wotsimikiza amayesetsa kupewa mitundu ingapo yamagulu olumpha, apo ayi ndizosavuta kutengeka ndi mafunde okwiya komanso kukwiya komwe kukuvutitsa dziko lapansi masiku ano, ndikubwezeretsanso malo otetezeka kumakhala kosavomerezeka nthawi zonse.

Izi sizikutanthauza kuti munthu wabwino samapanga mawu awo kapena kuyesetsa kuti asinthe.

Osatengera izi, ali ndi mawu amphamvu ndendende chifukwa samakhala nthawi zonse m'makutu a wina, kuyankhapo pazolemba zilizonse, kapena kubwereza nkhawa za vuto lililonse.

Anthu omwe ali ndi chiyembekezo amayang'ana mayankho, amapeza mayankho ake, ndikugawana mayankho ake ngati kuli kofunikira.

10. Amasangalala Ndi Moyo Wakuthupi Monga Momwe Zauzimu

Munthu wowoneka bwino m'moyo wanu sangakhale chitsanzo cha ungwiro wakuthupi, koma ndibwino kuti azichita khama nthawi zonse kuti matupi awo azichita zoposa kungowasunthira m'chipinda china.

Ndi kubetcha kwabwino komwe amasangalala ndi zophikira. Komanso kugonana. Ndi kusamba nthawi yayitali. Ndipo mosakayikira chisangalalo chosatha cha kuyabwa kwakanda bwino.

Kusinkhasinkha ndi kutengeka mtima ndikokongola, koma, m'malo molimbana ndi zosangalatsa za thupi, pamakhala chiyembekezo chambiri pakuyamikira zodabwitsa zomwe mabiliyoni amathero amitsempha ndi zolandilira zomwe timakhala nazo zimapereka.

11. Kubweretsa Kubwezeretsa

Kukhazikika pantchito kumatha kuchepa.

Kuti akhalebe wopitilira muyeso, munthu wotsimikiza adzabwereza zosankhazi tsiku lotsatira, ndi lotsatira, ndi zina zotero, chifukwa kukhala wolimba mtima pakati pamawu olimbana, magawano sikophweka.

Ayeneranso kupirira mawu osalabadira, chifukwa 'kukhala ndi chiyembekezo' kumakhalabe ndi malingaliro osakhala oti kukhala gawo limodzi kuthawa, gawo limodzi kukhala osazindikira, ndipo gawo limodzi kunyengedwa chiyembekezo.

Koma kuti tikhale otsimikiza, sitiyenera kungovomereza kuti tili mumdima ponseponse, koma mwawona icho, kenako sankhani kukankhira motsutsana nacho.

Munthu amene ali ndi chiyembekezo amasankha kufikira zina zakuwala pakufunika kuzipatsanso mphamvu: abwenzi, okonda, aphunzitsi, onse omwe amawoneka ngati akuwala magetsi m'njira zawo.

Kukhala wotsimikiza ndichinthu champhamvu, kulimba mtima, komanso kuthandiza ena. Ndichomwe chimapangitsa kuti dziko lapansi lisakhale kanthu koma minga tikamaleka kununkhiza maluwa. Ngati maluwa onse omwe timayandikira atha kukhala okoma chonchi.