Zizindikiro 12 Zodziwikiratu Wina Akukukondani (Osangokhala Wochezeka)

Tonse tinakhalapo kale - mukuganiza kuti wina akukukopani, chifukwa chake mumachita kusuntha ndikuwomberedwa.

Zikupezeka kuti anali kungochezeka!

Kodi munawerenga bwanji zikwangwani zolakwika kwambiri?



Chabwino, ndi zophweka kwambiri kuposa momwe mungaganizire, ndichifukwa chake tapanga chitsogozo chothandiza ichi kuti mutha kusiyanitsa kukopana ndi kungokhala ochezeka.

1. Amawonekeratu kuti sali pa banja.

Sinthani vutoli - ngati mukuyesa kuti wina adziwe kuti muli nawo, mungatani?



Mutha kuyamba ndi kufotokoza momveka bwino kuti simuli pabanja.

Ngati anena kuti sanakwatirane, komabe mochenjera kuti asiya pazokambirana, akufuna kuti mudziwe - pazifukwa.

Iyi ndi njira yawo yakudziwitsani zomwe malire awo (kapena kusowa kwawo) - akufuna kuti mudziwe kuti mutanthauzire zochita zawo ngati kukopana osati kungokhala ochezeka.



Wina kukhala wochezeka Sangamve kufunika kowulula zaubwenzi wawo, kapena atha kutchula wokondedwa wawo podutsa.

2. Akuzama nanu.

Mukamacheza kwambiri, mutha kuzindikira kuti ayamba kufunsa mafunso azambiri, kugawana malingaliro anzeru, ndikufunsani malingaliro anu pamitu ina yomwe imawakhudza.

Iyi ndi njira yawo yodziwira momwe mungakwaniritsire ndi moyo wawo, komanso kukudziwitsani kuti ali ndi chidwi.

Zachidziwikire, mutha kukhala ndi macheza akuya ndi mnzanu wapamtima, koma ngati munthuyu akuchita chilichonse kuti asonyeze kuti amakukondani ndipo amakukondani komanso malingaliro anu, pali mwayi wabwino kwambiri kuti amakopeka nanu!

Wina kukhala wochezeka amatha kumamatira kuzokambirana zazing'ono kapena mitu yazokambirana zomwe sizikhala zachinsinsi.

3. Amayang'ana maso ambiri.

Kuyang'ana m'maso ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yodziwitsira wina kuti mumawakonda, chifukwa chake ngati munthu amene mukumuganirayo achoka kuti akupatseni maso ambiri, mwina amakusangalatsani.

Anthu ambiri amayang'ana m'maso, koma ngati muwona kuti akuyesetsa kuti akuyang'anireni, mutha kukhala otsimikiza kuti amakukopani osati kungokhala ochezeka.

Wina kukhala wochezeka sikukuyenera kuti muziyang'anitsitsa kwa nthawi yayitali. Ndizachilengedwe, m'malo mwake, kuti maso awo azungulirazungulira mchipinda kapena pazenera asanabwerere kwa inu.

4. Matupi awo amapereka.

Pali chifukwa chomwe anthu ambiri amaphunzirira zolankhula ndi thupi! Momwe timakhalira, zomwe timachita ndi mikono yathu, ndi momwe timapangira matupi athu zonse ndi zizindikiritso zomwe zimawulula momwe ife kwenikweni mverani za munthu yemwe tikucheza naye.

Ngati muli ndi mnzanu wapamtima kapena wachibale, nonse muwonetsa chilankhulo chazizira kwambiri.

Ngati munthu amene mukuganiza kuti angakukondweretseni akuwoneka kuti akuchita zinthu mosiyana ndi inu kuposa anzanu, pali chifukwa.

Mutha kuzindikira kuti amayang'ana matupi awo kwa inu, atha kuloza mapazi onse mbali yanu (izi zikutanthauza kuti amakusamalirani ndipo akufuna kuyandikira!), Kapena atha kumangoyendayenda, akusewera ndi tsitsi lawo kuyesera kuti ndikupatse chidwi chako.

Ngati akudzigwira okha, kunyambita milomo yawo kapena kumenyetsa ma eyelashes, mwachitsanzo, amakukondani!

Mofananamo, ngati ayamba kuchita zomwe mukuchita ndikutsanzira zochita zanu (izi zimatchedwa 'mirroring'), ali mwa inu.

Wina kukhala wochezeka amakhala kapena kuyimirira mofanana ndi bwenzi - kumasuka, kutsamira, osakhudza nkhope zawo kapena tsitsi lawo.

5. Amakusamalirani kwambiri.

Kodi mumamva ngati amakusamalirani kwambiri kuposa anzanu ambiri?

Ngati akukopa iwe, mosakayikira udzawonetsetsa. Adzachita chidwi ndi zomwe mukunenazo ndipo adzangokhalira kukopana kotero kuti sangakhale pafoni yawo, kukawona anthu ena, kapena kuyang'anitsitsa pakati pa zokambirana zanu!

M'malo mwake, azikuganizirani kwathunthu - ndipo kokha inu.

Wina kukhala wochezeka idzagwira anthu angapo ngati muli pagulu kapena mulole kuti malingaliro awo asochere pazokambirana.

6. Akukuthamangitsani.

Kodi mumamva ngati mukunyengedwa kapena kuthamangitsidwa? Ngati mumakhala omasuka nazo, izi zimatha kukhala zabwino! Ngati mumawakonda, ndibwino kwambiri kukopana motere.

Mwinanso amayesetsa kukuwonani, kutumiza mameseji pafupipafupi, kapena kupeza zifukwa zokukhudzirani.

Ngati akuyesetsa kuti azicheza nanu komanso kucheza nanu, pali mwayi wabwino kwambiri kuti amakusangalatsani ndipo amakukondani.

Wina kukhala wochezeka sadzakusaka kuti upeze zowonjezerapo akangokuwonani akakuwonani.

7. Amachita mosiyana ndi ena kuposa ena.

Amakhala bwanji pakati pa anthu ena? Iyi ndi imodzi mwanjira zabwino zodziwira momwe wina akumvera za inu!

Tonse takhala pagulu limodzi ndi wina ndikumverera kuti ndife apadera komanso osiririka, kokha kuwawona ndi anzawo ndikuzindikira kuti ali otero ndi aliyense! Sikumva bwino, koma kumakuthandizani kudziwa komwe mwaima.

Mofananamo, mutha kuzindikira kuti amakutsegulirani kwambiri kuposa momwe amachitira ndi anthu ena, kapena kuti amangokukhudzani.

Zindikirani momwe amachitira ndi anthu ena poyerekeza ndi inu ndipo mupeza msanga malingaliro awo enieni.

Wina kukhala wochezeka amachitira aliyense mofananamo.

8. Amakusambirani zotamanda.

Zachidziwikire, abwenzi komanso abale amatiyamikira, chifukwa chake ichi sichizindikiro chodziwikiratu kuti wina amakukondani ndipo akufuna kukukopani.

Koma, mudzazindikira posachedwa ngati winawake ndi kukukondani ndi momwe amakuyamikirani.

Mwinanso amachita chilichonse kuti akupangitseni kumva bwino, kapena angakudabwitseni ndi ndemanga yokondeka pa chovala chanu.

Amatha kukutchulani mobwerezabwereza zinthu zomwe amakonda monga inu mwamanyazi, mwina kukuuzani momwe maso anu aliri abwino, kapena momwe mabubu anu aliri abwino!

Ngati akupanga ndemanga zomwe mwina anzanu sakanachita, mutha kukhala otsimikiza kuti akukopa nanu ndikuyesera kukudziwitsani kuti akufuna kukhala oposa anzawo chabe.

Wina kukhala wochezeka atha kusiya kuyamika mobwerezabwereza, koma sizingakhale zachizolowezi ndipo mwina sizingakhale zoyipa (pokhapokha atakhala choncho ndi aliyense).

9. Amakhudzidwa kwambiri nanu.

Mofanana ndi chilankhulo cha thupi, momwe wina amakukhudzirani ndi chisonyezo chodziwikiratu cha momwe amamvera ndi inu.

Zachidziwikire, mwina mumakhudza anzanu mukamacheza, chifukwa chake kupukutira pang'ono mkono sikutanthauza chikondi chenicheni! Kukhalitsa pang'ono, komabe, kungakhale lingaliro kuti pali zina zomwe zikuchitika.

Chenjerani ndi kukhudza kwa ntchafu, mabampu - ndi ngakhale phazi pang'ono pansi pa tebulo.

Ngati akupeza zifukwa zokukhudzani, mwina kukhalabe ogwirako kwa nthawi yayitali kuposa mwachibadwa komanso 'mwangozi' kukutsutsani nthawi zambiri, amakukondani kwambiri!

Afuna kukhala pafupi nanu ndipo apeza chifukwa chochitira izi, monga kusuntha tsitsi pankhope panu, kusewera ndi zodzikongoletsera zanu, kapena kupumitsa dzanja lawo pa bondo lanu kwa mphindi zochepa.

Wina kukhala wochezeka sikuyenera kuti ikupatulitseni kuti mumve kukhudza kwina, ngakhale atha kukhala okhudzidwa ndi aliyense kuphatikiza inu.

10. Zonsezi ndizokhudza kutsatira.

Kukopana sikutanthauza kukhala chochitika chimodzi chokha! Nthawi zambiri zimachitika mosalekeza, ndichifukwa chake kutsatira ndi chizindikiro chabwino choti muziyang'anira.

Ngati munthu amene mukumuganizirayo akuyesetsa kuti azikacheza nanu pafupipafupi ndikutsatira tsikulo ndi mawu, amakukondani.

Akuyesera kukopana ndikudziwitsani kuti ali ndi chidwi. Aliyense atha kupita pachibwenzi, koma anthu amangotumiza uthenga pambuyo pake kapena kunena tsiku lina ngati angakulemekezeni.

Ngati akuyesetsa kuti alankhule nanu, akuthamangitseni ndi malingaliro ena ngati m'modzi mwa inu waletsa chibwenzi, kapena kubwerera ku nthawi yomwe mudakhala limodzi, akusangalala!

Wina kukhala wochezeka atha kulumikizana nanu, koma mawonekedwe azotsatira izi atha kukhala achidule komanso owonekera bwino.

11. Amakusekani kwambiri.

Kusekerera kwina kapena kupendekera pang'ono kumatha kukhalanso chizindikiro cha kukopana. Iyi ndi njira yawo yocheza nanu modekha ndikudziwitsani kuti amakukondani.

Ngati zachitika mwanjira ya 'pally' kwambiri, atha kukhala kuti amakuwona ngati bwenzi (ngati amakuseka chifukwa cha mawonekedwe ako, mwachitsanzo). Koma ngati akupanga nthabwala zokongola ndikuseka nanu kwambiri, mwina akuyesera kukopana.

Kungakhale kovuta kwenikweni kudziwa ngati wina akungosewera ndi inu, chifukwa chake, ngati muwona kuti wina akukusekani kwambiri, ndi bwino kuyang'ana zizindikilo zina (monga zomwe zili pamndandandawu) kuti muwone momwe akumvera.

Wina kukhala wochezeka sikutheka kukuseweretsani mwanjira yosewera yomwe ikuwonetsa kukopa.

12. Amapeza zifukwa zakuyankhulira.

Mwina apeza zifukwa zokhala nanu nthawi, kapena nthawi zonse amawoneka akusowa yanu thandizani makamaka.

Ngati apitiliza kubwera kwa inu kudzafuna zinthu zomwe angapeze mosavuta kuchokera kwa munthu wina, akuyesera kukopana.

Atha kukhala kuti akupempha thandizo kusamutsa nyumba, ngakhale makolo awo amakhala pafupi ndipo adzawapatsa, kapena akufunsani malingaliro anu malo abwino oti mupite mtawuniyi, ngakhale Google ilipo kuti ikuthandizireni.

Ngati apeza upangiri wanu kapena thandizo pakafunike kutero, akukopani nanu osati kungokhala ochezeka, tikhulupirireni.

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