Zizindikiro za 12 Za Ubwenzi Wodzipereka (+ 6 Zinthu Zikutanthauza Chiyani Kwa Inu)

Mawu oti kudzipereka amangoyenda moyipa, ndipo kuwopa kudzipereka ndichinthu chomwe aliyense amalankhula masiku ano.

Kumbali inayi, anthu ena amagwiritsa ntchito dzinalo mopepuka, osazindikira zomwe zimatanthauza kudzipereka kwenikweni kwa winawake.

Ngati muli pachibwenzi ndipo mukuganiza kuti mawu oti 'odzipereka' amagwiradi ntchito kwenikweni, mwafika pamalo oyenera.



Maubwenzi odzipereka atha kukhala munjira zosiyanasiyana. Banja lililonse lili ndi ufulu wokhazikitsa malamulo awo pankhani yakukhala kapena kukhala ndi mkazi mmodzi motsutsana ndi omwe sali pabanja.

Komabe, nkhani yabwino ndiyakuti pali zizindikilo zambiri zakuti muli pachibwenzi chodzipereka chomwe chimagwira kwa aliyense wokongola, kulikonse malire anu bodza koma momwe ubale wanu umagwirira ntchito.



Nawa ochepa chabe mwa iwo.

1. Mumathera nthawi yochuluka limodzi.

Moyo wamakono ndi wotanganidwa ndipo takhala ndi zinthu miliyoni miliyoni zomwe timachita. Chifukwa chake ngati mukuwononga zidutswa za nthawi yocheza ndi munthu m'modzi, ndichizindikiro chabwino kuti nonse ndinu odzipereka kuubwenzi.

Zowona, mutha kukhala nthawi yayitali limodzi mukakumana koyamba ndipo onse atengeka ndikusangalala ndi zatsopano komanso zosadziwika, koma ngati mupitiliza kukhala nthawi yayitali limodzi mukadziwana, chimenecho ndi chisonyezo chakuti nonse ndinu odzipereka.



Palibe amene adzagwiritse ntchito nthawi yawo yocheperako kuti akhale ndi munthu yemwe safunitsitsa kukhala naye paubwenzi.

2. Mumapita kutchuthi limodzi.

Kupuma pang'ono kumatha kupangidwira mwachidule ndipo ndi njira yabwino ya kudziwana wina ndi mnzake pachiyambi pomwe, koma tchuthi chokwanira chomwe chimatha masiku opitilira ochepa chimayenera kukonzedweratu.

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Kuphatikiza apo, muyenera kukhala otsimikiza kuti mumakonda winawake woti angafune kukhala nawo tsiku lonse limodzi masiku angapo motsatizana.

Mukuwononga ndalama zonsezi chifukwa mukufuna kusangalala ndikupanga zokumbukira, ndipo simutaya nthawi yanu yamtengo wapatali ya tchuthi ngati munthu amene mukupita naye sali wofunikira kwa inu.

Bonasi yopita kutchuthi limodzi ndikuti mumawonana kuchokera kumalo anu abwino, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti mumamudziwa bwino mnzanu.

3. Mumaganizira za iwo m'sitolo.

Ngati muli pachibwenzi ndi munthu wina, mwina amakhala pafupi kwambiri ndi malingaliro anu nthawi zambiri.

Anthu ena samawonetsa chikondi chawo pogula zinthu zazing'ono kwa mnzake, ndipo ndizabwino, chifukwa adzakhala ndi njira zina zazing'ono.

Koma, ngati mungapeze kuti mukuwatolera zinthu m'sitolo pafupipafupi kapena kuwagula mopusa, mphatso zazing'ono zomwe mukuganiza kuti azikonda, kapena kungotola zinthu zomwe mukudziwa kuti amafunikira, kapena amakuchitirani zomwezo, ndiye izi ndizovuta.

4. Mumalankhula zamtsogolo.

Moyo ndi waufupi, ndiye ngati mukupanga zokonzekera zamtsogolo zomwe zimaganizira munthu winayo, ndi chizindikiro chabwino kwambiri kuti muli mmenemo kwa nthawi yayitali.

Anthu samalankhula zazinthu izi mopepuka, kupatula nthabwala zoyambirira za zomwe ana anu angatchulidwe.

Kukambirana zenizeni za momwe tsogolo lanu lingawonekere ndi chinthu chomwe chingachitike pakati pa anthu awiri omwe akuganiza kuti atha kukhala ndi mnzake.

5. Mumaperekana nsembe wina ndi mnzake.

Zinthu zomwe zingawoneke ngati zabwino kwambiri kuchitira wina aliyense padziko lapansi, kupatula mayi anu, ndizachilengedwe kuti inu mumchitire mnzanu.

Mukadzipereka kwa wina, sizachilendo kumchitira zinthu zomwe zingakusokonezeni osaganiziranso.

Kaya ndikuwanyamula, kukonzanso mapulani anu, kapena kungogwiritsa ntchito nthawi yanu yamtengo wapatali kuchita zinthu zomwe alibe nthawi yochitira, kuti mukufunitsitsa kuwachitira izi komanso iwo ndiabwino kwambiri chikwangwani.

6. Mumawauza zinsinsi.

Kodi mwadzipezapo mukuwakhulupilira zinthu zomwe anthu ochepa okha amadziwa za inu? Kodi amadziwa za zokhumba zanu zachinsinsi, kapena mwagawana nawo mafupa omwe ali mchipinda cha banja lanu nawo?

Kodi mudagawana zokumbutsa zopweteka kuyambira ubwana wanu, kapena mudalankhulapo momwe mudapwetekedwera m'mabwenzi apitawo?

Kukhala wokonzeka kutero kukhala osatetezeka pamaso pa amene mumamukonda ndi chizindikiro chotsimikiza kuti mukukonzekera kukhala mchinthu ichi kwanthawi yayitali.

7. Simumatha nthawi yolankhula.

Kodi mumamva ngati kulibe nthawi yoti mukambirane zonse zomwe mukufuna? Pamapeto pa tsiku lomwe simunalankhule nawo, muli ndi zosintha miliyoni ndi imodzi za iwo?

Mumachita chidwi ndi malingaliro a wina ndi mnzake ndikukhala ndi zokambirana zazitali, zakuya zomwe zikutanthauza kuti mumasowa nthawi. Mukadapanda kudzipereka kwa wina ndi mnzake, simukadakhala mukugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yamtunduwu kapena mphamvu zamaganizidwe.

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8. Mumalimbikitsana moyo wina ndi mnzake.

Anthu awiri akuwonetsa kudzipereka kwa wina ndi mnzake safunika kuthera maola 24 patsiku.

Amakhala ndi chidaliro chokwanira pachibwenzi chomwe safunikira kukhala limodzi nthawi zonse, ndipo amazindikira kuti ndikofunikira kuti onse awiri azisungabe moyo wawo, mabwenzi awo, komanso zokonda zawo.

9. Simungathe kuwakwanira.

Ngati wokondedwayo alidi wofunikira kwa inu, zimakhala zachizolowezi kuwachitira zinthu zazing'ono nthawi zonse.

Mumawachita zambiri momwe mungathere, komabe mumamvabe kuti simukuchita zokwanira kuti muwawonetse momwe mumawakondera.

10. Muli pamwamba pazithunzithunzi zoyambirira za wina ndi mnzake.

Pomwe nonse nonse mozindikira mumakhala ndi nthawi yocheza ndi anzanu komanso abale anu ndipo simukufuna kusiya maubwenzi amenewo, mumayikiranabe patsogolo.

11. Mumapanga mapulani kuzungulira tchuthi.

Sikuti aliyense amathera nyengo yachikondwerero (kapena tchuthi china) ndi banja lake, koma ngati inu kapena mnzanu muli ndi miyambo ndi achibale anu kapena anzanu akale koma mukuwonetsabe kufunitsitsa kwanu kuti musinthe nthawi yocheza, ndiye kuti mulibe nkhawa pazodzipereka.

12. Ndinu 'ife'.

Chilankhulo chomwe timagwiritsa ntchito zokha, osaganizira, chikuwonetsa kwambiri momwe timamvera.

Mukamva mnzanu akunena za inu ngati gulu, kapena mumadzipeza mukuganiza kuti waphatikizidwa pempho chifukwa m'malingaliro anu mumabwera ngati phukusi, ndicho chizindikiro chabwino kuti nonse awiri ndinu gulu.

Kodi Ubwenzi Wodzipereka Umatanthauza Chiyani Kwa Inu?

Pomwe anthu ena angawone kudzipereka molakwika kapena kuwopa, kukhazikitsa ubale ndi munthu wina kungakhale chinthu chosangalatsa.

Koma ikakhala yatsopano, imatha kukhala yolemetsa pang'ono.

Takhazikitsa zizindikiro za ubale wodzipereka, koma izi zikutanthauza chiyani kwenikweni?

Ngati ili ndi gawo latsopano kwa inu, mwina simungakhale otsimikiza za momwe kudzipereka kwanu kwa munthu wina kungawonetsere m'moyo wanu, komanso zomwe zingakhudze nonse awiri.

Kodi kudzipereka kwenikweni kungasinthe bwanji moyo wanu?

1. Mumapanga zisankho ziwiri.

Dziko silikuzungulira pa inu nokha. Kuyambira pano, kapena mwina kwa moyo wanu wonse, zisankho zomwe mungapange, zazikulu kapena zowoneka zazing'ono, zitha kukhudza wina.

Umenewo ndiudindo waukulu, ndipo china chake chomwe chimafunikira malingaliro okhwima omwe amatha kuyang'ana kupyola zosowa zawo zadyera.

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Ichi ndi chifukwa chimodzi chabwino kwambiri chomwe anthu ambiri amalangizira kuti musayanjane ndi anthu omwe mudakali achichepere, komanso musanakhale ndi mwayi wokhwima.

2. Mumalemekeza zosowa za mnzanu mofanana ndi zanu.

Mu chibwenzi chodzipereka, mumayamba kuwona zosowa za mnzanu monga zofunika kwambiri monga zanu. Ngati fayilo ya ubale ndi wathanzi , pasamakhale malo olamulira pakati panu, ndipo ulemu wathunthu .

3. Kunyengerera kumakhala kofala.

Mukakhala osakwatiwa, kunyengerera sikuli gawo lalikulu kwenikweni m'moyo. Koma pamene muli awiri a inu mukukhudzidwa, simungakhale ndi njira yanu nthawi zonse.

Mwayi kuti muvomereze pazinthu zambiri, koma padzakhalanso zinthu zambiri zomwe mumasiyana. Muubwenzi wodzipereka, posachedwa mupeza kuti kulingalira sing'anga wosangalala kumakhala njira yatsopano yochitira zinthu.

4. Amakhala bwenzi lanu lapamtima.

Mukamakhala nthawi yochuluka chonchi ndi munthu wina ndikumvetsetsa za psyche yawo, ndizosatheka kuti iwo asakhale bwenzi lanu lapamtima, komanso wokondedwa wanu ndi mnzanu.

Amakhala achinsinsi anu, othandizira anu, komanso phewa lanu loti muzilirira.

5. Mumakhala banja la wina ndi mnzake.

Zinthu zikamapita patsogolo, mumayamba kuwonana ngati banja, pamwamba pa china chilichonse.

Ndinu ofunika kwambiri pamoyo wina ndi mnzake kotero kuti, monga banja, simungaganize dziko lopanda iwo, ngakhale atakukhumudwitsani mosalephera.

Banja lawo limakhala banja lanu, ndipo banja lanu limakhala lawo, ndipo mumavomereza, kulumikizana ndi kapena, nthawi zina, kulolerana ndi okondedwa awo chifukwa cha iwo.

6. Mumamenya nkhondo, koma mukudziwa kuti zonse zili bwino.

Kudzipereka kwa wina ndikudziwa kuti akudzipereka kwa inu kumatanthauza kuti mutha kuwonetsa zokhumudwitsa zanu ndikusemphana nawo osadandaula kuti zikutanthauza kuti ubale wanu watha.

Banja lirilonse limakhala ndi mikangano, koma ndi mabanja olimba, odzipereka omwe amadziwa kuti mikanganoyo sikutanthauza kanthu poyerekeza ndi chikondi chomwe ali nacho kwa wina ndi mnzake.

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