Makhalidwe 19 Omwe Amawulula Munthu Wosamva Mtima

Tikamanena kuti wina ndi wozizira, sitimangotanthauza kutentha kwake.

Nthawi zina timatanthauza kuti ali ndi mtima wozizira. Koma kodi izi zikutanthauza chiyani kwenikweni?

Pofuna kukuthandizani kumvetsetsa, Nazi zinthu 19 zomwe munthu wamtima wopanda chidwi angawonetse.





1. Amasamala ndipo samva za ena.

Anthu amtima wozizira nthawi zambiri samamvera chisoni mavuto a anthu ena kapena zowawa zawo.

Amakonda kusowa chisoni chomwe chimapangitsa kudzichepetsa kwathu patokha.



Chifukwa ndiwodziyimira pawokha, zimawoneka ngati zosatheka kulingalira kuti si aliyense amene amamangidwa mwanjira imeneyi.

Sazindikira kuti anthu ena amatengera anzawo komanso kuwamvera chisoni, ngakhale alendo omwe.

Iwo ali otanganidwa kwambiri ndi dziko lawo lomwe lilibe chisamaliro, ubwenzi, komanso malingaliro osatetezeka.



2. Ali patali ndi patali.

Anthu omwe ndi ozizira amatha kukhala amanyazi kapena otayirira poyamba, koma nthawi zambiri amangokhala opanda chilichonse.

Nthawi zonse samakhala ndi malingaliro ofanana ndi anthu ambiri, motero mwina zimawavuta kukhala m'magulu a anthu kapena samangokhala ndi chidwi chokwanira kulowa nawo chilichonse.

Nthawi zambiri, ndizomaliza. Amakonda kutalikirana ndi chilichonse chomwe chimakhudza kwambiri kapena kulumikizana.

3. Amadziwika kuti ndiopambana komanso opanda chifundo.

Nthawi zambiri pamakhala chinthu chodzitukumula pozungulira anthu amitima yozizira - amadzimva ngati kuti amakuposani ndipo amachita ngati kuti simukuyenera nthawi yawo.

Amatha kukhala opanda chifundo nthawi zina - izi zimangokhala kuti samangoganizira zabwino zokha kapena malingaliro a anthu ena.

Amatha kukhala ankhanza mwadala, ndikuchita zomwe zingakukhumudwitseni.

4. Nthawi zambiri amakhala odzikonda komanso odzipangira okha.

Mwina mwazindikira kuti anthu ambiri amisala yozizira amadzilakalaka okha - amadziona ngati apamwamba kuposa ena onse.

Amakonda kukhulupirira kuti ndi ofunikira modabwitsa, okongola, komanso osangalatsa, ndipo safunika kugwadira kuyanjana koyambira kwa anthu monga kuyankhula kwakung'ono kapena kumvera ena chisoni.

Alibe chidwi chenicheni ndi anthu ena, mwina sangakufunseni zambiri za inu nokha, ndipo, mukawaululira zambiri zaumwini, samvera kapena kusamala.

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5. Amakhala osadalirika komanso osadalirika.

Kudalira munthu wozizira ndizovuta kwambiri - simudziwa ngati akumvetsetsa kufunikira kwanu kwa zinthu, chifukwa zikuwonekeratu kuti alibe zinthu zambiri wokondedwa.

Mwina sangasamale chifukwa chomwe mukufuna kusungira chinthu china chinsinsi, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti zikhale zovuta kudziwa ngati muyenera kuwadziwitsa kapena ayi.

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Mofananamo, nawonso samakhulupirira anthu owazungulira. Nthawi zambiri amawona zoyipa kwambiri mwa anthu ena - kachiwiri, akudziwona kuti ndiopambana wina aliyense - ndipo samapanga mabwenzi apamtima ambiri kapena maubale.

Kusowa kolumikizana kwa anthu komanso kumvera ena chisoni kumatha kulimbikitsanso chifukwa chake sakhulupirira anthu ena.

6. Amadzidalira komanso amakani.

Chifukwa amawona omwe amawazungulira ngati onyozeka, amangodzidalira kuti athe kuchita zinthu.

Kudzidalira kumatha kukhala kwanzeru m'njira zambiri, ndipo nthawi zambiri kumawonetsa kudzidalira komanso kuthekera.

Mwa anthu amitima yozizira, komabe, imalumikizidwa ndikuti amaganiza kuti ali bwino kwambiri kuposa wina aliyense - pachilichonse.

Amakonda kukhala ouma khosi nawonso. Kupatula apo, amadziwa bwino, sichoncho?

7. Akulamulira.

Zotsatira zoyipa zodzidalira komanso kuwuma mtima ndikuti anthu ozizira amakonda kukhala ndi zinthu m'njira yawoyawo.

Izi zimawonekera ngati machitidwe owongolera chifukwa sikuti amangoganiza kuti amadziwa bwino, samasamala za momwe anthu ena amawonera kuti sawopa kuwayang'anira.

Adzayankhula za ena, kunena kuti zinthu zachitika mwanjira inayake, ndikupanga zisankho pagulu lonse ngakhale ambiri akufuna china chake.

8. Amatha kupereka anzawo.

Anthu omwe ali ozizira mwamalingaliro kusowa chifundo , ndipo samawona nthawi zonse zochita mofananamo ndi omwe ali ndi miyezo yachifundo.

Mwakutero, amatha kunyenga iwo owazungulira, mwina mwadala kapena mwanjira ina.

Amatha kuchita zonse zomwe angathe onyoza kapena kukupweteketsani, chifukwa choti angathe ndipo sasamala za zotsatirapo zake.

Momwemonso, mwangozi atha kuchita kena kake kuti kakukhumudwitseni chifukwa iwowo sangakhumudwe ngati wina awachitiranso zomwezo.

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9. Ndi olakwira mobwerezabwereza.

Chifukwa chake, achita zinthu zingapo zomwe simukugwirizana nazo. Ndiye ali ndi aliyense, sichoncho?

Inde, anthu amtima wozizira amatha kupitilizabe kuchita zomwezo mobwerezabwereza.

Monga tanenera, iwo alibe milingo yofanana ndi yomwe anthu ambiri amakhala nayo, chifukwa chake musamve chisoni kukhumudwitsa omwe ali pafupi nawo.

Mwakutero, atha kupitiliza kukuchitira zoyipa, kapena kukuvulazani mofananamo mobwerezabwereza. Izi nthawi zambiri zimakhala chifukwa chokhulupirira kuti ndiwe wotsika - kuti umayenera kupwetekedwa, pafupifupi.

Amatha kukubera mobwerezabwereza ndipo samasamala kuti zimakupweteketsani, kapena amatha kufalitsa mphekesera za inu, mwachitsanzo.

Amadziwa zomwe akuchita ndipo ali ndi zolinga zoyipa.

10. Amayenda msanga.

Ngati mungakwanitse kupanga a zikuwoneka kulumikizana kwenikweni ndi munthu wamtima ozizira, musadabwe ngati ikutha mwadzidzidzi.

Amathamangira kukusiyani kuzizira ndipo amanyalanyaza momwe zingakukhumudwitseni.

Izi ndichifukwa chakusowa kwamtundu uliwonse wamalingaliro kapena kulumikizana kwauzimu zomwe amapanga ndi iwo owazungulira.

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11. Ndiopyola malire.

Anthu ouma mtima sachita manyazi ndi zotsatira za machitidwe awo kotero kuti nthawi zambiri amatha 'kukutengerani' kuti mukhale ofanana nawo.

Angakupangitseni kuti muzichita zinthu zomwe simumva bwino nazo, kapena kukakamiza dzanja lanu momwe mungachitire ndi momwe mumalankhulira.

Amatha kukupalamula kapena kukuchotsani zinthu, zonse chifukwa angathe.

12. Ndizowononga.

Chifukwa samawona kufunikira kwa zinthu zomwe anthu ena amawona kuti ndizopatulika, alibe vuto lowawononga.

Zochitika pabanja zitha kuwonongeka, maubwenzi atha kusweka, ndipo maubale a anthu ena atha kukhala zosokoneza chifukwa cha 'zosangalatsa.'

Anthu ozizira samayamikira kapena kuvomereza momwe anthu ena akumvera, chifukwa chake musakhale ndi vuto lochita zinthu zomwe zingasangalatse miyoyo yawo.

13. Aphwanya mzimu.

Ngati munakhalapo paubwenzi ndi munthu wamtima wozizira, mudzadziwa momwe amakupwetekerani nthawi zina.

Ndizosokoneza kusewera nawo, osadziwa ngati mumawakhudzadi komanso ngati amakukondanidi kapena ayi.

Angakupangitseni kudzidalira nokha kapena angakukakamizeni kuti mudzikayikire nokha.

Adzakhala otsimikiza kukhalabe pamwamba ndikukhala apamwamba, osasamala momwe machitidwe awo angawonongere iwe komanso kudzidalira kwako.

14. Amakhala osakwatiwa mpaka kalekale.

Savutikapo kwenikweni chifukwa cholumikizana ndi aliyense ndipo amakhala otanganidwa komanso odzikonda kuti akhale pachibwenzi chabwino.

Mwakutero, anthu ambiri amtima wozizira amakhala osakwatira kwa nthawi yayitali, kapena amakhala ndi 'maubale' achidule kwambiri, opanda tanthauzo.

Kulephera kwawo kukhulupirira kapena kudalirika kumapangitsa kuti zikhale zovuta kuti adzipereke.

15. Amadana ndi machitidwe achikondi chenicheni.

Chifukwa chakuti amakhala otalikirana ndipo samachita chidwi ndi zinthu za mumtima, munthu wopanda nkhawa amakonda kunyansidwa ndi chiwonetsero chilichonse chachikondi makamaka pagulu.

Kukumbatira kuli ngati Kryptonite kwa iwo ndipo amakankhana kapena kubwerera nthawi iliyonse munthu wina akafuna kulowa.

Sakhala omasuka ndi chikondi cha mtundu uliwonse, koma kuwonetsa thupi kumakhala kovuta makamaka chifukwa amawawona ngati kukondana kosafunikira.

16. Amawawona ena monga opyola malire.

Chotsatira china cha kusakonda kwawo malingaliro ndi momwe akumvera ndikuti amaganiza kuti aliyense ali nawonso tcheru.

Chifukwa chake akalankhula kapena kuchita chinthu chomwe chimakwiyitsa wina, samatha kumvetsetsa zomwe amawona ngati kutengeka.

M'malingaliro awo, amangokhala akuseka kapena kunena zowona, kungosankha kwawo mawu kapena momwe amalankhulira ndizomwe zimamupweteketsa wolandirayo.

17. Sapepesa kawirikawiri.

Ponena za kukhumudwa, munthu wamtima wopanda malingaliro si onse omwe anganene kuti akupepesa kapena kuyesera kuti apange munthu amene wamukwiyitsa.

Chifukwa chakuti sangakhumudwe ndi chilichonse chomwe achita, sawona chifukwa chomwe akuyenera kupepesera pazomwezo.

Ngati apepesa, pali mwayi wabwino kuti akuyang'ana kuti apeze kena kake m'malo mongodzimvera chisoni chifukwa cha zomwe adachita.

18. Iwo ndi osadalirika.

Mawu ozizira samatanthauza zambiri chifukwa sangathe kudaliridwa kuti azisunga.

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Amatha kupanga malonjezo opanda pake podziwa kuti adzawaphwanya chifukwa saopa kapena kumva zotsatira zakutero.

Amatha kutsuka mosavuta osatembenukira ku china chake kapena kusasamalira china chake chomwe ati adzasamalira. Sangowona zinthu izi ngati chinthu chachikulu.

19. Samasamala zomwe ena amaganiza.

Chimodzi mwazifukwa zomwe ali osadalirika ndichakuti sasamala momwe anthu ena amawawonera.

Kaya ndi osasamala kapena akutali kapena owopsa, sangayese kulingalira malingaliro a ena ngati ovomerezeka choncho amakhala ngati madzi kumbuyo kwa bakha.

Mwanjira ina, ichi ndiye chiyembekezo chokhala munthu wamtima wopanda chidwi chifukwa anthu ambiri sangakonde kusamala kwambiri zomwe anthu ena amaganiza.

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