Zinthu 20 Zomwe Muyenera Kudziwa Musanakhale Ndi Chibwenzi Ndi Mtsikana Yemwe Amaganizira Kwambiri

Atsikana ena amalimbana ndi malingaliro opitilira muyeso amalingalira za zinthu kuposa momwe mungaganizire. Amatha kudzetsa zovuta zawo, koma zomwe zimakhala zofunikira kuzipirira.

Ngati mukukhala kuti muli pachibwenzi ndi mtsikana wotere, pali zinthu zina zomwe muyenera kudziwa za iye…

1. Amatha kuunikanso zomwe mumanena, chifukwa chake samalani ndi chilankhulo chomwe mumagwiritsa ntchito.

Mutha kukhulupirira kuti chilankhulo chimasinthika ndikuti mawu amatha kusinthana osakhudza tanthauzo, koma woganiza mopambanitsa amakhala weniweni.





Izi zikutanthauza kuti amasankha mawu omwe mwasankha kuwagwiritsa ntchito ndikupereka tanthauzo lake kwa iwo. Adzawona kusiyana pakati pa 'zabwino' ndi 'zazikulu' kapena 'inde' ndi 'chifukwa chiyani?' choncho sankhani zomwe munganene mosamala.

Onetsetsani kuti mwalingalira zomwe mumanena musanazinene - nthawi zina lilime laling'ono limatha kuyika ubongo wake kuti agwire ntchito kuti amvetse zomwe mukutanthauza komanso kufunikira kwake pakakhala ubale wanu.



2. Atha kuunikanso zomwe mumachita, chifukwa chake samalani momwe mumachitira.

Si mawu anu okha omwe ali ndi chidwi ndi woganiza mopitirira muyeso, ndizomwe mumachita.

Adzawona mawonekedwe obisika momwe mumakhalira, pagulu lake komanso mukasiyana.

Kuyang'ana foni yanu mukakhala naye, kutalika kwa nthawi yomwe kumakutengerani kuti muyankhe pazolemba zake, mphatso zomwe mumamugulira, zocheperako zomwe mumapanga mukamakumbatirana pa sofa kapena mutagona pabedi, zomwe mumayembekezera zophika / kuyeretsa / kutsuka - izi ndi mitundu ya zinthu zomwe zimatha kuyambitsa malingaliro m'malingaliro mwake (ngakhale amangoyimira nsonga ya madzi oundana).



Dziwani kuti, m'malingaliro mwake, chilichonse chomwe chili ndi tanthauzo chimaphatikizidwa, chifukwa chake yesetsani kukhala ozindikira zomwe mungatumize komwe akukhudzidwa.

3. Amatha kufotokoza zakumbuyo nthawi ndi nthawi.

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Yembekezerani kumva mawu awa pafupipafupi mukakhala pachibwenzi ndi mtsikana yemwe amaganiza kwambiri. Tithokoze kulankhulana kwake kosatha, sizachilendo kwa iye kuti azikumbukira zakale - zomwe zimakhudzanso inu komanso kuyambira pomwe simunakumane koyamba - ndipo akufuna kukambirana za izi.

Izi zimabweretsa mavuto awiri: choyamba, kodi mukukumbukira zomwe akunena, ndipo, chachiwiri, akutulutsa izi motani?

Ngati simukumbukira, ndibwino kuti mukhale owona mtima ndikunena choncho - musanamize kuti mukukumbukira, chifukwa nthawi zambiri amakupezani mwatsatanetsatane.

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Ngati mungathe, yesetsani kuzindikira msanga mawu ake ndipo Zizindikiro m'thupi ndikuyesera kudziwa chifukwa chake akubweretsa kukumbukira. Kodi wakhumudwa? Kodi ndi wokondwa? Kodi akufuna kuseka china chake chomwe chidamukhumudwitsa kale? Kodi akuyesera kudziwa kuti bwanji ngati ndi chifukwa chiyani?

Kukhala ndi chidziwitso chokhudzana ndi kukumbukira kukumbukira kukuthandizani kusintha mayankho anu.

4. Nthawi zambiri amakhala wopanda nkhawa, chifukwa chake khalani okonzeka kutsogolera.

Zikafika pazosankha zomwe ziyenera kupangidwa, malingaliro ake owunikira kwambiri amatha kumulepheretsa kupanga chisankho.

Mukamufunsa kuti ndi malo ati odyera omwe akufuna kupitako, atenga nthawi yayitali akuwayesa ndikuyesa kudziwa zomwe amakonda. Koma izi zimangowonjezera kukwiya kwake ndikumusiya mu boma lotchedwa kufooka kwa ziwalo.

M'malo mwake, nthawi zambiri amasangalala mukamadzipangira nokha chisankho kuti asazilingalire.

Musaganize, komabe, kuti mutha kupanga zisankho zazikulu nokha kapena kuti mutha kupanga zisankho pamoyo wake pomwe sizimakukhudzani. Sadzakuyamikirani chifukwa cha ichi.

5. Akufunsani malingaliro anu kwambiri, choncho khalani okonzeka kupereka.

Chifukwa cha zovuta zomwe amakhala nazo popanga zisankho, nthawi zambiri amafunsa malingaliro anu pazinthu ndipo akufuna kumva yankho loona.

Akakuwonetsani chiwonetsero chake cha mafashoni kwa inu kuti musankhe chovala choti muvale, onetsetsani kuti mumamusamala ndi kuti mumapereka lingaliro lomwe likuwonetsa zomwe mukuganiza.

Kunena kuti 'mudzawoneka bwino mwa aliyense wa iwo' kumatha kumveka ngati yankho loyenera m'malingaliro mwanu, koma kumbukirani, akumva kuwawa pachisankhocho ndipo akusowa thandizo pakupanga.

6. Adzakhala ndi chilakolako chofuna kudziwa zambiri.

Woganiza mochulukira nthawi zambiri amafufuza zambiri zazinthu zina momwe angathere pofuna kumvetsetsa zonsezo.

Adzakhala mosangalala akuyang'ana zinthu pa Google kapena kufunsa zambiri mukamayankhula. Khalani okonzeka kukulitsa mayankho achidule omwe mungakhale nawo pamafunso ake chifukwa, nthawi zambiri, kukhala wachidule sizomwe amafuna.

Angakhale wosangalala kwambiri mukamayankha ndikupereka yankho mwatsatanetsatane chifukwa zimamupatsa mwayi wolowerera akakhala ndi chonena. Zidzamuthandizanso kuti akupangireni chithunzi cha inu, zomwe mumakonda ndi zomwe simukuzikonda, momwe mumaganizira zazinthu - chidziwitso chofunikira chomwe angapereke nthawi ina.

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7. Adzafunsa mafunso.

Chifukwa cha kukonda kwake kuganiza komanso chidwi chake chofuna kudziwa zambiri, amamufunsa mafunso pazinthu zina kuti azimvetsetse momwe angathere.

Sadzatenga nthawi zonse mawu a wina ngati uthenga wabwino adzafunsa chifukwa chiyani komanso motani. Amvera malingaliro, koma adzafuna kudziwa chifukwa chake munthuyo amaganiza choncho.

Chifukwa chake khalani okonzeka kufotokoza chifukwa chake mukuganiza china kapena mukumverera mwanjira inayake.

8. Zosadziwika nthawi zambiri zimamuwopa, chifukwa chake angafunike kukankha pang'ono.

Ngakhale ali ndi malingaliro omwe amagwira ntchito nthawi yochulukirapo kuti apeze tanthauzo la zinthu, atha kukhala kuti sakonda kwambiri zokumana nazo zatsopano. Kuperewera kwa kudziwiratu kumatha kumuwopseza kuposa momwe angachitire anthu ena ambiri.

Sikuti nthawi zonse amanyinyirika poyesa zinthu zatsopano, koma angafunike thandizo pang'ono kuti atengepo gawo loyamba. Atha kudziona kuti akusangalala, koma muyenera kukhalapo nthawi zonse ngati angawone zochuluka kwambiri ndipo angafune kulimbikitsidwa.

9. Adzaganizira zomwe mukuganiza - zambiri.

Monga gawo lakufunafuna zambiri, mtsikana yemwe amaganiza mopitirira muyeso nthawi zambiri amadzipeza akuyesera kuti alowe mkati mwanu kuti mudziwe zomwe mukuganiza.

Nthawi zina amakufunsani zomwe mukuganiza, ndipo muyenera kupewa kuyankha 'chilichonse' ngati yankho lanu. Izi sizingamupangire iye kupirira mpaka mutamupatsa yankho lokwanira.

Nthawi zina, amagwiritsa ntchito zomwe mumanena komanso zomwe mumachita (monga tafotokozera pamwambapa) kuti aphatikize zomwe akuganiza kuti mukuganiza.

10. Awerenga molimbika pamalemba ake / maimelo / macheza maulendo miliyoni.

Chifukwa chakuti amaganiza mopitirira muyeso, amayang'anitsitsa kulankhulana komwe amalembera kuti alakwitse. Angafunikire kuwerengapo kambirimbiri asanakhutire kuti yakonzeka kutumiza.

Monga wolandila mauthenga ngati amenewa, muyenera kukhala okonzeka kudikirira pamene akupeza malingaliro ake ndikuwayika m'mawu. Ngati mukucheza kudzera pa Facebook kapena Whatsapp, mwachitsanzo, musadandaule ngati akunena kuti akulemba kwa nthawi yayitali mwina akungowonetsetsa kuti zonse zikuwerengedwa momwe akufuna kuti ziwerengedwe.

Kwa iye, kulumikizana molakwika sikusangalatsa chifukwa kumangomupatsa malingaliro ake kuti azilingalira kwambiri.

11. Amatha kukhala wosalakwitsa nthawi zina, ngakhale atakhala kuti sakufuna kukhumudwitsa.

Nthawi zambiri, mabodza samabwera mosavuta kwa mtsikana amene amaganiza mopitirira muyeso. Kupatula apo, asananame, amakhoza kuganiza za njira zonse zomwe zingabwererenso kudzamuluma.

M'malo mwake, akhoza kukhala wowona mtima mpaka kufika poti amuwone ngati wosazindikira. Sangakonde kukhumudwitsa, koma angakonde kumamatira ku chowonadi m'malo mongodandaula pokumbukira ukonde wabodza.

Muyenera kukumbukira izi pamene akukuuzani mwangozi kuti muli ndi mphuno yayikulu kapena kuti malaya anu osokedwa pamikono amawoneka oseketsa.

12. Amakondwera mosavuta ndi kuthekera, koma amakhumudwanso chimodzimodzi ngati zinthu sizingachitike monga momwe amayembekezera.

Chiyembekezo cha chinthu chosangalatsa mtsogolomo chitha kugwira mwachangu momwe malingaliro ake amaganizira mwatsatanetsatane mobwerezabwereza.

Ngati ndi nthawi yomwe zinthu zidzasokonekere, komabe, amakhumudwitsidwa kwambiri. Maganizo ake azikhala motalikirapo kuposa ambiri, ndipo ayamba kudabwa kuti bwanji sizinapite monga momwe anakonzera komanso zomwe akanachita mosiyana.

Chinthu chabwino kwambiri chomwe mungachite ndikukhala wokondwa pamene akusangalala ndikumumvera chisoni pakakhala kukhumudwa.

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13. Zinthu zikalakwika, adzaganiza zotsatira zoyipa kwambiri.

Chifukwa chakuti malingaliro ake amayesetsa kuti asaganize, amatha kuzindikira chilichonse chomwe chingachitike.

Chinachake chikasokonekera, komabe, chizolowezi chake chimakhala choti azingoyang'ana pazolakwika zonse.

Amalakwitsa kuntchito - akuganiza kuti abwana ake amuthamangitsa. Amamva kupweteka mthupi lake - amadandaula kuti mwina ndichachikulu. Awiriwa simukugwirizana - amayamba kukayikira ngati mukuyenerana.

Muzochitika izi, ndi ena onga iwo, muyenera kukhala mawu azifukwa zotonthoza malingaliro ake. M'machitidwe awa, malingaliro ake osanthula sakufanana ndi malingaliro anzeru, koma onetsetsani kuti muponda mosamala mukamamuuza izi.

14. Zinthu zikadzakula, iye amasangalala kwambiri.

Kumbali inayi, china chake chikakonzekera, adzakondwera kumapeto kwenikweni kwa sikelo. Kudziwa kuti zinthu zayenda bwino ngakhale anali ndi nkhawa zomwe anali nazo kale, amatha kumasula mtolo ndikudzichotsera nkhawa.

Muzochitika izi, mudzagawana naye chisangalalo ichi ndipo adzakhala nthawi zomwe mumakonda bola mukakhala limodzi.

15. Amati pepani ndikutanthauza.

Palibe amene ali wangwiro, komabe anthu ena amawoneka ngati akuganiza kuti ali Amatsutsa zolakwa zilizonse ndikuganiza kuti ndi vuto la wina.

Atsikana omwe amaganiza mopitirira muyeso sali ngati awa konse. Ndi chizolowezi chawo chongoganiza za china ndi china chomwe chimawapangitsa kukhala opambana pankhani yakunyamula manja awo ndikuvomereza kuti alakwitsa.

Chifukwa chake akanena kuti wapepesa, amatanthauzadi. Wakhala nthawi akuganizira zochita zake ndipo adazindikira kuti akanatha kupewa kukupweteketsani.

Kuphatikiza apo, chifukwa sadzilola kuiwala, adzakhala bwino kuposa ambiri popewa kusagwirizana komweko mtsogolo.

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16. Amalemba zolemba ndikulemba mindandanda.

Mwinanso mudakumana ndi oganiza mozama musanazindikire kuti nthawi zambiri amakhala olongosoka komanso osasankha kulemba manotsi kapena kulembetsa mndandanda ndipo atha kutengera zomwezo.

Adzachita izi poyesetsa kuti asayiwale malingaliro ambiri ofunikira omwe ali nawo ndikuthandizira kuti azigwira ntchito padziko lapansi pomwe ubongo wake umakhala kale ndi malingaliro ena.

Sitiyenera kudabwa ngati ayesa kukuphatikizani mu ntchito zake zamagulu. Muyenera kusanja ma diaries, kukonzekera nthawi yakudya sabata yotsatira, ikani zikumbutso za zinthu pafoni yanu, kapena kumamatira ku rota yoyeretsa.

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17. Adzasangalala kuganiza nthawi zambiri, koma adzavutika kuti asiye ngakhale atapanda kutero.

Ndikofunika kuti musaganize kuti mtsikana yemwe amaganiza mopitirira muyeso samapeza chisangalalo china. Amakhala wokondwa kwambiri m'malingaliro ake nthawi yayitali, koma idzafika nthawi yomwe amalakalaka atayimiranso.

Ndibwino kukambirana zisonyezo zomwe akufuna kusiya ndi njira zilizonse zomwe angapeze potero. Malingaliro ake akayamba kutumphukira ndikuchita china chosakhala choyenera, kuthekera kwanu kuzindikira zizindikilozi kumathandiza kwambiri kuti athane nazo.

Ichi ndi chimodzi mwazifukwa zomwe muyenera kumvera kuti ali ndi chidwi chambiri ndikuyesetsa kuti mumumvetse bwino momwe mungathere kuti mukhale kumbali yake pomwe akuvutika kuthana ndi vuto lake komanso chinthu chimodzi chochepa chomwe mungaganizire .

18. Amasangalala ndi zinthu zomwe zimamupangitsa kuti atuluke m'mutu mwake nthawi ndi nthawi.

Akakhala ndi kuganiza kokwanira tsiku limodzi, atha kukhala ndi chidwi chopeza zosokoneza mwa buku, kanema, pulogalamu ya pa TV, nyimbo, kapena china chilichonse.

Mwina simukufuna kuwonerera ziwonetsero zomwezo, ndipo mwina simungakonde kuwerenga, koma ngati zinthuzi ndizothandiza kutonthoza malingaliro ake, ndiye kuti muyenera kuyamba kuzilandira - mwina ngakhale kuzikumbatira.

Kuphatikiza apo, ngati munganene zina zomwe zingamuthandize kuti asokonezeke kwakanthawi, ndiye kuti akuyamikirani kwambiri chifukwa cha izi. Tsiku kunyanja, matikiti owonetsera, kuyenda m'nkhalango, chilichonse chomukankhira iye pakadali pano - onetsetsani kuti mwakonzekera mwatsatanetsatane momwe angathere kuti asadandaule.

19. Mwinamwake iye adzakhala wosagona bwino.

Chimodzi mwazovuta zoyipa zomwe zimakhalapo chifukwa choganizira kwambiri ndikuti akafika pakama, azimitsa magetsi, ndikukhazika mutu wake pamtsamiro, nthawi yomweyo sagona.

Nthawi zambiri amaponya ndikutembenuka kwinaku akuyesera kuti akwaniritse zofunikira zonse zomwe zachitika tsikulo ndikukonzekera zinthu zonse zofunika zomwe mwina sizingachitike tsiku lotsatira.

Ngakhale atagona, angavutike kuti akhalebe choncho. Ndizotheka, chifukwa chake, kuti nthawi zina amakhala atatopa ndipo muyenera kudziwa izi.

Kutopa kumatha kuchitira anthu zinthu zosiyanasiyana, koma nthawi zambiri kumawapangitsa kukhala olekerera komanso okwiya msanga.

20. Nthawi zina amatha kuyamikira mukamuuza kuti akuganiza mopitirira muyeso, kapena akhoza kukhumudwa nazo.

Zingakhale zokopa kuti mumuuze pomwe malingaliro ake akuwoneka kuti akhazikika pachinthu china kwakanthawi ndipo akhoza kukuthokozani chifukwa chomupangitsa kuzindikira izi.

Komabe, palinso chiopsezo chomveka choti atha kukhumudwa ndi mawu anu. Zitha kupangitsa kuti malingaliro ake agwire ntchito molimbika pamene akuyesera kuzindikira zomwe mumatanthauza. Mwina mukumupeza wokhumudwitsa mwina mukuganiza kuti ndiopusa mwina mukutsutsana ndi zomwe akunena izi ndi mitundu yamaganizidwe yomwe tsopano ilowe mumutu mwake.

Kukhala pachibwenzi ndi mtsikana yemwe amakonda kwambiri kuganiza kumasiyana , koma palibe chilichonse pano chomwe chingaletse chisangalalo ndi chikondi kupanga ngati ziyenera kukhala. Tsopano popeza mukudziwa zina mwa zomwe atsikana oterewa akuyenera, muyenera kukhala oyenera kuwazindikira ndikuwamvetsetsa bwino zomwe zimachitika m'mutu mwake.

Zina mwazikhalidwezi zimakhala zoyandikira kwambiri mukamakumana koyamba, koma dziwani kuti, popita nthawi, atha kuzama ndikusewera gawo limodzi muubwenzi wanu. Pamapeto pake, ena amatha kutha kwathunthu - mwina nonse awiri - ndipo amangowonekera pomwe pali anthu ena omwe akukhudzidwa.

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