Zizindikiro Zachisoni Chikondi Chomwe Mumawakonda Chichepa

Kugwa mchikondi ndizabwino, kupereka momwe mumamvera mukubwezeretsedwadi, inde. Tonsefe timadziwa za agulugufe ndi magalasi amagetsi komanso chisangalalo chochuluka chocheza ndi munthu wapadera ameneyu. Koma chimachitika ndi chiyani ngati malingalirowo atha ndipo mukutsala mukuganiza ngati mukufunabe kukhala pachibwenzi? Nazi zizindikilo zisanu zosonyeza kuti mwina mukukondana…

1. Mwafufuza Nkhaniyi

Ngati mwalingalira zokwanira kuti mufufuze mayankho, pali mwayi wolimba kuti zinthu sizili bwino pachibwenzi chanu pakadali pano. Zomverera zimatha kusintha pakapita nthawi, koma tonse tikukhulupirira kuti malingaliro athu achikondi kwa ena adzakhala kwamuyaya. N'zomvetsa chisoni kuti izi sizili choncho nthawi zonse.

Popeza ndakhala mbali zonse ziwiri zandalama pano, sindingathe kutsindika kufunika kokhala oona mtima. Mutha kuganiza kuti kuuza munthu wina kuti simukudziwa momwe mukumvera ndichinthu choyipa, ndipo mukunena zowona. Choipa kwambiri, komabe? Kuwakankhira kutali popanda kufotokozera, kuwachotsa pang'onopang'ono ndikuyembekeza kuti 'atenga lingaliro,' kapena, choyipitsitsa, kubera.



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Kuonera itha kukhala yakuthupi kapena yamaganizidwe, m'malingaliro mwanga. Ngati malingaliro anu kwa wokondedwa wanu akuchepa, kapena mukuyamba kukonda winawake china , lankhulani musanachite kanthu. Ngati zinthu zasintha kwambiri kwa inu, pali mwayi woti mnzanu wazindikira kale, kapena akukumana ndi zotere. Inde, mudzamva ngati munthu woipa mukamacheza izi, ndipo mwina mumadzimva kuti ndinu wolakwa, koma simunachite chilichonse cholakwika. Ndibwino kwambiri kukhala ndi macheza awa mutakhala osalakwa kuposa pomwe mudadutsa kale mzere. Ndikhulupirire.

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Kumbukirani pamene zonse zomwe adachita zinali zabwino komanso zosangalatsa? Ndikudziwa, zitha kumveka ngati kalekale, koma tonse tinakhalako. Mukakhala pachibwenzi ndi wina , chilichonse chomwe amachita ndi chodabwitsa komanso chosangalatsa, ndipo mumadzipeza mukuthamangira kwa anzanu zazing'onozing'ono. Ndani winanso akadalankhula kwa nthawi yayitali nthawi yomwe mnzanu adakubweretserani khofi kuti mugwire ntchito? Ine ndikudziwa, woyenera ukwati. Ngati simukupezanso zinthu zonse zazing'ono zokongola, zitha kukhala chizindikiro kuti mukugwa mchikondi ndipo chibwenzicho sichikuyenda bwino.



Kulekerera zolakwitsa ndizokwera kwambiri mukayamba chibwenzi ndi munthu wina, ndipo zowonera zokhala ndi duwa zimatha kukhala dalitso m'masiku oyambirira amenewo. Pakapita kanthawi, zinthu zidzayamba kuchepa ndipo mwina mudzadzipeza mukuyenda limodzi, ndikukangana pafupipafupi, inde. Koma ngati mukuyamba kupeza kuti zazing'ono zikufikiradi kwa inu, malingaliro anu mwina asintha pang'ono ndipo itha kukhala nthawi yowunikiranso.

Mutha kupeza kuti mavuto ang'onoang'ono amakukwiyitsani kwambiri pano, ndipo mwina kumakhala kovuta kukhululuka zolakwa kapena malingaliro olakwika. Momwemonso, mwina mwasiya kudziimba mlandu pazinthu zomwe ndiwe kuchita cholakwika. Kusowa kwa chifundo kumeneku ndichizindikiro chakuti mukumva mosiyana. Zinthu zimasintha mwachilengedwe pakati paubwenzi uliwonse, koma nthawi zambiri mapiriwo amakhala osavuta, osangalatsa m'malo momangokhala okhumudwa ndipo, nthawi zambiri, ngakhale.

3. Ndinu Ogula pa Window

Tiyeni tikhale owona mtima - ambiri a ife tapeza anthu ena okongola ngakhale tikukondana kwathunthu ndi anzathu. Palibe cholakwika pakuyamikira momwe munthu wina akuwonekera, koma ngati mwaganiziradi zokhala ndi munthu wina, zinthu zikuwonekeratu kuti sizabwino kunyumba.



Monga ndanenera pamwambapa, kuchitapo kanthu pazokopa zilizonse kapena momwe mungakondere wina ndi chodabwitsa kwambiri mukamakhala pachibwenzi - china chomwe ndikuganiza kuti tonsefe tikhoza kugwirizana. Izi zati, anthu ambiri amadziwononga okha maubale awo mwa kumpsompsona munthu wina kapena kutenga zinthu pang'ono kwambiri pa Snapchat ndi anzawo ogwira nawo ntchito kapena alendo omwe adakumana nawo omwe adakumana nawo usiku. Ngati mukukayikira kuti mukufufuza mosazindikira chibwenzi chanu, ndi nthawi yoti muzindikire ndikusankha mwanzeru.

Mwina mumatseka, kapena mumalankhula ndi mnzanu. Ngati mukumva izi kale kale, mwina ali ndi chidziwitso pankhaniyi. Nthawi zonse kumakhala bwino kukambirana zinthu musanachite zinthu ngati izi. Posakhalitsa, zokambiranazo zidzakhala zopweteka, koma sizingafanane ndi zokambirana zomwe mungakhale nazo ngati china chake anachita zichitike ndi munthu wina.

Mnzanu mwina atenga kusintha kwamakhalidwe anu ndipo mukuyenera kuti afotokozere chifukwa chake zili choncho. Si bwino kuwasiya akuda nkhawa za inu kusokera ndikuwonongeratu kudzidalira kwawo chifukwa choti simunathe kukhala olimba mtima. Ganizirani zomwe mungafune ngati maudindowo asinthidwa ...

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4. Kugonana Kukucheperachepera

Kwa anthu ena, kugonana sikofunikira. Kwa ena, ndiye maziko a ubale wabwino. Kulikonse komwe mungakhale pamiyeso ya libido, kuchepa kwa kuchuluka kwa kugonana komwe mukukhala ndikadali chizindikiro chochenjeza kuti malingaliro anu atha kusintha. Kaya simukupezanso mnzanu wokongola, kapena mumadzimva kuti ndinu wolakwa chifukwa chogona nawo pomwe mukudziwa kusintha kwakumverera kwanu, ndichinthu chomwe muyenera kukumana nacho.

Ngati mukupezeka kuti mukukana kugonana ngakhale kuti ndiinu amene mukuyambitsa, ndi nthawi yolankhula ndi mnzanu. Mukasiya zinthu kwa nthawi yayitali, zikuipiraipira nonse awiri. Sinthani vutoli. Ingoganizirani kuti ndinu omwe mukuyesetsa kwambiri - mumazolowera moyo wabwino wogonana, koma zindikirani kuti zinthu zikuyipiraipira. Mumayamba kuyesa kusangalatsa wokondedwa wanu, kaya mwa kuvala, kuyesa zinthu zatsopano, kapena kudziyika nokha kunjaku. Mukupitirizabe kukanidwa ndipo simukudziwa chifukwa chake. Osangokhala ndi mantha pazomwe zikutanthauza pachibwenzi chanu, kudzidalira kwanu kudzagwa pansi kwambiri.

Kudzimva wosafunika komanso wokanidwa kumayamba kukhudza mbali zonse za moyo wanu ndipo kumangoyambitsa mavuto pakati panu ndi mnzanu. Tsopano talingalirani kuti ndizo inu kuchititsa chidwi choterechi mwa mnzako. Eya, samva bwino kwambiri! Dzitengereni msanga ndikufotokozera mnzanu momwe mukumvera. Izi zidzakhala zowopsa, inde, koma ziteteza zopweteka zambiri ndikuchepetsa 'zomwe zalakwika ndi ine ?!' kuwonongeka kwa mnzanu. Chilichonse chomwe mungakhale, mutha kudziwa momwe mungapitirire limodzi, kapena kupeza njira yopatukana.

5. Masks Osapezeka Mtima Umakula. Kulondola?

Kumayambiriro kwaubwenzi wanu, mumafuna kukhala ndi wina ndi mnzake nthawi zonse. Mumakhala nthawi yayitali limodzi, ndipo enawo amatumiza Zowonjezera ndi zolemba zokongola. Simungakwanilitsane, ndipo zimamveka bwino.

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Choyamba, mumasiya tsitsi pang'ono pomwepo, kenako amakusiyirani mswachi ndipo mwadzidzidzi, kabudula amakhala kiyi. Kaya mwasamukira limodzi kapena mwangokhala m'matumba a wina ndi mnzake, mukufuna kukhala ozungulira iwo nthawi zonse ndikusowa mzake pomwe simuli.

Ngakhale zili bwino kukhala odziyimira pawokha, kufuna kupatula nthawi yochulukirapo kuposa masiku onse ndi chisonyezo chakuti malingaliro anu akusintha. Ngati simukupezekanso kuti mukusowa wokondedwa wanu, china chake chasintha. Chowonadi chakuti kulumikizana pakati pa inu ndi mnzanu kwasintha kukuwonetsa kuti momwe mumamvera nanunso.

Mutha kudzipeza kuti simukuyankhanso mameseji mwachangu, kapena kukhala woyamba kuwatumiziranso. A sinthani chikondi ndiubwenzi ndichinthu chachikulu, kaya ndimasom'pamaso kapena mukasiyana. Izi zitha kukhala chifukwa cha zifukwa zambiri, kuphatikizapo kupsinjika, ntchito, ndi zina zofunika kuchita, komabe muyenera kudzifunsa nokha tanthauzo la ubale wanu.

Chitani Zoyenera

Chokhacho choipa kuposa kuuzidwa kuti wina wakukondani ndikuuzidwa kuti sanakondane nanu kwakanthawi. Izi zipangitsa mnzanu kumva kuti akunamizidwa, ndipo ayamba kukayikira zonse zomwe mwanena ndi kuchita posachedwapa, akulekanitsa ubale wanu wonse ndikudzipusitsa. Lankhulani ndi mnzanu zakukhosi kwanu - mwina zingakhale zopweteka nonse, koma muyenera kuthana ndi vutolo.

Kuyankhula za izi mwina kukupangitsani kuzindikira kuti simukufunanso kukhala nawo, kapena kukupatsani cheke chenicheni ndipo mudzazindikira kuti mwatsala pang'ono kutaya wokondedwa wako . Sizingakhale zokambirana zosavuta, koma ndi zomwe ziyenera kuchitika, chifukwa cha nonse awiri. Kukhala pachibwenzi pazifukwa zolakwika ndikungowononga nthawi ya aliyense, ndipo sizabwino kwa aliyense wa inu.

Mukayamba kukayikira momwe mukumvera, gawani nawo. Komabe mukumva komanso chilichonse chomwe mungasankhe, khalani oona mtima. Muyenera kukhala ndi ubale wanu, osachepera.

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