Njira 6 Zoyandikira Kusinthasintha Kwa Kusintha Kwa Mnzanu

Khalidwe lachilengedwe limakhala lachilengedwe. Tonsefe tili ndi nthawi komwe ife kukwiya , wokwiya, kapena wopanda pake ndi dziko popanda chifukwa chomveka. Nthawi zina kusinthaku kumachitika chifukwa chosowa tulo, njala, mahomoni, kapena chifukwa choti tinali nawo tsiku loipa .

Ngakhale zili zabwinobwino kuti aliyense azingokhala ndi nkhawa nthawi ndi nthawi, anthu ena amakhala osinthasintha pafupipafupi komanso osasinthasintha kuposa momwe mumachitira a Joe wamba. Ngati mnzanu ndi m'modzi mwa anthuwa, moyo ungakhale wotopetsa komanso wosasangalatsa. Mutha kudzipeza mukuyenda pamahelles ndikumangokhalira kudzifunsa kuti kuphulika kotsatira kudzachitika liti. Mutha kudabwa momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito kukhala pansi pa denga limodzi ndi 'Jekyll ndi Hyde.'

Nawa maupangiri angapo kwa inu pankhani yakufikira kusinthasintha kwamaganizidwe a mnzanu.



1. Dziwani Ngati Wokondedwa Wanu Afunikira Thandizo Labwino

Mnzanu wosasunthika akhoza kukhala ndi vuto lalikulu monga kukhumudwa, kuda nkhawa kapena vuto la umunthu lomwe limafunikira thandizo la akatswiri. Pali njira zambiri zomwe zingapezeke pothana ndi zovuta zamavuto komanso kukhumudwa.

Ngati mukukhulupirira kuti mnzanu ali ndi vuto lomwe sangagwire yekha, yambani kukambirana zakupempha thandizo kwa mlangizi, wothandizira, kapena dokotala. Zingatenge kukambirana kangapo kuti mutsimikizire mnzanu kuti apeze thandizo, koma osataya mtima. Pali njira ndi malangizo omwe angakuthandizeni kwambiri kusintha moyo wanu komanso moyo wa mnzanu.



2. Tengani Udindo Pazomwe Mungachite Pazomwe Mumachita ndi Mnzanu

Kodi mudakulitsa mkhalidwe woipa wa mnzanu momwe mumamvera? Mukachita masewera olimbitsa thupi mnzanu akasintha, mwina mungakule kwambiri. Mwachitsanzo, kodi munakwiyapo wokondedwa wanu chifukwa chokhumudwa? Ndi chibadwa chaumunthu kumva choncho, koma uyenera kutenga udindo pazomwe umachita.

Simungathe kuwongolera zomwe mnzanu akuchita, koma mutha kuzilimbikitsa ngati simungadziwongolere nokha. Kuchita chidwi ndi momwe mungakhudzidwe ndi malingaliro anu kumawoneka ngati chinthu choyenera kuchita, makamaka kutentha kwanthawiyo. Komabe, yesetsani kukumbukira kuti zomwe mumachita zimapangitsa kusiyana kwakukulu m'litali ndi kulimba kwa kusinthasintha kwa mnzanu.

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3. Osasewera Masewera Awo

Simungathe kuwongolera machitidwe amnzanu kotero osayesa. Ganizirani pakuwongolera anu ndikukhala odekha. Musatenge kusinthasintha kwaumwini panokha . Wokondedwa wanu akukuwombani, koma chifukwa chakusinthaku mwina sichikukukhudzani.



Nthawi zambiri, anthu amiseche amayamba kuchitira anzawo zabwino. Nthawi zina zimakhala zosavuta 'kugonja' kapena kuchita chilichonse chomwe chingathetsere kusungulumwa. Mukachita nawo sewero , mudzalimbikitsa ena kupsa mtima kapena kupsa mtima mtsogolo. Mwayi wake, mnzanuyo akuyang'ana modabwitsa, momwe mungachitire. Mukadzipatula pakati pa sewero lomwe mnzanu akuyesera kuti apange, pamapeto pake sipadzakhala chikhumbo chofulumira choyambitsa machitidwe osasangalatsa poyamba. Anthu sangasinthe ngati 'alandilidwa' chifukwa cha zoyipa.

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4. Pangani Njira Yotsogola

Nthawi zambiri mumatha kuzindikira zomwe zimachitika pakusintha kwamnzanu. Mutha kuzindikira zina zoyambitsa zomwe zimawabweretsa kapena zochita zomwe zimawapangitsa kukhala abwinoko kapena oyipa. Mwachitsanzo, ndikakwiyira munthu wina, ndimafuna kuti mwamuna wanga amvetse koma osati thandizo lake. Adaphunzira izi pakapita nthawi, kotero m'malo mopereka mayankho (zomwe zimangondikwiyitsa), amangomvera ndikundiwuza kuti amvetsetsa chifukwa chake ndimamvera momwe ndikumvera. Adapanga njira pasadakhale. Inunso mutha kutero.

Mwinanso mnzanuyo amafunika kuti asiyane yekha kwakanthawi kapena kusokonezedwa ndi kanema wawayilesi yemwe amakonda kwambiri pakakhala vuto. Malingana ngati simukupatsa kapena kupatsa mwayi wokhalitsa, mwa njira zonse apatseni zomwe akufunikira. Mukamachita izi, nthawi zonse mumachepetsa kuchepa kwanthawi yayitali komanso kusasangalala kwanu.

5. Ganizirani Zomwe Mungasankhe

Pali nthawi zovuta muubwenzi uliwonse. Komabe, ngati wokondedwa wanu ali ndi chizolowezi chokhala wopanda nkhawa komanso kuleza mtima, kumvera ena chisoni kapena chikondi chikuwoneka kuti chikuwathandiza, ndipo moyo wanu ukuvutika chifukwa cha kusinthasintha kwa malingaliro, mungafunike kudzifunsa ngati mukufuna munthu ameneyu m'moyo wanu.

Pambuyo pokhala paubwenzi ndi munthu wosasinthasintha kwakanthawi, mwina mukudziwa momwe moyo udzawonekere. Ngati wokondedwa wanu akukuchitirani nkhanza kapena mwina, ikhoza kukhala nthawi yoti muchoke. Chisankhochi chikapangidwa posachedwa, kumakhala bwino kwa onse. Komabe, ngati mungasankhe kukhalabe, sankhani kukonda ngakhale pakusintha kwamaganizidwe. Yesetsani kuwona ndikukumbukira yemwe mudakondana naye ndikukumbukira zifukwa zomwe nonse mwakwanitsira mpaka pano.

6. Kumbukirani Kuti The Mood Adzadutsa

Kusinthasintha konse kumakhala kwakanthawi. Ndicho chifukwa chake amatchedwa 'kusambira.' Yesetsani kukumbukira kuti ngakhale zitakhala kuti zikhala kwamuyaya. Chofunikira ndikuti mupeze malo anu osangalala pomwe mnzanu ali wosasangalala. Mungafunike kuti mufike patali kuti muchite izi. Posakhalitsa mikhalidweyo iphulika, ndipo moyo ubwerera mwakale. Izi nazonso zidzachitika!

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Munthu wamavuto atha kukhala kuti akukumana ndi nthawi yovuta pamoyo wake, makamaka ngati kusasangalala sikwabwino. Wokondedwa wanu atatopa, kudwala, kuda nkhawa, kapena wosasangalala . Ngati ndi choncho, zomwe zimayambitsa vutoli zitatha, kusinthaku kumatha kuchepa. Wokondedwa wanu angafunikire kukhala kumvetsera ndipo anathandiza. Komabe, ngati mnzanu amakhala wokonda kuchita zinthu monyinyirika popanda chifukwa chomveka, pakhoza kukhala zochulukirapo.

Kumbukirani kuti pomwe muyenera kutero sonyezani chifundo kwa mnzanu, malingaliro anu alinso ofunika. Ngati wokondedwa wanu ndi wopondereza, simungalole kuti akuchitireni nkhanza. Gwiritsani ntchito malangizowo asanu ndi limodzi kuti mudziwe njira yabwino yochitira zinthu mosiyana ndi mnzanu.

Simukudziwa momwe mungathetsere kusinthasintha kwa mnzanu? Kambiranani pa intaneti ndi katswiri wokhudza ubale wa Relationship Hero yemwe angakuthandizeni kuzindikira zinthu. Mwachidule.

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