Zizindikiro za 7 Zomwe Mwamuna Wanu Akuvutika Ndi Peter Pan Syndrome

Kodi mudamvapo za mawu oti 'manolescent'? Ndi mawu aposachedwa, koma oyenera kufotokoza mtundu wina wamwamuna… yemwe, monga Peter Pan, safuna kukula . Ambiri aife mwina timadziwa munthu m'modzi ngati uyu - yemwe ndi wokongola kwambiri komanso wosangalatsa kucheza naye, koma wopanda ntchito ngati wamkulu.

Mwachiyanjano, zingakhale zovuta kuti muzindikire kuti mwamunayo ndi inu ganiza omwe munali pachibwenzi ndiwopeweratu, mwana wamwamuna wosavuta yemwe amakana kuyanjana naye.

M'munsimu muli zizindikilo zolimba zoti mnzanuyo siamunthu yemwe mumamuganizira kuti ndiamene, koma ndi wamtali, mwana waubweya mu suti yamwamuna m'malo mwake.





'Kukhala wamkulu' Kumamupanikiza

Kuledzera kwa mnyamatayu pachinthu chilichonse chosangalatsa komanso chopepuka kungakhale kosangalatsa pachiyambi cha chibwenzi, chifukwa kumamupangitsa kuseka kwenikweni kuti akhale naye. Akhoza kukudabwitsani kutha kwa sabata, kukukokerani kuti mukakhale ndi pikiniki ya pakati pausiku ku zoo, kapena kukakamira zikondamoyo za chokoleti ngati gawo la mpikisano wamasiku onse ojambula. Kwenikweni, kukhala ndi iye ndikwabwino chifukwa amakuthandizaninso kuthana ndi zovuta zonse, zokula msinkhu ndi maudindo omwe mumakumana nawo tsiku ndi tsiku.

Mikangano imabuka pamene nkhanizi zimafunika kuthana nazo, pomwepo amakwiya ndikukwiya. Atha kuzisiya zenizeni izi ndikukakamira kuti sizofunikira zonse, kapena kungodzipatula kuzinthuzo pomiza china chake chosangalatsa, monga masewera apa intaneti.



mungadziwe bwanji ngati mnzanu wakuntchito amakukondani

Chuma ndi kuchepa, nkhawa pantchito imafika kwa aliyense, ngongole zimachulukirachulukira, ndipo mavuto azaumoyo ndiosapeweka. Zinthu zonsezi zimapangitsa Mr. Manboy kubwereranso mkhalidwe wachinyamata wokonda kutengeka, chifukwa chake mwatsala ndi wachinyamata wandevu yemwe adzawononga ndalama zake pamankhwala osokoneza bongo kapena zochita m'malo mwa ngongole kapena kugula.

Satha Kuthetsa Mikangano. ZONSE.

Bambo yemwe ali ndi matenda a Peter Pan Syndrome nthawi zambiri amatenga nawo mkangano m'njira imodzi mwanjira izi:

1. Kuthawa: ayenda kapena kupondaponda zokambirana, kutuluka mnyumbamo, kapena kukadzitsekera mchipinda momwe amatha kudzisokoneza ndi masewera kapena kungodzipukuta pansi pa mulu wa mabulangete kulira ngati kamwana ka banja maola.



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2. Kubwezera: adzakweza ndikubweretsa zinthu zomwe akuganiza (kapena akudziwa) zomwe zingakukhumudwitseni 'kubwezera' pomupangitsa kukhumudwa. Kuvuta kumakhala kofala, monganso kuyitana mayina ndi / kapena kuponyera zinthu.

Popeza moyo ukhala wokhumudwa, ndikukangana sikungapeweke, izi ndi njira ziwiri zomwe mungakumane nazo ndi mwana wanu wamwamuna wa mnzanu. Wokondwa komabe?

Amavalabe Monga Mwana

Pali zambiri zoyenera kunenedwa za kuvala mwanjira yomwe imakupangitsani kumva bwino za inu nokha, koma ngati mnzanu ali ndi zaka 40 ndipo adavalabe zovala zomwe adavala ali wachinyamata, ndizocheperako.

Kusintha kalembedwe komwe amakondera msinkhu wake ndikwabwino: kukhala ndi chowonadi ndikofunikira, ndipo ngati mnzake akumva kukhala wosangalala kwambiri mu ma jeans, kucheza, komanso malaya osambitsidwa bwino a Morcheeba omwe akhala nawo zaka 25, ozizira. Chabwino, ali ndi chidaliro ndipo chitha kukhala chinthu chabwino. Ngati akana kugwira ntchito kulikonse komwe sikungamulole kuti avale chonchi, kapena ngati chovala chamtunduwu chimawoneka chovomerezeka pamaukwati, maliro, ndi zina zotero, ndizosokoneza.

Mwinanso mungakonde (nkhani ikupitirira pansipa):

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Amakhala Wokwera Kapena Kumwa Nthawi Yambiri

Akungosangalala, sichoncho? Chifukwa chake ndizabwino kwathunthu kuti adagwiritsa ntchito ndalamazo kugulitsa namsongole komanso vinyo wotsika mtengo kenako ndikuwonetsetsa kuti akuwonera Netflix kuti apeze zolemba zingapo. Kulondola.

Escapism ndi mchitidwe wofala pakati pa ana aamuna, chifukwa chake ngati ali mtundu 'wouka ndi kuphika' kapena kuyamba kumwa akangofika kunyumba kuchokera kuntchito (ngati ali ndi ntchito…), pali chifukwa chodera nkhawa. Kumwa ndi anzako kumapeto kwa sabata ndi chinthu chimodzi, koma ngati moona mtima simudziwa kuti mnzanuyo ndi wotani akakhala wosakhazikika, chabwino, ndizodabwitsa komanso kuda nkhawa pamilingo yosawerengeka.

Zofunika Kwambiri Zimasokonekera

Ayenera kukumbukiridwa kuti alipire renti yake mwezi uliwonse ndipo sazichapa zovala mpaka atachoka zovala zoyera, koma mutha kubetcha kuti watha milungu yambiri akufufuza zomanga ndi zovala zapadera za mikhalidwe yake ya World of Warcraft… yomwe wafikira mpaka kutchuka pomwe mumachita zinthu monga kukonza ngongole kapena kuyeretsa furiji.

Atha kudandaula ndikudandaula kuti akuyenera kupita ku sitolo kukatenga matewera kapena mankhwala ochapira zovala chifukwa izi zitha kukhala zopanda pake m'masiku ake, koma mutha kubetcha kuti sangakhale ndi vuto kupatula tsiku (kapena atatu) kuwonanso makanema onse a Avenger kuti awonetsetse kuti sanaphonye kalikonse nthawi yoyamba.

Sachita Gawo Lake Poyeretsa Nyumba

Pamene achikulire awiri achikulire agawana malo okhala, nthawi zambiri amayembekezeredwa kuti azigawananso ntchito zoyang'anira nyumba. Sizili choncho ndi mwana wamwamuna. Ndiye mtundu wa munthu yemwe makolo ake adachita zonse kuyeretsa kotero kuti sakanachita (zikomo, amayi ndi abambo!), Chifukwa chake tsopano sazindikira kuti malowa ndi khola lotentha, komanso alibe ganizirani kutsuka zovala kapena zingalowe.

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* Kulengeza kwautumiki kwa makolo: pomwe mukuganiza kuti mutha kuchitira mwana wanu zabwino zazikulu posamupangitsa kugwira ntchito iliyonse, mukumuwononga chifukwa cha mkazi aliyense yemwe angadzakhale naye mtsogolo. Kumbukirani izi.

Simungadalire Iye

… Pokhapokha ngati ndikunyamula mowa panjira kuchokera kuntchito, kapena china chilichonse chomwe akuwona kuti ndichosangalatsa kapena chofunikira. Ngati mungatsimikizire kuti chochitika china ndi chofunikira kwa inu, muyenera kupanga makonzedwe ake onse a inu pokhapokha mutamusangalatsa pamlingo wapa epic, sangapangitse kuti chichitike. Mofananamo, ngati pali china chake chofunikira chomwe chikufunika kuchitidwa, koma sakufuna kuthana nacho, azengereza, ndikupanga zifukwa zakuti sizingatheke, komanso / kapena kuzemba udindo wonsewo. Ayeneranso kuti azikudalirani, inde, makamaka pazachuma, koma ngati maudindo adzafunika kusintha, ataya zoyipa zake ndipo alibe lingaliro wtf yochita.

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Mfundo yofunika: ngati siyofunika kwenikweni kwa iye, siyofunika konse.

Zimatopetsa komanso kukhumudwitsa kuzindikira kuti ngakhale mutakhala banja, munthu yekhayo amene mungadalire ndi inu nokha. Tikukhulupirira kuti kuzindikira kudzayamba msanga, kuti muchepetse chibwenzicho musanakumane ndi zinthu monga kulera ana ndi kulipiritsa ngongole yanyumba nokha.

Pali zifukwa zambiri zomwe zingayambitse matenda a Peter Pan, kuyambira kusowa koyenera kuyambira ali mwana mpaka kusamvana kwamankhwala, koma njira zochepa kwambiri zosinthira. Ngati mnyamata wanu akuwonetsa zonse (kapena ngakhale zambiri) za mikhalidwe pamwambapa, muyenera kudzikonzekeretsa mtsogolo momwe mudzakhale kholo kuposa mnzake. Ngati izi zikukusangalatsani, ndiye kuti mwapambana lottery yaubwenzi. Ngati sichoncho ... chabwino, mungafunikire kukhala achilungamo ndi inu nomwe za zosowa zaubwenzi wanu, kenako ndikuwona ngati uwu ndi mgwirizano womwe ungakupangitseni kukhala osangalala.

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