Zinthu 8 Zoyenera Kuchita Mukamaphonya Winawake Zimapweteka

Kaya kutha kapena kufedwa, aliyense wakumanapo ndi chisoni chachikulu.

Ndipo ambiri a ife takhala tikukhalidwapo komwe sitingathe kuwona okondedwa athu okondedwa kwa nthawi yayitali.

Kusowa winawake kwakuti zimamupweteka ndi chenicheni , ndipo zingakhale zovuta kwambiri.



Itha kutenga mwachangu mbali zina za moyo wanu, inunso, ndipo nthawi zambiri imamva kukhala yosatha.

Chifukwa chake tapanga chitsogozo cha momwe mungachitire ndikumverera uku, ndi zomwe mungachite kuti muchepetse.



1. Lankhulani za izo.

Vuto logawidwa ndi vuto limodzi.

Lankhulani ndi munthu amene mumamukonda ndi kumukhulupirira za momwe mukumvera. Adzakhalapo kuti akuthandizireni, ndipo atha kukhala ndi njira zothanirana ndi zomwe zidawathandizapo m'mbuyomu zomwe atha kugawana nanu.

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2. Lankhulani pafupifupi pafupipafupi.

Ngati mukusowa wina yemwe mukugwirizana naye (mosiyana ndi bwenzi / bwenzi lanu lakale kapena wokondedwa wanu), pangani nthawi ina - makamaka, FaceTime.

Zachidziwikire, sizofanana, tikudziwa, koma ndi cholowa m'malo monga tili.

Bwanji osayika alamu pafoni yanu kuti muzikhala ndi kanema mlungu uliwonse, kapena kukonza mafunso pamwezi ndi gulu la anthu omwe mwasowa?

Kupanga kukumana kwanu kwapafupipafupi kukhala chinthu chokhazikika kumathandizadi - mudzamva ngati akuyesetsa, ngati pali kudzipereka, komanso ngati mudakali gawo lofunikira pamoyo wawo.

Chimodzi mwazovuta zomwe timasowa wina nthawi zambiri zimabwera chifukwa choopa kuti atiyiwala, kapena kuzindikira kuti atha kukhala opanda ife. Mwa kukonzekera kuti mudzawonane, mudzakhala otetezeka muubwenzi wanu kapena ubale wanu, ndipo mudzakhala ndi chiyembekezo.

3. Lankhulani ndi vutoli, musapewe.

Ngati ili ndi njira yanu, lankhulani ndi munthu amene simukusowa.

Ngati ndiubwenzi womwe watha ndipo mukuusowa, lankhulani ndi munthu winayo amene akukhudzidwa. Ngati mnzanu wasamukira kuntchito, lankhulani nawo za momwe mukumvera.

Kumbukirani kuti momwe mukumvera zilili zenizeni ndipo, ngakhale mutamvetsetsa komanso kuthandizira bwanji, muli ndi ufulu wofotokozanso momwe mukumvera.

Ngati ndi kwa munthu yemwe mulibenso ubale wabwino kapena ubale wabwino, tumizani meseji kuti mufunse ngati mungalankhule nawo popeza zikukuvutani kupita patsogolo.

Tidzakambirana izi mgawo lathu la 'Pezani kutseka', koma kuphulitsa munthu wina ndi mauthenga atali yayitali ndi mafoni ochuluka omwe anasemphana siwathanzi komanso ndichinyengo, ngakhale atakhala ndi zolinga zabwino.

Ngati ndi kwa bwenzi, wachibale, kapena mnzanu, muyenera kunena zowona momwe mukumvera.

Mwachitsanzo, ngati bwenzi lanu lasamukira kunja kukagwira ntchito ya miyezi 6, ndibwino kuti mumuuze kuti mwamsowa!

Mutha kukhala othandizana nawo kwambiri, okondwerera cheerleading nthawi zonse komabe khalani achisoni - sizimakupangitsani kukhala osowa kapena okakamira, zimakupangitsani kukhala anthu.

Kuchokera pamenepo, mutha kukambirana zomwe mungachite mtsogolo - mwina mutha kupita kukawawona mwezi uno ndipo atha kukayendera mwezi wamawa mwina mumavomereza FaceTime kamodzi pamlungu mwina angakuuzeni kuti achoke molawirira ndikubwerera kwanu.

Aliyense amene mwaphonya, auzeni momwe mukumvera - mwina akumvanso chimodzimodzi. Ngakhale kungodziwa izi kungathandize kwambiri!

4. Yesetsani kulingalira bwino.

Pamene tikumvetsa chisoni wina, kaya ali wamoyo kapena wakufa, timakhala ndi malingaliro osiyanasiyana - nthawi zambiri mkwiyo, kudziimba mlandu, kudzimvera chisoni, kukhumudwa.

Zomverera izi zimatha kukulira ndikuthira m'mbali zina za moyo wathu.

Timadzipeza tokha kukhumudwitsidwa ndi anthu omwe sanakhudzidwe ndi zochitikazo, kapena mwadzidzidzi kutuluka misozi pa desiki yathu.

Kusowa winawake mwakuti zimamupweteka kumatha kukhala chinthu chodya zonse, ndichifukwa chake ndikofunikira kupitiriza kudzisamalira - ndipo kulingalira ndi njira yabwino yochitira.

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Yesani yoga, kapena malo osambira omveka amayenda maulendo ataliatali ngakhale kugwira ntchito thukuta m'malo ochitira masewera olimbitsa thupi kumatha kukhala njira yolingalira.

Konzekerani china chake chomwe muyenera kuyang'ana chomwe chimathandiza kukhazika mtima pansi malingaliro ena.

5. Khalani otanganidwa.

Nthawi zina, mumafunika zosokoneza!

Ngati munthu amene mumamuphonya ndi wakale, mutha kutengeka kwambiri ndi kutha kwa moyo wanu wonse kuti muphatikize, kumalira.

Izi ndizabwinobwino, ndipo ndimathanzi kukonza momwe mumamvera ndikulankhula za izo - pamlingo wina.

Ngati kuziphonya kukukhala kosapiririka, muyenera kupeza zinthu zina kuti mukhale otanganidwa.

Onani anzanu, pitani kukathamanga, pitani ku malo osungira zakale - ngakhale kuwonera kanema woseketsa (osati rom-com) kungakuthandizeni kuti musamangoganizira zoyipa zomwe zingakudyereni nthawi.

Malingaliro amenewo adzapitilirabe, inde, koma azikhala ocheperako komanso osafupika.

6. Gawani zomwe mukukumbukira.

Ngati mukusowa wokondedwa wanu wotayika, zingamveke ngati kuwawa sikudzatha.

Palibe mwayi 'wobwereranso' kapena kubweranso mwa iwo, ndipo izi zitha kukhala zovuta kuzichita, osangovomereza.

Chinthu chimodzi chomwe mungachite, chomwe anthu ambiri amawona kuti ndi chothandiza, ndikulankhula za iwo.

Osati kwenikweni potengera kuchuluka kwa momwe mumawaphonyera komanso momwe kuwonongekako kukukhalira koopsa, koma potengera kugawana kukumbukira kosangalatsa ndikukondwerera moyo wawo komanso momwe mumawakondera.

Chitani izi ndi munthu amene mumamukonda komanso kumukhulupirira, ngakhale atamudziwa munthu amene mukumulirayo kapena ayi.

Mukamakhala omasuka kwambiri, mumakhala oona mtima komanso osatetezeka mudzadzilola kukhala. Izi zikuthandizani kukonza momwe mukumvera (pafupifupi ngati mawonekedwe a 'mankhwala olankhula') komanso kukupangitsani kuti mumve kupepuka nthawi iliyonse.

Tikataya wina, nthawi zambiri timakhala ndi nkhawa kuti tiziiwala zinthu za iwo. Zitha kuwoneka zosatheka poyamba, koma pakhoza kukhala tsiku lomwe mungadzuke ndikuzindikira kuti simukukumbukira ndendende momwe kuseka kwawo kumamvekera, kapena mutha kuzindikira mwadzidzidzi kuti simunaganizire za iwo tsiku lonse.

Izi zitha kupangitsa kudzimva kuti ndi wolakwa komanso manyazi - koma siziyenera. Ndi zachilendo komanso zathanzi kufika pagawo lomwe simumaganizira za wina ndi mnzake, ndipo mwamtheradi ayi kuwonetsa momwe mumawakondera.

Simuyenera kukumbukira mtundu womwewo wa diso la wina kuti mudziwe kuti mumawakonda, ndipo musamadzimve chisoni kapena kudziimba mlandu kapena ngati simukumva chisoni 'chifukwa' simulira za iwo tsiku ndi tsiku .

Mwa kugawana zokumbukira zanu ndi munthu wina, mukuthandizanso kuti zokumbukirazo zikhalebe ndi moyo. Mudzakhala ndi wina yemwe angakuthandizeni kukumbukira zinthu zomwe mwina mwaiwala, ndipo mudzatha kugawana kulimba kwa malingaliro anu pamalo otetezeka.

Kungakhale kovuta kulankhula za iwo ndipo mwina pangakhale yaiwisi kwambiri poyamba, koma mukamayankhula momasuka, zimakhala zosavuta kukhala zopweteka komanso zimapweteka pakapita nthawi.

Kumbukirani kuti ndibwino kugawana zokumbukira zoipa nawonso! Mutha kukonda wina ndikumuphonya kwambiri zimapweteka - komabe atha kukukwiyitsani pamene anali amoyo!

Kukonda wina moona ndikuwakonda onse, ndichifukwa chake zili zabwinobwino ndipo zili bwino kukhala ndi phokoso nthawi yomwe amakukhumudwitsani, kapena kulira chifukwa chakukuvulazani nthawi imodzi.

Simuyenera kuwakumbukira ngati oyera kuti alemekeze moyo wawo - mutha kuwakumbukira ngati munthu wodabwitsa, wokhala ndi zolakwika zonse komanso mbali zoyipa, ndikuwakondabe kuposa china chilichonse.

7. Pezani kutseka.

Kutseka ndi kovuta kwambiri, ndipo nkovuta kunena zomwe zimatanthauza kwa munthu aliyense payekha.

Kwa ambiri, makamaka pakutha, ndikumvetsetsa bwanji zinthu zinatha ndipo pomalizira pake tinatha kunena 'zabwino.'

Lankhulani ndi munthu yemwe mwasowa ngati zili zotere ndipo, mwaulemu, pemphani kuti atseke.

Adzadziwa zomwe mukupempha ndipo, nthawi zambiri, adzakupatsani.

Ngati satero, zomwe zili zachilungamo mokwanira komanso mwaufulu wawo, zitha kukhala zotsekedwa zokha. Landirani kuti umu ndi momwe zinthu ziliri ndikutseka chitseko - zabwino.

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8. Pezani chithandizo cha akatswiri.

Zachidziwikire, ngati mukuvutikiradi kuthana ndi kulimba kwa malingaliro anu, kufunafuna chithandizo cha akatswiri kumatha kukhala kwamtengo wapatali.

Kaya ndi wam'banja, mnzanu, kapena wakale yemwe simukusowa, mlangizi wophunzitsidwa bwino angakuthandizeni kupyola.

Ngakhale mukumva kuti zinthu sizili 'zoyipa' monga anthu ena (mwachitsanzo, bwenzi lanu lapamtima silikuyankhula nanu, koma mumadzimva kuti ndinu olakwa kupeza chithandizo pamene okondedwa anu amwalira), ngati ili ndi vuto lalikulu zimakhudza moyo wanu watsiku ndi tsiku komanso moyo wabwino, muyenera kulingalira zopeza thandizo.

Mukuganiza kuti mukusowa thandizo lina kuti musiye kusowa mnzanu wakale? Ife kwenikweni onetsetsani kucheza pa intaneti ndi katswiri wapaubwenzi kuchokera ku Relationship Hero yemwe angakuthandizeni kudziwa zinthu. Mwachidule.

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