Njira 8 Zomupangira Kuzindikira Zomwe Ali Nazo (Ndipo Atha Kutaya)

Posachedwa, mwakhala mukumverera pang'ono osayamikiridwa. Chibwenzi kapena mwamuna wanu wakhala akukutengerani mopepuka, ndipo mukuyamba kutaya mtima nazo.

Mumamukonda mwamunayu, ndipo chinthu chomaliza chomwe mungafune kuti ubalewu uthe.

Koma ngati akupitilirabe kukuyang'anirani motere, mukuda nkhawa kuti zitha kutanthauza kuti, posachedwa, ubale wanu udzawonongeka.



Ndiye mungabweretse bwanji zinthu kuchokera kumphepete? Kodi mungamupange bwanji kudzuka ndikuyamikira chinthu chodabwitsa chomwe ali nacho, m'malo mongokutengani mopepuka?

Kodi mungamupangitse bwanji kuzindikira kuti ali ndi zabwino komanso zomwe angataye posanyalanyaza ndi kusayamika zinthu zonse zomwe mumamuchitira?



Nawa malingaliro omwe angakuthandizeni kudzuka ndikuzindikira kuti ndinu apadera komanso osangalatsa chibwenzi chanu chisanathe.

1. Dziwonetseni nokha.

Musanachite china chilichonse, muyenera kuganizira moona mtima momwe zinthu ziliri komanso ubale wanu.

Kodi ndi chiyani kwenikweni chomwe chimakupangitsani kumva kuti ndinu osafunika? Kodi amachita chilichonse kukuwonetsani kuti amakukondani mwanjira yake, zomwe mumangovutikira kuti muwone?



Kodi ndi kungokutengerani mopepuka, kapena nthawi zina mumakhala olakwa chimodzimodzi? Chibwenzi chimatenga ntchito - kodi munganene moona mtima kuti mukuchita gawo lanu pantchitoyi? Mutha kukhala, koma mwina simungatero.

Ndikofunika kuti muzidzifotokozera nokha zomwe muyenera kuchita pamavuto abwenzi, ngati alipo.

Izi sizikutanthauza kuti mukupanga zinthu kapena kuti alibe mlandu wokunyalanyazani, koma ndikofunikira kuthana ndi zenizeni za nkhaniyi ndikuziwona kuchokera pamawonekedwe onse.

2. Ikani chisamaliro chofunikira patsogolo.

Ngati mukufuna kuti winawake akuchitireni ulemu womwe mukuyenera, ndiye chinthu choyamba chimene muyenera kuchita ndikuonetsetsa kuti simulakwa kudzinyalanyaza nokha.

Ngati mumayika zosowa zanu, ndiye kuti mukutumiza uthenga kwa wokondedwa wanu kuti safunikanso kuyika zosowa zanu patsogolo.

Chifukwa chake, yambani kudzisungira nokha. Tengani nthawi mukamaifuna. Dzichitireni mokoma mtima. Musadzipatse nokha zovuta. Dzichepetseni nokha. Dzipezereni mphatso.

Kukhazikitsa malo anu oyamba ndikudziwonetsera ulemu ndi gawo loyamba kwa mnzanu kuyamba kuchita zomwezo.

3. Dziponyeni nokha muzosangalatsa zanu.

Ngati mnzanu sakukuyamikirani, izi zitha kutanthauza kuti pomwe ali pakati panu padziko lapansi, simuli pakati pake.

Ndipo zili bwino. Maubwenzi akuyenera kukhala okondana ndikuthandizana wina ndi mnzake, koma sayenera kukhala owononga zonse.

Nonse muyenera kukhala ndi moyo kunja kwa chibwenzi osadalirana pa chilichonse, popeza izi sizabwino. Zimayika kukakamiza kwambiri pachibwenzi.

Koma pakadali pano, bwenzi lanu kapena mwamuna wanu atha kukhala kuti adazolowera kukhala woyamba wanu. Chifukwa chake amakuperekani mopepuka.

Chifukwa chake, ndi nthawi yoti muyese ndikuyang'ana pang'ono pazinthu zonse zomwe mumakonda asanabadwe.

Kodi ndi zosangalatsa ziti zomwe mumakonda? Kodi munali ndi zilakolako zotani? Kodi mwadzidzidzi mudakhala ndi nthawi yaying'ono iti pamene adalowa m'moyo wanu? Mwataya chiyani kuti mumupatse?

Kumbukirani, munthu amene amalambira zinthu zonsezi ndi munthu yemwe adayamba kumukonda poyamba.

Chifukwa chake, yambaninso masewerawa, pitani ku kalasi yamadzulo imeneyo, konzekerani tchuthi chomwe simumachita kalikonse koma zokonda zanu zokhazikika kwa sabata lathunthu, pitani kumalo komwe sakufuna kuwona ...

Mkumbutseni kuti muli ndi zokonda zina ndipo muwonetseni kuti iye sali pakati pa chilengedwe chanu. Ayenera kuyamba kukuwonani mosiyana ndikuzindikira zomwe akutaya.

4. Pangani mapulani ndi abwenzi komanso abale.

Muli ndi zokonda zina m'moyo wanu, ndipo muyenera kucheza nawo.

Simuyenera kumangochita izi kuti musimbane ndi mnzanu. Nthawi zonse muyenera kupeza nthawi yocheza ndi banja lanu komanso anzanu apamtima m'malo mowanyalanyaza potengera bwenzi lanu, mnzanu, kapena mwamuna wanu.

chikondi ndi kulandira wina momwe alili

Koma kuyamba kucheza ndi anthu ofunikirawa pamoyo wanu kungathandize mnzanu kuzindikira kuti si munthu yekhayo amene amakukondani ndipo akuyenera kulimbikira pang'ono ngati akufuna kuti chibwenzi chanu chigwire ntchito.

5. Dziyikeni poyamba kamodzi kanthawi.

Ngati ndinu munthu wosadzikonda komanso amakonda kuika patsogolo zofuna zake kuposa zanu, ndiye kuti mwina walowa chizolowezi choipa chongoganiza kuti mudzakhalapo nthawi iliyonse yomwe angafune, koma osakhala wokonzeka kubwezera.

Inde, nonse awiri muyenera kudalirana.

Koma ndikofunikira kuti azindikire kuti kuti athe kukudalirani, muyenera kumudaliranso. Zinthu izi zimapita mbali zonse ziwiri.

Chifukwa chake, nthawi zina kuyika zosowa zanu kuposa zake, popanda kuzunza, kumatha kumukumbutsa kuti muli ndi zosowa zanu ndipo ayenera kuzilingalira.

6. Onetsani nthawi yabwino pamodzi.

Monga mukuwonera, malangizo ambiriwa ndiwokhudza kuwongolera moyo wanu ndikudzichitira nokha.

Ndizokhudza kudzichitira nokha ulemu chifukwa mukuyenera kutero, komanso kudziwa kuti kukhala wolimba mtima kuyenera kumukumbutsa chifukwa chake amakukondani komanso zomwe akuyika pachiwopsezo.

Zonsezi ndizosalunjika, koma palinso zinthu zomwe mungachite mwachindunji kuti mumuthandize kuzindikira vutoli.

Ngati mukufuna kuti chibwenzichi chikhale bwino, muyenera kuyesetsa kuyesetsa, ngakhale mukuwona kuti ayenera kukhala wopitilira kukonza zinthu.

Chifukwa chake, aganizireni kuti muzikhala nthawi yabwino limodzi.

Kaya ndi madzulo apadera chabe, tsiku limodzi, kapena kumapeto kwa sabata, ziyenera kumuthandiza kuti azisangalala, azicheza nanu moyenera, komanso azikumbukira chifukwa chake amakukondani.

Ubale ukhoza kukhazikika pang'ono pang'ono pakapita kanthawi, chifukwa chake ndi bwino kusiya izi pafupipafupi ndikubwezeretsanso ubalewo komanso momwe mumamvera wina ndi mnzake.

7. Pezani onse dolled mmwamba.

Ndikosavuta kwambiri kuti matsenga amatha msanga chibwenzi patapita kanthawi. Mumazolowerana ndikutsimikizirana wina ndi mnzake ndikusiya kuyesetsa ndi mawonekedwe anu.

Koma kutenga nthawi kuti muveke zonse kwa munthu amene mumamukonda kungakubwezeretseni masiku oyambirira ndikutanthauza kuti mumalumikizananso.

Chifukwa chake, bwanji osakulangizani kuti nonse muvale nkumapita kukadya chakudya chapamwamba, nonse awiri?

Kuunikira kandulo, vinyo, komanso zosasokoneza ziyenera kuchita zambiri kukuthandizani kuti muzitha kukambirana mwakuya komanso kuti muchepetse mpata womwe watseguka pakati panu.

Zidzamuthandizanso kuzindikira momwe zinthu zingakhalire pakati panu komanso kuchuluka kwa zomwe angataye akapanda kusamala.

8. Lankhulani naye.

Ngakhale pali zambiri zomwe mungachite kuti mumukumbutse momwe alili ndi mwayi wokhala nanu, chinsinsi cha ubale wabwino ndikulankhulana momasuka, momasuka.

Muyenera kumuuza momwe mumamvera.

Yesetsani kupewa kungomuponyera pankhope kapena kumamupangitsa kudzimva kuti ndi wolakwa, chifukwa amatha kudzitchinjiriza.

Ganizirani momwe mungapangire kuti zinthu ziziyenda bwino pakati panu. Adziwitseni kuti ngakhale mukudziwa kuti simuli angwiro, kukuganizirani mopepuka kwakhala vuto kwa inu.

Zovuta zake ndikuti sakudziwa momwe akhala akuchitira, ndipo kungolankhula kosavuta kungakhale kokwanira kuti ndalama iwonongeke ndikumupangitsa kuzindikira kuti akuyenera kusintha ngati akufuna kukusungani m'moyo wake.

Osakhazikika pazochepera zomwe mukuyenera.

Ngati mukumuuza moona mtima momwe mwakhala mukumvera, chitani nawo gawo muubwenzi ndikudzisamalira bwino, palibe chifukwa chomwe ubale wanu sungabwezeretse ndikukhala athanzi kuposa kale.

Ngati akukuyesani mopepuka ndipo, zivute zitani, sizisintha, ndiye kuti ubale wanu ukhoza kukhala wosadalirika. Mwina sangayamikire zomwe ali nazo komanso zomwe akutaya, koma ndilo vuto lake, osati lanu.

Mukuyenera kukhala ndi munthu yemwe amaganiza kuti ndinu odabwitsa komanso amadziwa momwe alili ndi mwayi wokhala nanu m'moyo wawo.

Chifukwa chake musakhazikike pazochepera.

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