9 Malamulo Omwe Muyenera Kutsatira Munthu Amene Mumamukonda Akakhala Wachisoni

Maulendo achisoni m'njira zosiyanasiyana komanso panthawi yake yobisika. Ziribe kanthu momwe tikuganizira kuti takonzekera, sitili, ndipo zikafika patali - pomwe titha kuwona zotsatira zake, koma sizinakhudzidwe mwachindunji - zingakhale zovuta kutseka kusiyana pakati pakufunika kuthandiza ndi kulemekeza njira ya chisoni.

Sitikufuna kudzimva opanda ntchito kwa okondedwa athu, komabe sitikufuna kudzimva kuti ndife osavomerezeka ndi kuvina kovutirapo kwamiyambo yotsutsana, yosintha nthawi, komanso osadziwa komwe, kapena ngati tiyenera, kuyika manja.

Malamulo osavuta ochepa amatha kuthandizira.





1. Osachulukitsa

Kukumbutsa wina nthawi zonse za zomwe zina ziyenera kukupweteketsani kapena momwe zinthu ziliri zoopsa zitha kuwoneka ngati mukumvetsera mwachidwi komanso mwachifundo, koma ndikhulupirireni, akudziwa bwino zowawa zawo.

Amuna anga amakonda kugwiritsa ntchito foni yawo

Yesetsani kuti musakhale liwu lachiweruzo. M'malo mwake, pewani zovuta zina zomwe munthu wolirayo angakumane nazo: gwirani ntchito zina zapakhomo, kuwadyetsa, kapena kuwapatsa zododometsa koma kuwalimbikitsa monga kuwatulutsa m'nyumba nthawi ndi nthawi kapena kulola kununkhira komwe amakonda madera. Zizindikiro zazing'ono zachifundo zimatha kuwonetsa kumvera chisoni kuposa kutchulidwa kambiri m'mawu.



2. Khalani Otchera Koma Osakakamira

Chisoni chimakhala chathanzi, chachilengedwe, komanso chofunikira kuchira, koma chimafunikira malo oti chimere ngati chingakhale chopindulitsa chilichonse. Tsoka ilo ambirife timakhala m'magulu omwe amawopa zenizeni zakukhumudwa (ngakhale chowonadi chophweka kwambiri: sizinthu zonse zimayenda bwino), sitimaphunzitsidwa mosamala kuti tipewe, kukana, kapena kuthetseratu zachisoni mulimonse, kotero m'malo mowona chisomo pamalingaliro amtunduwu, timayesetsa kuti tisinthe mwachangu chisoni kukhala mawonekedwe achimwemwe. Tili pomwepo kuti titembenuzire nkhope yokhalitsa ija.

Izi zitha kukhala ndi zotsatirapo zoyipa zonamizira njira yachisoni, yomwe ndi njira yongowonongera mtundu wina posachedwa. Osadziyerekezera kuti ndinu okhumudwitsa zokha, onani momwe wokondedwa wanu amafunira kukhala payekha, onani pomwe akukufikirani, ndipo konzekerani kuchitapo kanthu.

3. Osanena Kuti 'Muthana Nazo'

Kodi izi zachitikapo zoposa kungomenya munthu mumtima? Ndizopanda phindu mpaka kunyoza. Kutayika kulikonse, kaya ndi kufa kwa nsomba ya golide ya wokondedwa wanu, kusudzulana kwa bwenzi lakale laku koleji, kumwalira kwa aphunzitsi okondedwa a mwana wanu, kapena kupeza nthano zamphamvu zomwe azakhali a Edith adachita panthawi yankhondo zidapangidwa kuti zikulimbikitseni mwana wanu wachinyamata, amayenera kulemekezedwa ndi kuloledwa kukhalapo . Kufufutira mwachangu komanso kosavuta kumangokhala kuponyera nkhope zachimwemwe pachilichonse.



Inde, patatha nthawi ina yachisoni, pali njira yonena izi, koma malingaliro a ambiri ndikutuluka msanga. Miyamba imaletsa aliyense kukhala wopanda nkhawa kwa mphindi zopitilira khumi. Mungaganize kuti mukuwathandiza powakumbutsa kuti pali masiku owala kwambiri oti mudzakhalebe, koma mtima wolemetsa ndiwosangalatsa kwambiri pakadali pano mtsogolo lomwe lidzisamalire lokha. Mtima umenewo umayenera kudziwa m'mafupa ake akuya kwambiri, pakadali pano, kuti pali malo ofewa oti ungakhale pomwe sungadziyimire wokha.

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4. Chepetsani Chidwi Chanu

Ngakhale omwe amatiyang'anitsitsa kwambiri atha kugwa pakumveka kwakanthawi kwa uthenga wabwino mwayi ukabwera, ndikhulupirireni, ine amene ndili ndi chisoni akufuna kusangalala nanu, akufuna kugawana nawo nkhani zanu zazikulu… koma kwenikweni sizingatheke. Opeza ubongo sali pamenepo.

Chifukwa chake mukamaganiza kuti mukukweza mizimu yawo powaponyera ndikuwala, mumakopadi tizilombo tating'onoting'ono tating'onoting'ono. Ganizirani nthawi ndi njira yoyeseranso kupatsa mphamvu mabatire okonda gulu.

5. Sinthani Ziyembekezero

Mwana wolira sadzafuna kuchita homuweki. Mnzanu waofesi wachisoni amapereka zocheperako pang'ono poyerekeza kukulitsa mgwirizano. Anthu amabwereranso kuzinthu malinga ndi kukhathamira kwawo. Ngati mwazolowera Munthu X kukhala thanthwe lanu pakafunika thandizo, mvetsetsani kuti miyala ili ndi zosowa zawo. Ndizosamveka kuyembekezera kuti aliyense akhale waluso pakupanga magawo kuti zokolola zawo, kudzipereka kwawo, ndi / kapena chiwongola dzanja sizimayang'ana kwambiri pambuyo potaika. Sitinamangidwe motero.

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6. Aloleni Iwo Alirire

Izi zikuphatikiza zinthu za chifundo taphunzira mpaka pano, komanso timayimiranso ngati chinthu china. Izi siziri 'Asiyeni alire, koma ayesere kuwongolera mtsinje,' ndi Let. Iwo. Lirani.

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Lekani kudula kaloti ndikuwalola kuti asindikize nkhope zawo paphewa pakhitchini mpaka nthawi idutse. Tengani wantchito mnzanu ku nkhomaliro ndipo ngati ntchito zamadzi ziyamba, 'ola' la nkhomaliro limakula motere. Ndi dalitso lotero pamene wokondedwa amadziwa kuti ali ndi chisomo cholira malingana ngati mzimu ukuyenda, kaya ndi inu kapena mwachinsinsi momwe mudawasiyira mwachifundo. Misozi ndi ochiritsa abwino akamaloledwa kuti azigwira ntchito yawo.

7. Khalani Womvetsetsa

Sikuti kutayika konse ndikutaya kwakukulu sikukutanthauza kuti muyenera kuzipeputsa. Sikuti kutayika konse ndikutayika kowononga. Sizitanthauza kuti siziyenera kukhudza aliyense. Ndipo zowonadi kuti pali nthawi zina pomwe simungathe kudziwa kuti panali kutayika konse. Chonde dziwani kuti sikuli kwa inu nthawi zonse kudziwa zomwe sizoyenera chisoni.

Mvetsetsani kuti kulumikizana kwachilengedwe kumapangitsa kufunikira kwa chifundo poyambirira: tikuyenera kuwona maiko akunja kwathu. Choseweretsa chomwe amakonda kwambiri chomwe chikusowa chitha kukhala chowonongera kuzowona kwa munthu wina monga kupsompsona amayi nthawi yonse yogona. Lonjezani mtima wanu kuti muwone momwe moyo, chikondi, ndi kutayika zimayendera limodzi.

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8. Limbikitsani

Izi zikutanthauza kukhala wofunitsitsa kuswa malamulowo malinga ndi momwe zinthu ziliri. Kapena kusakaniza-ndi-kufanana. Bwerani ndi malangizo anu achifundo. Ngati kuwona kwa mbale zabuluu kumakumbutsa wokondedwa wanu za mbale yamadzi yabuluu yomwe galu wawo wothawa adamwa, yambani phwando. Mbale zitatu ndikamaliza, imodzi yanu, iwiri ya wokondedwa wanu. Mwinanso kukwezako sikudafike monga momwe amayembekezera kuti mupeze china chake chokhudza kukondwerera mulimonse, ngakhale 'chikondwerero' chikutanthawuza Malo Ofesi pa Netflix ndi thumba lalikulu la popcorn kuti mulowetse mitsuko yayikulu ya vinyo.

Chilichonse chomwe mungachite kuti muthandize, dziwani kuti okondedwa anu samayembekezera kuti mungakonze kaya iwo kapena momwe alili, akuyang'ana mtundu wina wovomerezeka womwe umanyalanyazidwa nthawi zambiri: kuti ndianthu, ndipo anthu amapweteka. Zambiri. Zomwe zimatibweretsera bwino kuulamuliro wathu womaliza…

9. Khalani oleza mtima

Zotayika zilizonse, zisonyezero zowawa kapena zowawa (pokhapokha zowopsa komanso zowopsa), khazikani mtima pansi , khalani nawo, ndipo khalani aulemu. Zinthu zonse zimadutsa… koma zimabweranso, mwina nthawi ina molunjika kwa inu. Moyo ndi woseketsa motero. Kuzungulira kwa chifundo sikumatha, koma pali muyeso wina wa chitonthozo pamenepo.