Zizolowezi mwa Anthu Osauka Kwambiri: Chifukwa Chomwe Ambiri Akugwa Mumsampha

Lero, monga masiku ena onse, tikukhala m'dziko lotanganidwa kwambiri komanso lodzaza ndi ziyembekezo za aliyense payekha.

Mwamuna wanga ndi wokwiya komanso wokwiya nthawi zonse

Zikhalidwe ndi zikhulupiriro zabodza zomwe zimachokera kwa ena zimapereka chithunzi chodzikuza pamoyo wathu, nthawi zambiri ngakhale tisanabadwe. Machitidwe amakono a maphunziro ndi ntchito ndi gwero losatha lazopanikiza, zikusefukira m'malingaliro ndi matupi athu. Ngakhale kupumula kocheperako kuyenera kuwerengedwa ndikukwanira ndandanda yodzaza ndi ntchito.

Zimadziwika kuti anthu omwe ali ndi chidwi chambiri samangotundumuka, motero samakhala ndi zida zokwanira kuthana ndi zovuta komanso zolimbikitsa mosalekeza. Kusamvetsetsa bwino za nkhaniyi nthawi zambiri kumakakamiza mizimu yofookayo kufunafuna yankho paokha.



Nthawi zambiri amatembenukira kuzinthu zosokoneza bongo kuti achepetse mphepo yamkuntho yomwe ikuchitika mkati mwa mitima yawo. Pamene malingaliro anu ovutika akukuphani, ngakhale mankhwala omwe ali ndi zotsatirapo zoyipa zimawoneka ngati zoyipa zochepa, momwe mumayesera kuthana ndi mphindi ino. Njira iyi yodzichitira dzanzi, ngakhale zili zoyipa kwambiri, ndichopulumuka.

Kupanga Chizolowezicho

Ndine munthu wovutikira komanso wolowerera ndekha ndipo ndazindikira kuti zomwe ndikuchita sizingasinthe pang'onopang'ono. Zimayamba ndikupeza mpumulo mwadzidzidzi munthawi yowopsa: tiyeni tigwiritse ntchito chitsanzo chakumwa botolo la Jack Daniels mutatha.



Chochitika chotere ndichofala, ndipo anthu ambiri amayesa mtundu wina wodziyesera wokha kuti ayese kuyesetsa kwake ngati tili wamkulu pachionetsero chathu chomvetsa chisoni.

Kodi mungakumbukire nthawi yomwe mumamwa mowa kuti muchepetse mkwiyo komanso chisoni chanu pomwe mudasiya kupwetekedwa mtima kwanu? Ngati yankho lanu ndi inde, pali mwayi waukulu kuti - ngati zovuta zikuzibwereza - mudzabwezeretsanso zomwezo, kufunafuna zomwe mukudziwa kuti zithandizanso pamavutowo.

Ubongo wathu umagwira nawo ntchito popanga chizolowezi osawunika zotsatira zake: mutha kupeza botolo mosavuta momwe mumakhalira ndi chizolowezi chotsuka mano m'mawa uliwonse.



Anthu okhudzidwa kwambiri amakhudzidwa osati ndi iwo okha, komanso malingaliro a anthu ena machitidwe awo amanjenje amakhala tcheru mpaka kalekale, akukonza zokopa zoperekedwa ndi maiko onse: zamkati ndi zakunja.

Ngakhale zinthu zazing'ono kwambiri zimatha kuwaswa mitima yawo ndikudzaza ndi chisoni chosaneneka kwa masiku ambiri: nthawi ina ndidadzipeza ndekha ndikulira chifukwa choti wogulitsa m'sitoloyo adandidzudzula chifukwa chokhudza sikelo yolemera. Chidani chake ndi mkwiyo wake zidandibweretsera nkhawa.

Timasiyidwa opanda chishango ndipo chilichonse chimafika kwa ife, chifukwa chake titha kukhala ndi chidwi chofunafuna chithandizo nthawi zambiri kuposa ena, ndikupanga machitidwe owopsa mwachangu ndikudziwononga nawo mwamphamvu.

Ndikumwa mowa kwambiri ndimakonda kunena kuti dziko lapansi lindiwononga ine ndipo ndiyenera kutulutsa poizoni m'magazi anga ndikuwaphera mankhwala ndi mowa. Zomwe zimatseka kuzungulira - pakupanga iwe kumva wopanda pake - kukanidwa ndi ena komanso kukanidwa mwankhanza kutengera malingaliro abodza.

Zolemba zokhudzana nazo (nkhani ikupitirira pansipa):

Zoyambitsa Ndi Momwe Mungazigonjetsere

Mukakhala osokoneza bongo, chidwi chomwe chimakukakamizani kuti mubwereze cholakwacho chimatchedwa choyambitsa. Kungakhale kutengeka komwe kumalumikizidwa ndi 'kuchiritsa' ndi chikumbumtima chathu, malo, kapena fungo. Kuwona malo omwe mumakonda kuchita zosangalatsa zanu zoletsedwa kapena kukumana ndi munthu amene amakusungani ndikubwezeretsani zokumbukirazo ndikukuyesani kuti mudzabwerenso.

Apanso, ndizovuta kwambiri kuti munthu wokhudzidwa kwambiri apewe zomwe zimayambitsa, chifukwa zimawonekera pafupipafupi chifukwa chakutha kwawo kulembetsa chilichonse ndikuwamanga kuzinthu zomwe zikugwirizana (mwachitsanzo fungo la maapulo limatha kudzutsa chisangalalo ndi chitetezo chifukwa cha chitumbuwa cha apulo agogo anu ankakuchitirani).

Kumva nyimbo yomwe mudasuta ndudu zanu modzipereka, ngakhale patatha chaka mutasiya, kudzakupatsani chidwi chofuna kugula paketi ya Ngamila, ndikhulupirireni.

Chithandizo chomwe chimaperekedwa m'malo omwe akulimbana ndi zosokoneza bongo chimangoganizira zodziwitsa zomwe zimayambitsa ndikuphunzira momwe mungazipewere ndikuthana nazo ngati palibe njira ina. Chinsinsi cha izi ndikubwezeretsa kachitidweko ndi njira yatsopano yothanirana.

Kufotokozera zakukhosi Kudzera mwa zaluso ndi njira yabwino kwa anthu osazindikira chifukwa amakhala opanga mwanzeru kwambiri ndikumasula zomwe zaikidwa mumdima wakuya m'maganizo zitha kukhala zovuta komanso zotsuka kwambiri.

Kutulutsa osadziwika kwa munthu wina kudzera pa intaneti ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yomwe imakupatsaninso mwayi woti mukhale incognito ndikupewa ziweruzo zowawa kuchokera kwa munthu yemwe mumamudziwa (pali malo ochepa abwino ochitira izi - yesani Googling 'malo achitonthozo'). Kukonzekera tsiku lanu ndikofunikanso kuti mupewe nthawi yomwe mulibe chochita komanso mukamaganiziranso mozama.

Upangiri wofunikira kwambiri womwe ndingapereke kwa munthu aliyense wokhudzidwa kwambiri ndi vuto lakumwa ndi: mvetserani nokha. Tsegulani mtima wanu ndikudzimvera nokha popanda kusintha malingaliro kapena zoyembekezera. Mukudziwa zomwe mukufunikira khulupirirani wanu nzeru kuti mumangenso kulumikizana kwanu. Kuwawona momwe alili, yaiwisi komanso yokongola ndipo mudzipumitsenso kudziko lomwe limakuphatikizirani.