Kodi Mungakonze Ubwenzi Womangika Pamodzi Kapena Muyenera Kuthetsa?

Kodi mumamva ngati kuti inu ndi amene mukugwira ntchito yonse mu chiyanjano chanu? Kodi mumangotenga nawo mbali muzochita zomwe wokondedwa wanu akufuna kuchita? Kodi mnzanuyo amakuganizirani mopepuka kapena kubisala kwa anthu odziwika?

Njira imodzi yolumikizirana imakhala ndi anthu awiri, kupatula kuti mgwirizanowu ndi munthu m'modzi yekha amene amagwira ntchito. Ngakhale mutha kukhala odzipereka kwathunthu kwa mnzanu , sizingakhale zokwanira kuti ubale wanu ukhalebe wolimba komanso wopambana. Ngati chikondi sichikubwezeredwa, ndizovuta kupanga ubale wokhalitsa. Ngati muli pachibwenzi chimodzi, mutha kudzifunsa ngati mungayesere kukonza kapena kupita kwa wina yemwe angakuchitireni bwino.

Zizindikiro 5 Mukugwirizana

Nthawi zina mumatha kudziwa kuti muli pachibwenzi chimodzi, koma kuvomereza nokha ndikusankha zoyenera kuchita ndi gawo lovuta kwambiri. Ngati sizikudziwika bwino m'maganizo mwanu kuti izi ndi zomwe mukukumana nazo, izi ndi zizindikilo zakuti mulidi nawo pachibwenzi chopanda malire.



1. Mumayambitsa Kuyankhulana Kwambiri

Inu ndi amene mumayimba foni, kutumiza mameseji, komanso kuyesetsa kuti mupeze limodzi. Ngati simulankhulana, mupita masiku osamva chilichonse. Mutha kuwerengera ndi dzanja limodzi nthawi yomwe mnzanu adayamba kucheza nanu.

2. Mnzanu Amasankha Anzake Kuposa Inu

Ngati mnzanu akufuna kupita ndi abwenzi, samakuitanani kuti mupite nawo. Mukapempha mnzanu kuti azicheza nanu komanso anzanu, amakana. Zikuwoneka kuti mnzanuyo amakonda anzawo kuposa inu.



3. Mnzanu Amanyalanyaza Mavuto Aubwenzi

Ndiwe wekha amene amayesera kukambirana za mavuto omwe mukukumana nawo muubwenzi wanu. Wokondedwa wanu amayendetsa maso awo ndikukwiyitsidwa nanu chifukwa chobweretsanso. Amakonda kunyalanyaza mavuto omwe mukukumana nawo.

4. Mnzako Sakusamala za Iwe

Ngati mukumva kuti wokondedwa wanu samakusamalirani, mwina mukunena zowona. Ngati muli pachibwenzi chimodzi, wina wanu wamkulu sasamala zakusangalatsani. Safunsa za tsiku lanu kapena samvera nkhani zanu. M'malo mwake, chinthu chokha chomwe mumalankhula (mukamalankhula) ndi moyo wa mnzanu.

5. Mumakhala Ndikuda nkhawa Ubale Ukugwa

Mumapanikizika nthawi zonse chifukwa mumakhala ndi nkhawa kuti ubale wanu watsala pang'ono kutha. Gawo loyipitsitsa ndiloti mwanjira ina mukuganiza kuti ndi vuto lanu. Mwayesera kuthana ndi mavutowa, koma mnzanuyo alibe chidwi.



Kodi Mungakonze Ubwenzi Womodzi?

Ngati mwatsimikiza mtima kupereka zonse zomwe mungakwanitse, mutha kuyesa kukonza ubale wokhala mbali imodzi. Palibe njira yamatsenga, ndipo mwina singagwire ntchito konse. Nthawi zina chibwenzicho sichingakonzeke, ndipo mukazindikira izi, mudzatha kuchoka podziwa kuti panalibe chilichonse chomwe mungachite. Kufanana ndi ulemu ndizofunikira ku maubwenzi onse, chifukwa pokhapokha mutapeza malire omwe mukufuna ndi oyenera, ubale wanu ungathe.

Ngati mukuwona kuti muli pachibwenzi chimodzi ndipo mukufuna kukonza, yesani njirazi kuti muwone ngati ubale wanu uli ndi tsogolo labwino.

1. Fufuzani Ngati Mnzanu Akufuna Kusintha

Simungathe kukonza ubale wamodzi ndi inu nokha. Wokondedwa wanu akuyenera kutenga nawo mbali. Chinthu choyamba chomwe muyenera kudzifunsa ndikuti 'Kodi wokondedwa wanga akufuna kusintha?' Ngati sakufuna, palibe zambiri zomwe mungachite. Musanagwiritse ntchito mphamvu zanu zonse kuthamangitsa ubalewu, fufuzani ngati uli ndi mwayi.

2. Sanjani Maganizo Anu

Musanayambe kulankhulana bwino ndi wokondedwa wanu, muyenera kupeza momwe mukumvera. Kodi kukhala pachibwenzi chimodzi kumakupangitsani kumva bwanji? Kodi mwakhumudwa, mantha, kukhumudwa, kapena kuda nkhawa? Mwina mukusokonezeka m'mene zidachitikira izi. Mukamacheza kwambiri ndi momwe mumamverera, ndizotheka kulankhulana bwino. Tengani nthawi yanu kuti mumvetsetse zomwe mukufuna.

Mwinanso mungakonde (nkhani ikupitirira pansipa):

3. Lankhulanani ndi Mnzanu

Kuyankhulana ndi njira yokhayo yothetsera ubale umodzi, chifukwa chake muyenera kukambirana kwambiri ndi mnzanu. Popanda kukwiya, afotokozereni bwenzi lanu zomwe zikuchitika komanso momwe mukumvera. Ngati winanso wanu waperekedwa kwa inu, akumvera. Ngati alibe chidwi chochita khama, sangakusamalireni momwe mukumvera.

4. Yang'anani pa Vuto Limodzi Panthawi

Khalani ndi chidwi chimodzi pa nthawi imodzi kuti mupewe kulemetsa mnzanu. Simukufuna kuti amve kuti akuukiridwa. Khalani osapita m'mbali ndipo pewani kubweretsa nkhani zam'mbuyo. Khalani pano. Ngakhale mnzanu atadzitchinjiriza ndikuyesera kuti abweretse nkhani zosafunikira, khalani panjirayo ndipo pewani kukhumudwa. Palibe amene anati izi zingakhale zophweka.

5. Muziganizira Kwambiri

Yesetsani kuthera nthawi yambiri mukuganizira nokha. Kukula moyo wanu ndi njira yosavuta yothetsera ubale umodzi. Kodi moyo wanu wakhala ukulamulidwa ndi zokonda za mnzanu mpaka liti? Sambani mkombero. Mukufuna chiyani m'moyo? Mumakonda kuchita chiyani? Khalani ndi nthawi yosinkhasinkha ndikumanga moyo wanu - kunja kwa chibwenzi chanu.

Nthawi zina mukakhala pakati pa chibwenzi, zimakhala zovuta kuwona bwino. Ubwenzi wopambana umafuna anthu awiri okondana ndikusamalirana - osati munthu m'modzi yekha. Ngati wokondedwa wanu amakukondanidi, achitapo kanthu kuti akonze zomwe zikukusowetsani mtendere. Ngati simukuwona kusintha kwakanthawi, ndi nthawi yoti mudzione kuti ndinu ofunika kuposa momwe mumaganizira ubale wanu. Moyo ndi waufupi kwambiri kuti ukhale pachibwenzi changozi chomwe chimakukoka. Ndinu ofunika kwambiri kuposa pamenepo.

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