Momwe Mungapewere Mavuto Omwe Alipo Pakukula Kwa Munthu

Zinthu zoipa zimachitika. Zakhala zikuchitika nthawi zonse. Panalibe tsiku limodzi mwanjira ina. Dinosaur anaikira mazira ake potembenuka, iwo anali atapita. Oog adapanga banja. Anataya theka la adani, theka kupita kumwamba. Mphezi. Palibe chodziwikiratu muubongo wake wakale kuti moto womwe mphezi idatsalira udasintha dziko lapansi. Oog anangochokapo.

Koma tinapeza zojambula za Oog kuphanga. Oog ankakonda kuphatikiza matope amdima ofiira. Sanadziwe chifukwa chake. Mawu oti 'zaumwini' ndi 'aesthetics' anali asanasinthebe. Oog adawona dziko lapansi ndikudziyika mmenemo, ndipo apa, tsopano, tikuwona dziko lapansi kudzera m'maso ake.

Oog sanakhaleko ndi tsiku limodzi lomwe silinali mphezi, mano kapena kupweteka, koma kuphanga lililonse komwe Oog adakumanizana mwamantha usiku ndikuthamangitsa malingaliro ndi kulimba mtima, Oog adaonetsetsa kuti apeza nthawi yopaka utoto, ngakhale atakhala kuti palibe dzanja lotopa, lamatope linamenyedwa mokwiya pa mwala posonyeza kuti wapambana tsiku lina.



momwe mungapezere chikondi kuchokera kwa amuna anu

Sipanakhalepo tsiku langwiro.

Sipanakhalepo tsiku lopanda mlandu.



Ndipo sitisiya.

Octavia Butler, m'modzi mwa olemba nkhani zopeka kwambiri zasayansi, adalemba izi m'buku lake Fanizo la Wofesa mbewu :

Zonse zomwe mumakhudza
Mumasintha.



Zonse zomwe Mumasintha
Amakusintha.

Choonadi chokha chokhazikika
ndi Change.

Mulungu
ndi Change.

Kufunika kofikira nthawi yogwira ntchito

Palibe aliyense wa ife amene angathawe kuti moyo ndiwosintha kuchokera pamikhalidwe ina kupita kwina. Ziyembekezero zathu ndizosintha kopindulitsa, koma mwatsoka izi sizili choncho nthawi zonse, ndipo kusakhala ndi chitsimikizo cha zotulukapo zabwino kungatipangitse kukayika zinthu zomwe zimatipatsa chisangalalo.

Izi ndi msampha wopezeka. Kodi munthu amamasuka bwanji?

Yankho: sitisiya. Tidzakankhidwa ndipo tidzadulidwa ndipo tifa, koma, ndi milungu, timakankhira pambali tsiku lililonse kuti tifike kumalo otsatira motsutsana ndi zonse zomwe zingatiuze 'Ayi!'

Ngakhale titatopa bwanji, timauza dziko lapansi ndi mpweya uliwonse kuti silinapambane…. Iwo omwe atayika ndi kunyanyala sanapambane. Mphezi sinapambane. Timakhalabe. Tawomba manja athu kukhoma tisanagone mokwanira, koma chitsimikizo cha mbuyoyo ndikutsimikizika kwa chigonjetso chaching'ono kwambiri, komabe chachikulu: ndili moyo pakadali pano! Ndipo musalole mzimu, kapena nyama, kapena ukulu kuyesayesa kuchitapo kanthu.

Ndipo komabe…

Pali nthawi zina pomwe si mphamvu yakunja yomwe imayika kukayika munthawi zathu zakukula ndi kusintha.

Ndife.

momwe mungabwerenso kwa bwenzi lakale la narcissist

Timapanga fayilo ya mavuto omwe alipo ya “Kodi ndingachite izi? Kodi ndili ndi ufulu kutero? Kodi ndiyenera kuvutikanso? ​​”

Pofunsa mafunso ngati amenewa, mayankho owona okha ndi omwe angachite.

Ndipo yankho lowona mtima kwambiri pazonse zomwe timachita ndikuti timachita izi kwa omvera.

Nthawi zina omverawo amafunika kuwachepetsa chimodzi chokha.

Ntchito yanga yolemba ndimakhala ndi masiku ambiri pomwe ndimadzifunsa kuti ndichifukwa chiyani ndikuchita izi. Kodi ndi kutchuka, ndalama, kapena kupindulitsa kwenikweni kwa onse omwe akukhudzidwa? Kodi zingapangitse kusintha kwa wina aliyense ngati sindinatero, ndipo zomwe zimachitika zimandikwaniritsa kapena pali cholinga china m'malingaliro chofuna kukwaniritsa cholinga chimenecho? Mafunso awa amatanthauzira kukula kwamtundu uliwonse kapena kulimbana ndi cholinga chokhala 'ochulukirapo.'

Mwachikondi titha kufunsa chifukwa chovutikira? Titha kukhala okwatirana zaka makumi anayi ndipo pamapeto pake timangokhala wina wokhudzana ndi kusudzulana. Titha kukwezedwa kangapo pantchito yathu ndikudzifunsabe kuti ndi chiyani chofikira mpikisano wotsatira? Ntchito yambiri, maudindo ambiri, chisangalalo chocheperako? Bwanji kuvutikira nazo?

Yankho lalifupi: Chilichonse chomwe mukuchita m'moyo ndichoyenera kuchita. Khalani omvera a m'modzi, womasulidwa zoyembekezera zopanda malire. Zovuta zathu zomwe zimakhalapo zimabwera chifukwa chokhala ndi mphamvu zopanda malire osakhala otsimikiza kuti tili ndi chidziwitso chonse kapena zofunikira kuti tipite patsogolo. Nkhawa ndichinthu chofunikira kwambiri m'moyo ndipo, motero, kuphatikizira kukhumudwitsidwa pang'ono ndi chimodzi mwa ufulu wamunthu, osati choletsa kapena cholepheretsa.

Mwinanso mungakonde (nkhani ikupitirira pansipa):

Mukudziwa meme 'Kuvina Monga Palibe Wowonera'? Ngati ndinu wolemba, dziwitseni nokha kuti mulembe ngati palibe amene akuwerenga. Zomwe mwina sali. Pokhapokha mutakhala kuti mukukakamizidwa kuti mugwire ntchito yanu, zovuta ndizabwino kuti pakadali pano mwadya ma burger ambiri m'moyo wanu kuposa momwe mabuku anu agulitsira.

mumasintha bwanji dziko

Chifukwa chake kuvina m'malo mwake. Maganizo anzanu. Wina akayamba kuvina pakatikati pamalopo padzakhala maso masauzande ambiri pa 'em. Ndi inu pamene mukulemba buku lotsatira. Ndizo zanu. Khalani wovina wanu, khalani omvera anu, ndipo musangalale ndi mayendedwe amthupi lanu.

Inde, mukufuna kuti mabuku anu agulitse / ubale kuti ukule / ntchito kuti ichite bwino. Mpaka aliyense ifika ku Nirvana , ndicho mtundu womwe tikugwira nawo ntchito. Koma nthawi zonse sungani chimodzi mu hopper. Pitani patsogolo. Apanso, kwa olemba (koma izi zimagwira ntchito kwa aliyense), lingaliro, buku, nkhani - zomwe zimakusangalatsani.

Ngati simutero, mantha amakhala. Mantha ndi ennui. Mukangotsika pang'ono, mumakhudzidwa ndi nyerere zina zoyipa zamaubongo. Dzipangeni kukhala chandamale chosunthira kwa owononga amenewo. The You are No Good nyerere Chifukwa Chake Bother nyerere Nyerere za Extreme Rancor: Makinawa Negative Maganizo. Mudzapeza azakhali awo mmenemo (malingaliro osafunikira awa ndi omwe amayenda mozungulira osafikiranso). Aliyense malingaliro owononga imatumiza uthenga wake kwa ena mpaka kukayika zonse pazomwe mukuchita kumakhala chizolowezi. Swetsani phiri la nyerere. Guleni. Bwanji? Palibe matsenga. Palibe chinsinsi. Inu basi.

Chitani izi. Lembani. Kuvina. Phunzirani. Pangani. Konzani. Ngozi. Fikirani. Lekani KULINGALIRA ZA KUWONETSEDWA KAPENA KUTHA KWA ZOCHITIKA ZIMENE MUKUCHITA NDI KUKHALA. Mavuto omwe alipo? Zili ngati kudandaula kufunikira kotsuka mutagonana. Ndipo palibe amene adzaname kwambiri mpaka kuyerekezera kuti akufuna kuthawa kugonana chifukwa sakufuna kusamba pambuyo pake. Ayi.

Sangalalani ndi nibblies. Pali nthawi zina pamene kukula kwa zomwe mungakwanitse kukulepheretsani kuchita chilichonse, komabe chodabwitsa chokhudza ife anthu timadziwa kuti tikukhala chimodzi mwazinthu zopanda malire zomwe zimadalira kulumikizana kopanda malire komanso kusiyanasiyana kosatha. Izi zitha kufotokozedwa mwachidule ngati #daunting. Koma sitimasiya. Ziribe kanthu momwe timadzichepetsera m'maganizo athu tokha, makamaka, aliyense wa ife ndi wamaliseche ndi kuvina.

Moyo, womwe ndi kusintha, umafanana ndi mabala obisalaza ponseponse m'njira zingapo miliyoni. Lekani kuganizira zamalonda zomwe muyenera kuchita, kapena kudzipereka, zovuta kapena zosokoneza. Mwanjira imeneyi pamakhala misala. Osadandaula za zotsatira zomaliza zomwe zili mtsogolo. Khalani pano tsopano.

Ngati palibenso china, kumbatirani kukhala wamaliseche mophiphiritsa, ndikugwedezeka. Ndikusintha, kusintha, komanso kukula kwaumwini nthawi zonse, kumakhala kovuta kukhalabe wolumikizidwa pamalo omwe alipo ndi zidutswa zosangalatsa zomwe mukuyenda mozungulira, zikhale kuphanga, khola labanja, situdiyo ya zojambulajambula, kapena bolodi laofesi.

Chitani izi mosasamala zomwe zingachitike. Kenako chitani zina. Mukamaliza, mupeza kuti mwaimirira wamtali pang'ono ndipo mwakonzeka kuyankhula kwatsopano.