Momwe Mungakhalire Osaweruza Ndikusiya Kuweruza Anthu (Ndipo Nokha) Momwemonso

Ndi dziko losokonekera, sichoncho, lodzaza ndi anthu osokonekera omwe akufuna kukhala osalongosoka, osachita zinthu mwadongosolo, osagwirizana, osagwirizana, komanso osagwira ntchito mwamwano.

Kupatula inu, kumene, ndipo mwina anzanu atatu odalirika.

Ngati tikukhala achilungamo, tiyenera kuwonjezera 'pokhapokha ngati simulongosoka, simukuyenda bwino, ndipo simukuyenda bwino.'





Tonsefe, nthawi ina, timakhala ndi zovuta zazing'onoting'ono zamunthu, zodzaza ndi zolakwika, kulephera kuweruza, komanso kuperewera kwa kupusa kwenikweni.

Nanga bwanji timaweruza ena mwankhaza chonchi?



Yankho lalifupi: Chifukwa tikudziwona tokha, ndipo zithunzi zamagalasi ndizoyang'anira ntchito zowuma.

Kuti tichepetse kulumpha kumeneku kuti tiweruzidwe, tiyenera kudzifunsa mafunso ena ofunikira.

Kodi Timapeza Chiyani?

Ziweruzo zokhazokha ndizosavuta kuzisintha, koma nanga bwanji ziweruzo zomwe tili nazo?



Tonsefe tikudziwa kuti pali ziweruzo zina zomwe sitingathe kuzisiya. Zolinga zamagulu zimadzitengera chidwi cha anthu makamaka, ndipo tikudziwa kuchuluka kwa nthawi yomwe timagwiritsa ntchito powerenga ziweruzo ndi malingaliro pa intaneti.

Kodi chinali chiweruzo chokhwima pa imodzi mwazinthu zazikulu zosangalatsa anthu? Inde, koma khalani ndi ine.

Tikudziwa nthawi yoteroyo sichofunika, komanso 'kuzindikira' komwe timapeza kuchokera pamenepo, nanga bwanji ungamaweruze mwamphamvu maondo? Kodi timapeza chiyani?

Monga mtundu womwe umanenedweratu kuti upeza phindu, zimawoneka ngati zopanda phindu kuwononga nthawi yochulukirapo yamaola athu mosadzisankhira tikungogwedeza zingwe zamaganizidwe.

Nchiyani Chimatiwopseza Mukuweruza?

Mantha nthawi zambiri ndi chifukwa chomwe timaponyera chiweruzo, ngakhale kudziweruza tokha.

Mwina sitingafune kuti tioneke ngati tikutsutsana ndi lingaliro la gulu, kapena mwina - kubweza mkwiyo pakulephera kwathu kusankha chisankho - kuweruza china kapena chinthu chokhwima kwambiri kuposa choyenera kapena choyenera.

Komabe kuyang'anizana ndi mantha ndichofunikira kwambiri pakukula kwenikweni ndikuchepetsa mkwiyo womwe ukuloza wekha.

Ndizosavuta kumva kuti aweruzidwa, ndipo pambuyo pake tidziweruze tokha mwankhanza , tikamaopa.

Masiku ano, anthu amauzidwa kuti aziwopa chilichonse. Mantha ndi mkate ndi batala wa zomwe timati 'nkhani'.

Dziwani zomwe mukuopa, yang'anani mantha anu, ndikudzifunsa nokha: Kodi mantha anu anali oyenera kuwazunza ena?

Phunzirani Kukhululuka

Nthawi zambiri, chiweruzo chimakhala chakukhosi, ndipo sizobisika kuti kusungira chakukhosi kuli kofunika monga kuluma lilime lako kuti uletse wina.

Sizothandiza chilichonse tikazindikira kuti anthu amatha kusungirana chakukhosi ngakhale iwo eni!

Kodi tichite chiyani mu mphodza yopanga chiweruzo?

Phunzirani kukhululuka.

Kukhululuka sikuchita ndi kungopukuta pachimake. Kukhululuka ndikuvomereza kuti kuvulala kwachitika koma chigamulo chomaliza sichinaperekedwe.

Ngati mungakhululukire zolakwa za munthu wina, kuphatikizapo zanu, simukhala pachiweruzo cha dziko lonse lapansi, losawona mtima, losagwira ntchito.

Landirani Kupanda Ungwiro

Monga tanenera poyamba, palibe amene ali wangwiro. Palibe amene ayenera kukhala.

Anthu ambiri (omwe mwadziphatikiza) ndi amakhalidwe abwino, osamala, otha kuzindikira omwe amazindikira kuti, nthawi zina amatha kuchita bwino, ndipo atenga nawo mbali potengera izi. Makamaka.

Ponena za omwe akuchedwa kuwerenga ma memos, kuwaponya pansi pa bus yoweruza kumakhala kosangalatsa, koma mwina kuleza mtima ndi njira yabwino kwa onse okhudzidwa?

Landirani kuti ena (nokha munaphatikizapo kuzindikira mutu?) Alibe mayankho. Lolani anthu asokoneze ndikuphunzira, mwinanso aphunzire kwa inu.

alice mu Wondland quotes tonse takalipa apa

Kwa iwo omwe amakana kuphunzira, chokani. Zithunzi zonse zotsogoza akavalo kupita kumadzi koma osakhoza kuwamwetsa ndizowona zana limodzi.

Funafunani Msipu Wambiri

Njira imodzi yotsimikizirira kuweruza mopitilira muyeso ndikukhala okhazikika pazomwe mukudziwa.

Iwo omwe amawonera FOX News (ndipo inde, FOX News ndiyowopsa) kuloza iwo omwe amaonera CNN (ndipo inde, CNN ndiyoseketsa). Magulu onse awiriwa amatha kutembenuzira anthu omwe amaonera PBS, Al Jazeera, kapena BBC.

Pakadali pano, zowona zilizonse kapena zodalirika zofunika kutidziwitsa timakhala amasiye kuthengo.

Popani kuwira komwe mumakhala. Chitani m'njira yaying'ono kuti muyambe kuyendera laibulale. Yendani kwinakwake komwe simukukudziwa ndikungowonera. Musachite kufunsa mafunso ndi mayankho kale chisanadze yodzaza mu malingaliro.

Ubongo, monga gawo lina lililonse la ife, umafunikira kuyenda ndi chakudya choyenera kuti ugwire bwino ntchito.

Kudzala mbendera ndi phazi lanu ndikuyimirira pamalo amodzi oweruza kumayimitsa mphamvu yamaganizidwe yomwe tonsefe tili nayo, nthawi zina osakhoza kuyikonza.

Mwinanso mungakonde (nkhani ikupitirira pansipa):

Imani pansi

Sikuti nkhondo iliyonse ndi yanu. Izi zitha kubwereza, chifukwa pazifukwa zina zosavomerezeka magulu athu avomereza lingaliro lodabwitsa loti kuyankha mokwiya ndikofunikira kuyankha pafupifupi chilichonse.

Ngati mumangolimbikira kumenya nkhondo, aliyense ndi chilichonse, mwachinsinsi chanu, pa cholakwa chokupangani inu mwanjira imeneyo.

Amadziweruza kuti akusowa, osowa, otsika, ovuta, ovuta, komanso otsutsana nawo. Chilichonse chomwe chimawoneka kuti ndichopanda pake ndikuchita nkhondo yankhondo.

Imani pansi msirikali. Imani pansi ndikutulutsa galasi lamthumba. Nthawi iliyonse yomwe mukuganiza kuti winawake ndiye vuto, yang'anani pagalasi.

Chitani izi pafupipafupi momwe mungafunikire. Pali wina yemwe muyenera kumuwona, wina yemwe mwina simunamuwonepo, moona mtima, kwanthawi yayitali.

Dzipulumutseni Nokha

Zedi, ndi ndani amene anakupangani Grand Arbiter (pamene, momveka bwino, ndine)?

Koma mozama, ngati chilichonse ndi aliyense ali wopusa kwa inu, ndipo pali ngakhale makanda omwe amafunikira kusintha malingaliro, wamkulu putz ndi ndani?

Nthawi zina, sandpaper yolimba imafunikira kuti muchepetse m'makona osokonekera amalingaliro opambanitsa, m'malo mochita bwino.

Chifukwa chake tiyeni tidutse tokha. Tiyeni tidzilole tokha pokhala okoma mtima kwa ife tokha.

Kumbukirani, kuweruza kambiri kwa ena ndi chifukwa chosakondwera ndi ndani ife ali.

Kukhala wodziweruza mopitirira muyeso ndikulemala m'njira zambiri, chimodzi mwazomwezi ndikumadzichotsera ulemu kwanthawi zonse.

Kuseka Icho

Izi zitha kuwoneka ngati zopepuka kwambiri. Pofuna kumveketsa: ayi, musaseke kuthekera kowona kuchitiridwa zinthu zopanda chilungamo osasekera kufunika kokhala achifundo komanso omvera omwe achitiridwa nkhanza sizimaseka kusamalira malingaliro anu, malingaliro anu, ndi uzimu wanu -kukhala.

Kuseka tinthu tating'onoting'ono. Monga momwe kulimbana kulikonse sikumenyera kwanu, nkhondo iliyonse sikutanthauza akuyenera kumenya nkhondo .

Ndipo tiyeni tidziwenso momveka bwino: chiweruzo chankhanza ndichinthu chankhanza munjira ina.

Pokhapokha mutakhala woweruza m'bwalo lamilandu, zambiri mwazomwe mungakumane nazo pamoyo wanu sizabwino kwenikweni . Palibe chovala chofunikira.

Zowonadi, zinthu zambiri zomwe aliyense wa ife amatengeka nazo nthawi zambiri zimakhala zopanda pake, zopusa, komanso zazing'ono.

Iseka. Ngati simungathe kuseka, lolani zinthu zizipita . Ngati simungalole kuti zinthu zizipita, dzichotsereni nokha ndikuchita zina.

Werengani zambiri

Kumbukirani ubongo wanu wodabwitsa uja? Zimakonda mukamawerenga. Werengani zambiri. Muziwerenga mosiyanasiyana. Sakani mawu atsopano ndi kuzindikira kwatsopano.

Kuwerenga kwawonetsedwa mwasayansi kuchepetsa nkhawa , sinthani kukumbukira , ndikupanga anthu hella achigololo. Omalizawa atha kukhala asayansi yocheperako komanso malingaliro olakalaka owerenga omwe akudziyesa okha, panthawiyi, ocheperako kuposa momwe alili.

Koma osalakwitsa, iye ndi hella achigololo.

Kuwerenga kumawonjezera chidziwitso, amathandizira kukulitsa kumvera ena chisoni chidwi, ndikuchepetsa malingaliro mokwanira kuti muwone dziko lapansi m'malo modziwona ngati kutsatizana kwazithunzi pazenera lagalimoto yomwe ikung'ung'udza.

ndili pati mdziko lapansi

Izi zimalumikizana ndi kuleza mtima, kulumikizana kukulitsa kuwira kwake, ndipo sizimapereka kanthu koma phindu.

Kuwerenga sikuyenera kungokhala ndi chidwi ndi simenti, kuyenera kupangitsa moyo kukhala wosangalatsa, wosewera, wotentha, komanso kusamalira, zomwe ndizotsutsana ndi polar pakuweruza.

Ndikupangira kuti muwerenge 'M'malo Okhala chete' wolemba CE Young, umodzi: chifukwa ndikudziwa wolemba ndipo sindimayerekeza kukhala opanda tsankho awiri: chifukwa ndi buku lazolimbikitsa komanso zoyeserera zamaganizidwe zomwe zidakonzedwa kuti zilembedwe nanu mukamawerenga iwo, zolimbitsa thupi zabwino zokhazika mtima pansi kuweruza.

Osadzipweteka Vibe Yanu

Kuyika tsiku lanu ndi diso kuweruza aliyense kumatenga zinthu zamtengo wapatali zowonera kuti zisawoneke zokongola zilizonse zomwe mungakumane nazo.

Kuyang'anitsitsa nthawi zonse kumakhala bwino kuposa kuweruza. Kuyang'anitsitsa kumawona dziko lapansi ndikusintha momwe kusinthaku kukumana. (Shakespeare ya win see: kuwerenga.)

Kupanga zowonera kumatha kukhala kovuta kwambiri kuposa kupanga ziweruzo, koma pokhapokha ngati kuwonerako sikokhazikitsidwa ndi tsankho komanso kukondera kosafunsidwa.

Osakhwimitsa mawonekedwe anu owonera m'malo mwake, tsegulani kuthekera kwakuti inu ndi aliyense amene mumadziwa mumalakwitsa zinazake nthawi ina.

Mudzapeza kuti mumakhala omasuka kwambiri, mumangoganiza mwamphamvu komanso mwamalingaliro, komanso zambiri munthu wabwino . Anthu azikhulupirira ziweruzo zanu, m'malo mongoyang'ana kuti muwone kuti ndi liti lomwe likugwedezeka.

Kotero tidzachoka ndi izi. Ndizolemba zabwino kwambiri kuchokera kwa wolemba komanso wokhulupirira zamizimu Gary Zukav.

“Palibe amene angalandire kuwolowa manja kwanu kupatula inu. Ndani angakulezere mtima pamene kupirira kukudutsa mwa iwe? Ndani kupatula amene mungasankhe kuti musachite chiweruzo pomwe malingaliro anu onse ndi oweluza? Moyo wanu ndi wanu kuti mukhale nawo, ziribe kanthu momwe mungasankhire. Mukamaganizira momwe mungakhalire, moyo wanu umakhala wamoyo. ”

Kukhala wodalirika komanso woyenera kukhala pafupi ndi ena, kuposa oweluza milandu? Osati kovuta kuweruza konse.