Momwe Mungathetsere Anzanu Omwe Amapeza Ubwenzi (Koma Khalani Anzanu)

Chifukwa chake, mwakhala muubwenzi wopanda zingwe ndi mnzanu, koma mukufuna kubwerera kuti mukhale abwenzi chabe?

Zimatha kumveka zachilendo kugona ndi munthu wina kulowa malo oyanjana okhaokha…

… Koma, kumbukirani, mudali abwenzi 'chabe' kale, ndipo mudzatha kubwerera kumeneko ngati nonse mudzipereka.



Kungakhale kovuta kuyenda mu 'kutha' kwamtunduwu, koma pali njira zopangira izi!

Choyamba, funsani…



Chifukwa chiyani mukufuna kuthetsa ubalewu wa FWB?

Ganizirani za chifukwa chomwe mukusankha kubwerera pogona ndi FWB yanu…

1. Mukuyamba kumverera za iwo.

Ngati mukumvera mnzanu amene mukugona naye, mwina muyenera kucheza nawo za izi.

Munali abwenzi zisanachitike zonsezi, chifukwa chake, ndiye mukudziwa kuti mutha kukhala achilungamo kwa iwo.



Atha kukhala akumva chimodzimodzi, zomwe zimakupatsani china choti mufufuze, kapena angavomereze kuti akusangalala ndi kugonana komweko.

Ngati mukufuna kubwerera kuti mukhale anzanu mutangomva FWB, tengani pang'onopang'ono, dzipatseni malo ndikuyamba kumanganso ubale wanu.

2. Mukuyamba kukhala ndi malingaliro kwa wina.

Ngati mukufuna kuthetsa ubale wanu wa FWB chifukwa mumakonda wina, muyenera kuwonetsetsa kuti mukuyang'ana momwe mnzanu akumvera komanso zanu!

Zitha kukhala zophweka kuganiza kuti, chifukwa zinthu ndizosavuta, zikhala bwino mukamaliza zinthu ndikuthawa ndi wina.

Lankhulani nawo moona mtima momwe mukumvera, onetsani kuti simukufuna kuwakhumudwitsa, ndiyeno yambani kuchita zomwe mukufuna.

3. Amakumverani.

Tonse tawona makanema - FWB imakhala yovuta munthu akangomva za mnzake.

Ngati ndi iwo, osati inu, omwe mwakhazikika, muyenera kukhala osamala kwambiri ndi momwe mungathetsere chibwenzichi.

Mumamudziwa munthuyu ndipo mumawakonda (mukadali abwenzi, pambuyo pa zonse), chifukwa chake mudzadziwa njira yabwino yolankhulirana nawo ndikuwadziwitsa momwe mukumvera.

Zingamveke zankhanza panthawiyo, koma, ngati simukuwona zinthu zikugwira ntchito pakati panu ngati pali kukhudzidwa, muyenera kuthana ndi izi posachedwa.

4. Sikugwiranso ntchito kwa inu.

Mwina simulinso mwa iwo, kapena kugonana sikusangalatsa monga kale.

Ngati ubale wanu wa FWB sukugwiranso ntchito kwa inu, muyenera kukhala achilungamo pa izi ndikudziwitsa mnzake modekha kuti simusangalalanso ndi mbali ya 'maubwino'.

5. Mukufuna kuwona omwe ali kunja uko.

Mwina mutha kufikira pomwe mukufuna kucheza ndi anthu ena.

Mwinamwake mudayamba ubale wa FWB chifukwa mumadzidalira, kapena mukufuna kupeza chidziwitso ndi munthu amene mumakhala naye bwino musanayambe chibwenzi moyenera.

Mwanjira iliyonse, ndizabwinobwino kufuna kukumana ndi anthu ena kuti musangalale!

Chibwenzi cha FWB chikuyenera kukuyimitsani kuti muchite chibwenzi kwathunthu, motero kutha ndiye njira yabwino kwambiri pankhaniyi.

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Kotero, mwazindikira chifukwa chake mukufuna kupita patsogolo. Koma mungabwerere bwanji kungokhala anzanu?

1. Lemekezanani malire a wina ndi mnzake.

Ngati nonse mwagwirizana kuti mudzakhalanso abwenzi chabe, muyenera kulemekezana malire.

Mwina zikutanthauza kuti musawauze zonse za munthu watsopano yemwe mukugona naye - osachepera, kwa milungu ingapo yoyambirira pomwe mukuzolowera kukhala abwenzi chabe.

Mwina izi zikutanthauza kuti musawatumizire mameseji mukaledzera ndikukhala osungulumwa nthawi ya 2am!

Mulimonse momwe mungapangire FWB wina ndi mnzake, tengani pang'ono pang'ono ndikuyang'ana kungokhala abwenzi.

Ganizirani zomwe zili zoyenera kugawana ndi momwe mungachitire ndi anzanu ena.

2. Musasunthike pachisankho chanu.

Ngati nonse mwagwirizana kuti mubwererenso kukhala mabwenzi, muyenera kulemekeza chisankho.

Izi zikutanthauza kuti musabwerere m'mbuyo!

Kungakhale kosavuta kubwereranso kuzolowera, koma yesetsani.

Mukamawona bwino mizereyo, ndizosokoneza kwambiri inu nonse.

Ngati mwaganiza zothetsa ubale wa FWB chifukwa mumawakonda, mwachitsanzo, kugona nawo kungokupangitsirani zovuta.

Gwiritsitsani mfuti zanu, mphamvu kudzera ndipo, nthawi ina mukadzayesedwa kuti muwafikire, itanani mnzanu wina m'malo mwake!

3. Pitirizani kuyesetsa nawo.

Zingakhale zophweka kuganiza kuti kuthetsa chibwenzi cha FWB kungakhale kosavuta ngati mutangomudula munthuyo m'moyo wanu.

Sizowonadi, ndipo mwina zitha kuwononga ubale wanu.

Onetsetsani kuti mukuchezerana, kukumana, kucheza m'magulu ndi zina - chilichonse chomwe chimagwira nonse.

Mfundo yobwerera pakungokhala abwenzi ndikuti mumabwezeretsanso mnzanu - choncho muwachitireni ngati abwenzi, onetsani kuti mumawakonda, ndipo pitirizani kucheza nawo.

4. Onani momwe akumvera.

Izi ndizofunikira kwambiri.

Ngati chisankho chobwerera kuti mukhale anzanu chinali chanu, muyenera kuganizira momwe mnzake akumvera.

Zowonadi, atha kukhala atagwirizana ndi kusankha kwanu kapena kuvomerezana nanu, koma pakhoza kukhala gawo lina la iwo omwe aphonya ubalewo - kapena amakhala ndi malingaliro ena pa inu.

Yesetsani kukhala osamala pamene mukuyenda ndikusinthanso kukhala abwenzi.

Dziwani malingaliro awo, fufuzani nawo, ndipo khalani okoma mtima.

Ngati akuwonetsa kuti akukhala ndi nthawi yovuta kapena akufuna kubwerera ku FWB, mwina apatseni mwayi wowapatsa malo owonjezera ngati akuganiza kuti angawathandize.

Kungakhale kovuta, makamaka mukamawasamalira, koma zingakhale bwino kwaubwenzi wanu pamapeto pake ngati mungawapatse nthawi kuti achiritse pompano.

5. Lankhulani moona mtima.

Ichi ndi gawo lofunikira laubwenzi uliwonse, koma ndichofunikira kumayanjano aliwonse a FWB omwe akubwerera kukhala mabwenzi chabe.

Khalani owona mtima kwa wina ndi mzake pamene mukukambirana za chifukwa chake komanso momwe mukuganizira kuti mutha kubwerera ndikukhala abwenzi chabe.

Palibe chifukwa chonamizira kapena kubisirana zinthu, chifukwa izi zimangopangitsa zinthu kukhala zosokoneza kapena zovuta.

6. Sungani zinthu zaubwenzi.

Mutha kuzolowera kuwona bwenzi lachisanu Lachisanu usiku mu bar musanabwerere kwawo.

Tsopano popeza ndinu abwenzi chabe, yesetsani kupewa zinthu zomwe zingayambitse zikumbukiro zamtunduwu.

M'malo mochita zinthu zomwe munkachita limodzi mukakhala pachibwenzi cha FWB, yesani kuchita zinthu zomwe ndizabwino kwambiri!

Chifukwa chake, khalani ndi nthawi yambiri limodzi tsikulo m'malo mokhala momasuka, mwachitsanzo.

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Zachidziwikire, mutha kumapita limodzi kukamwa, koma kungathandize kupewa izi, poyamba, kungoyang'ana kusintha kubwerera kuubwenzi.

7. Pumirani pang'ono.

Ngati wina wa inu adakhudzidwa, mungafune kulingalira zopumira pang'ono.

Zinthu zimatha kukhala zokongola kwambiri ndipo malingaliro amatha kumverera mwamphamvu kuposa momwe amakhalira chifukwa mwapeza kale maziko abwino ngati abwenzi.

Mungafune kunena kuti mupatsane malo ndi nthawi kuti muchite.

Mungafunike kupita patsogolo, angafunikire kupitabe patsogolo, kapena zinthu zingafunike kuziziritsa pang'ono musanakhale nthawi yongocheza.

Izi ndizabwinobwino ndipo sizitanthauza kuti simudzalankhulanso - zimangopatsa munthu womverera nthawi yakumva chisoni ndi ubale womwe amayembekezera.

8. Onani anthu ena.

Sitikunena kuti muyenera kugona ndi munthu watsopano kuti musunthire, koma zitha kuthandiza kuwona momwe mumamvera ndi anthu ena kuti mupeze lingaliro la momwe kwenikweni mverani za FWB iyi.

Mutha kuzindikira momwe mukumvera pa FWB yanu sinali yamphamvu monga momwe mumaganizira.

Amatha kuwona wina ndikazindikira awo malingaliro a inu sanali olimba monga iwo ganiza.

Mulimonse momwe zingakhalire, zimakupatsani mawonekedwe atsopano aubwenzi wanu wa FWB ndipo zikuthandizani kuti mukhale abwenzi anzanu athanzi, ozindikira.

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Chofunikira kukumbukira pothetsa anzanu omwe ali ndiubwenzi wabwino ndikuti mudali anzanu.

Mumadziwana ndipo mumasamalirana.

Ngati m'modzi wa inu wayamba kukhala ndi malingaliro, mukufuna kuwona anthu ena, kapena zinthu sizikukuthandizaninso, khalani oona mtima.

Monga bwenzi lanu, adzayamikira kuti - amakudziwani, ndipotu, mwina ndiwomwe akumvera!

Kungakhale kovuta kuyenda pakusintha kwamtunduwu, choncho khalani oleza mtima nokha komanso munthu winayo ndipo kumbukirani kuyankhulana.

Mungafunike kanthawi kochepa kuti 'mukhazikitsenso' kuti mukhale anzanu chabe, koma zidzakhala zofunikira pamapeto pake.

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