Momwe Mungadziwire Ngati Mumakopeka: Zizindikiro 10 Zomwe Muyenera Kuzifuna

Ngati mukuwerenga izi, pali mwayi waukulu kuti osatero ndikuganiza kuti ndiwe wokongola…

… Ndiye tiyeni tiyambire kunena izi aliyense ndi wokongola!

Pali njira zambiri zokopa, komanso zinthu zambiri zomwe anthu osiyanasiyana amakopeka nazo.



Kodi ndimakonda chibwenzi cha mnzanga wapamtima? Ayi konse.

Kodi angakhale pachibwenzi ndi chibwenzi changa? Palibe mwayi.



Ndipo komabe tonse timakopeka kwambiri ndi anzathu.

Aliyense ali wosiyana ndipo wina (anthu angapo!) Adzakhala mwa inu.

Nazi zina mwa zinthu zomwe mungayang'ane zomwe zikuwonetsa kuti ndinu okongola, koma mndandandawu siwathunthu kapena mtheradi. Ngati simupereka chala chilichonse pamndandandawu, sizitanthauza kuti ndinu osakongola!



1. Nthawi zambiri mumalandira mayamiko.

Izi ndizofunikira kwambiri, koma ngati anthu nthawi zambiri amakuuzani momwe muliri, momwe mumawonekera, komanso momwe mumasangalalira, mukuchita bwino pamoyo!

Anthu amafunitsitsa kukudziwitsani kukongola kwanu chifukwa akufuna kuti mudziwe, ndipo akufuna kuti mumveke bwino. Ena mwina akuyesera kukopana nanu ...

2. Simumayamikiridwa kawirikawiri.

Yep - zotsutsana kwathunthu! Nthawi zina, anthu okongola samangoyamikira zambiri.

Ngati mukucheza ndi munthu amene mumamukonda ndipo akuwoneka odabwitsa sekondi iliyonse yamasana, zingakhale zachilendo mukawauza kuti pamphindi 5 zilizonse.

Mofananamo, nthawi zina anthu owoneka bwino samayamikiridwa chifukwa aliyense amaganiza kuti akudziwa kale kuti ndi okongola kapena otentha - nchiyani chofunikira kuwuza wina za iwo zomwe zili zowonekeratu ?!

3. Anthu amakopeka nanu ndipo amakufunsani.

Mwinamwake anthu amakufunsani pafupipafupi pamasiku ndikukufunsani nambala yanu, kapena kungokumenyani usiku.

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Ichi ndi chizindikiro chodziwikiratu kuti amakopeka nanu, chifukwa chake, mumakopeka!

Kumbukirani kuti aliyense ali ndi mtundu wina komanso kuti aliyense ndiwokongola m'njira yakeyake, chifukwa choti simumamenyedwa nthawi zonse mukatuluka mnyumbamo, sizitanthauza kuti ndinu wosakongola.

4. Mwakhala pa madeti.

Ngati mwakhalapo pamasiku aliwonse (ngakhale amodzi okha!), Winawake wakukondweretsani mokwanira kuti akufuna kukudziwani zambiri.

Ngakhale tsikuli silinapite modabwitsa, amakopeka nanu pazifukwa ndikusankha kucheza nanu nthawi yomwe akanatha kuchita zina.

Ngati adasankha kuti asapitirire kukuwonani, sizitanthauza kuti simukusangalatsa, chifukwa chake yesetsani kuti musakutenge ngati kukana. Kungakhale nthawi yoyipa, mwina singamve bwino, kapena mwina sangakhale ndi chidwi chofuna kuchita izi.

5. Munakhalapo pachibwenzi kapena mwakhala muli pachibwenzi.

Ngati mwakhala 'mukuwona' winawake, kumangopita kukacheza ndi munthu yemweyo, kapena kukhala pachibwenzi, mwachiwonekere ndinu wokongola!

Palibe amene amakhala nthawi yayitali ndi munthu pokhapokha atasankha, ndipo akusankha kucheza nanu pazifukwa.

Ngati mwakhala mukugona ndi winawake, kapena mwangokhala pachibwenzi ndi munthu amene muli naye pachibwenzi, mwachionekere amakukondani ndipo amakupangitsani kukhala osiririka.

6. Mumacheza kwambiri ndi anthu.

Tiyeni tikumbukire kuti kukhala wokongola sikungotengera momwe timawonekera! Zachidziwikire, ndi njira yabwino yoyambira poyamba, koma pali zambiri zokopa kuposa kungoyang'ana gawolo.

Ngati mumapezeka kuti mukucheza bwino, kukhala ndi banter wodabwitsa, ndipo mwina mumangopusitsika komanso kuchita zachipongwe, sikuti ndinu kampani yabwino - mumakopanso!

7. Anthu amasangalala kucheza nanu ndipo amafuna kuti azicheza.

Ngati anthu amakopeka nanu ndipo amafuna kuti muzicheza nanu pafupipafupi, ndinu wokongola.

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Pali china chake chokhudza inu chomwe chimakopa anthu ndikuwapangitsa kufuna kukhala pafupi nanu. Kungakhale mawonekedwe anu, nthabwala zanu, kapena mphamvu zanu - zilizonse zomwe zingachitike, ngati anthu akufuna kukhala nanu chifukwa cha izi, ndinu osangalatsa!

Apanso, aliyense ndiwokopa munjira yake, kotero ngakhale ngati simungadziwone nokha, anthu omwe amakufunani ndipo amafuna kucheza nanu amaziwona ndikuzikhulupirira.

Yesetsani kukhulupirira izi ndikuzindikira kuti anthu amafuna kukhala nanu, ngakhale atakhala ovuta bwanji poyamba!

8. Anthu amakufufuzani.

Mwinamwake mumayang'anitsitsa mumsewu, kapena anthu amatenga kawiri akamayenda kudutsa inu mu bar.

Zachidziwikire, ngati mumakhala omasuka nazo, izi zimatha kukhala zabwino komanso ndikulimbikitsidwa komwe kumakudziwitsani kuti anthu amakupangitsani kukhala osiririka.

Zitha kutengera momwe mukuwonekera, komanso zomwe amakonda. Ganizirani momwe mumakhalira ndi nkhawa mukamacheza ndi mnzanu wamaloto, ndipo musakhumudwe ngati simukugwirizana kwenikweni ndi lingaliro labwino la munthu wina!

9. Anthu amadabwa kuti ndinu wamanyazi.

Kodi mudakhalapo ndi bwenzi lanu ndikuwamva akudandaula kuti ndi onenepa, ali ndi khungu loyipa, ali ndi mimbulu yaying'ono kwambiri kapena alibe miyendo yokwanira?

Monga munthu amene amawakonda ndipo amaganiza kuti ndi amodzi mwa anthu abwino kwambiri padziko lapansi, mungadabwe kwambiri kuwamva akunena zoipa za iwo eni.

Kupatula apo, mukuganiza kuti ndiwokongola / odabwitsa / okoma / oseketsa, sangatero bwanji, kapena wina aliyense, osaziwona?

Zomwezo zimagwiranso ntchito kwa inu. Ngati anthu akudabwa kapena kudabwitsidwa mukawauza kuti ndinu amanyazi kapena mukuganiza kuti simukukongola, ndichifukwa akuwona inu waluntha ndipo sungalingalire momwe iwe sungadziwonere wekha.

Mofananamo, ngati anthu akudabwa kuti simuli pabanja, mwina chifukwa choti amakupezani mukuwoneka bwino ndipo motero mumaganizira kuti ena onse nawonso amatero!

10. Anthu amasintha mozungulira iwe.

Tonse takhalapo - mumapeza wina wokongola ndikuyamba kuseka, kapena wamanyazi ndikuyamba kuchita manyazi, kapena mwina kuyamba kusewera ndi tsitsi lanu ndikukopana.

Mukawona kuti machitidwe a anthu amasintha mozungulira inu, mwina chifukwa choti amakupangitsani kukhala osiririka.

Atha kusamala za malingaliro anu motero amanjenjemera ndipo amafuna kuti akusangalatseni, kapena atha kupita kunja ndikuyamba kuseka, kukhala OTT, ndikuyesera kuti mumve.

Mulimonse momwe zingakhalire, ngati anthu amasinthasintha machitidwe mukakhala pafupi, ndichifukwa choti amakupangitsani kukhala osangalatsa ndipo amafuna kuti muwazindikire.

momwe ungamuuzire mtsikana kuti ndi wokongola

Mawu okopa.

Chifukwa chake, izi ndi zinthu zochepa zomwe zitha kuwonetsa momwe anthu ena amakupezerani.

Ngati simunakumanepo ndi chilichonse pamndandandawu (kapena china chilichonse), sizimakupangitsani kukhala osasangalatsa konse!

Ena a ife timakhala odzidalira kwambiri kotero kuti sitimazindikira ngakhale pamene anthu amatiyang'ana kapena kutipatsa chidwi. Timatengeka kwambiri m'maganizo mwathu akuti 'sindine wokongola, akumenyadi mnzanga m'malo mwa ine,' kuti timakhala osazindikira anthu omwe amatikondadi.

Timakana chidwi cha anthu chifukwa tazolowera kuganiza kuti sizowona. Ngakhale izi zili zabwinobwino, si malingaliro abwinobwino kukhala nawo pazathu!

Ngati mukulimbana ndi mawonekedwe a thupi lanu kapena momwe mukuwonekera, ndi bwino kulankhula ndi katswiri. Nthawi zina, timafunikira wina woti atithandize kuthana ndi malingaliro athu ndikupeza chifukwa cha 'zikhulupiriro' ndi nkhani zomwe timadziuza.

Mwina mudakanidwa ndi winawake zaka zapitazo ndipo tsopano mukuganiza kuti palibe amene adzakupezeninso wokongola.

Mwina mukuganiza kuti munthu amene akuyankhula nanu akuchita izi kuti ayandikire pafupi ndi mnzanuyo, chifukwa chake akukankhirani kutali kuti akumenyeni chifukwa akumva ngati ndiwe kukana iwo powanyalanyaza!

Zitha kumveka zachilendo, koma zizolowezi zathu zambiri zomwe zimadza chifukwa chodziona osakongola zitha kutipangitsa pangani tokha timakhala ngati osakopa, osagwirizana, kapena amwano.

Si vuto lanu konse, koma ndichinthu choyenera kukumbukira! Kulankhula ndi munthu amene amachita bwino ntchito yothandiza anthu osadzidalira komanso kudzidalira atha kuchita zodabwitsa, ndipo kukuthandizani kuzindikira kuti ndinu odabwitsa komanso apadera.

Ndipo kumbukirani, kufunikira kwanu sikudalire ndi momwe anthu ena amakuwonerani, ndipo momwe ubale wanu ulili siziyenera kukhudza momwe mumadzionera nokha pamlingo waukulu kapena wautali!

Ena mwa anthu osangalatsa kwambiri padziko lapansi sanakhale osakwatiwa nthawi ina m'miyoyo yawo - kungoti Google wanu wotchuka amakuwonetsani ndipo mudzazindikira msanga kuti sanalowe osakwatiwa, adakanidwa ndi anthu omwe amawakonda, ndipo iwo Ndaponyedwa nthawi ina!

Momwe timawonekera komanso momwe anthu ena amatikondera siomwe tili ndikumaliza zonse, chifukwa chake kumbukirani kudzidalira momwe muliri, osati omwe amakupangitsani kukhala osangalatsa.

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