Momwe Mungalemekezere Ena (+ Chifukwa Chake Ndi Chofunika Mu Moyo)

Zingakhale zovuta kumva liwu loti 'ulemu,' kapena kuwona nkhani yokhudza ulemu, osaganizira za Mfumukazi ya Moyo, Aretha Franklin, yemwe adatisiya mwachisoni ali ndi zaka 76.

Aretha anali ndi ntchito yapadera, adapambana 18 Grammy Awards ndikugulitsa zolemba zoposa 75 miliyoni padziko lonse lapansi.

Inde, nyimbo yake yasaina inali ndi mutu wakuti, “Ulemu.” Ndipo mawu odziwika bwino a nyimboyi ndi:





NTHAWI YOTSATIRA, fufuzani tanthauzo lake kwa ine

Ngati pali chinthu chimodzi chokha chomwe timatenga kuchokera munyimboyi, ndicho ulemu ndi wofunika. Koma ulemu ndi chiyani, ndendende?



Tiyeni tiwunikenso izi pang'ono, sichoncho?

Kodi Timalemekeza Bwanji Ena?

Nanga tingalemekeze bwanji ena? Kodi ulemu umawoneka bwanji? Kodi timazidziwa bwanji tikaziwona? Kodi timazindikira bwanji ngati kulibe?

Chabwino, palibe malo oti mungatchule onsewo kapena ngakhale ambiri a iwo, koma nazi njira 6 zosonyezera ulemu kwa inu kuti muganizire ndikuyembekeza kuti muzigwiritsa ntchito.



1. Mverani

Kumvera zomwe wina akunena ndi njira yofunikira yowalemekezera. Aliyense amafuna kuti anene. Aliyense amafuna kumva kuti akumvetsera . Kaya ali ndi chonena choti sichofunika. Anthu akufuna kumvedwa… nyengo.

Mukapatsa munthu wina nthawi yanu komanso chidwi chanu ndi khutu lanu, mumawatsimikizira. Zomwe zimapereka ulemu.

Kupereka ufulu wachibadwidwe kumayambira pomwe iwo omwe sanamvere gawo linalake la anthu ayamba kumvera. Kusintha kwamagulu onse kumayamba ndi zokambirana. Zokambirana zapachiweniweni.

momwe mungapezere mnyamata wokulemekezani

Mpaka mutamvetsera zodandaula za munthu wina, simudziwa kuti ndi ndani komanso zomwe zili zofunika kwa iwo. Ulemu umayamba ndi kumvetsera .

2. Tsimikizani

Tikamatsimikizira wina, tikupereka umboni kuti ndiwofunika. Kuti ali ndi mtengo. Kuti ndizofunikira. Ndipo akuyenera ulemu.

Kungotsimikizira wina kumatsimikizira kuti mumamulemekeza. Kuti mutsimikizire winawake, muyenera kungodziwa china chake chokhudza munthuyo ndikutsimikizira izi.

'Mwawonetsa kutsimikiza mtima pazaka ziwiri zapitazi kuti bizinesi yanu ichokere pansi.'

“Munali oleza mtima komanso omvetsa zinthu kwambiri pa nthawi yovutayi.”

'Mumandipangitsa kumwetulira nthawi zonse ndikakuwonani.'

Simungalemekeze chilichonse chomwe ali komanso zomwe amachita, koma mutha kuwapatsa ulemu woyenera pamlingo womwe umawatsimikizira. Kutsimikiza ndi njira yofunika kwambiri yosonyezera ulemu kwa ena.

3. Kutumikira

Wolemba ndakatulo Wachingelezi Wachimereka W.H. Auden nthawi ina adati, 'Tonsefe tiri pano padziko lapansi kuti thandizani ena zomwe ena padziko lapansi pano sindikudziwa. '

Moyo padziko lapansi ndikutumikira ena. M'malo mwake, ntchito zathu, ntchito zathu, ndi ntchito zathu ziyenera kukhala zokhudzana ndi chidwi chofuna kuthandiza ena. Kubwezera ena. Kugwiritsa ntchito maluso athu ndi kuthekera kopangitsa moyo kukhala wabwino kwa ena.

Kutumikira kumawonetsa kuti timaganizira. Ndipo kusamala kumasonyeza kuti timalemekeza. Kutumikira ndichinthu chofunikira posonyeza ulemu.

4. Khalani Okoma Mtima

Ngakhale kukoma mtima ndi ntchito ndi msuwani woyamba, sizofanana. Titha kutumikira popanda kukhala okoma mtima. Koma ndizovuta kwambiri kukhala okoma mtima osatumikira.

Tikakhala okoma mtima kwa winawake, timadzipereka tokha. Tikupereka zomwe angagwiritse ntchito. Mwina china chake chomwe amafunikira. Mwina china chake chomwe amafunikira kwambiri.

Kukoma mtima kumasonyeza ulemu. Kulemekeza kuti wina akusowa. Tonse takhala tikusowa. Ndipo zinali zosangalatsa kwambiri munthu wina atatikomera mtima. Kukoma mtima ndi njira imodzi yosonyezera ulemu.

5. Khalani Aulemu

Ndizodabwitsa kuwona kuchepa kwa ulemu mdziko lamakono. Kaya ndi panjira yayikulu, pamagolosale, m'malo oimikapo magalimoto, pa masewera othamanga, pa Facebook, kapena m'mawu andale - zokambirana mwaulemu komanso kulumikizana zikuyamba kukhala luso lotayika.

Komabe, nkosavuta kukhala waulemu. Ndipo ndi wotsika mtengo kwambiri. Khalidwe laulemu lingasinthe tsiku la munthu. Zingasinthe ngakhale moyo wa munthu.

Itha kuwalimbikitsa nthawi yomweyo. Itha kuwathandiza kupitilizabe pazomwe zitha kukhala zovuta. Zikhalidwe zina padziko lapansi zimadziwika chifukwa chaulemu. Zikhalidwe zina zimadziwika kuti ndi zamwano.

Zomwe zimafotokozera ulemu ndipo zomwe sizitero? Ngati mukufuna kulemekeza wina, yambani mwa kukhala aulemu.

6. Khalani othokoza

Ngati William James anali wolondola, anthuwa amafuna kuyamikiridwa, ndiye kuti kuthokoza ndi momwe timatsimikizirira.

Munthu wina akakuchitirani zomwe zimapindulitsa. Kapena akunena china kwa inu chomwe chili chothandiza mwanjira ina. Kapena amakutsimikizirani moona mtima mwanjira ina yomwe ndi yofunika kwa inu. Muyenera athokozeni .

Apanso, kuyamikira kukucheperachepera m'dziko lathu lino.

Ndimagwira khomo la anthu, ndipo amangodutsamo osawoneka ngati akuwona. Ndimalola anthu kuti ayambe kuyenda mumsewu wambiri kuti azisunga nthawi. Amandiyang'ana ngati kuti ndi ufulu wawo wobadwa nawo. Ndimathandiza anthu m'njira zina zomwe ndikutsimikiza kuti zinali zofunikira kwa iwo. Komabe sindimva chilichonse chothokoza.

Sizochuluka kwambiri zomwe timafunikira kuyamikiridwa. Ndizoti tikufuna kumva kuti zomwe tachita zasintha. Ngati palibe kuyamika chifukwa cha zomwe tachita, kapena ngakhale momwe ife tilili, timamva kusowa ulemu.

Ulemu sikuti nthawi zonse umafuna kuthokoza. Koma nthawi zambiri zimatero. Ndi njira ina yokha yosonyezera ulemu. Ndi njira ina yokha yomwe timaonera kuti timalemekezedwa.

Chifukwa Chomwe Ulemu Ndi Wofunika M'moyo

Chofunika kwambiri ndi ulemu ndi chiyani? Nchifukwa chiyani kuli kofunika mu chiwembu chachikulu cha zinthu?

momwe mungayambirenso kukondana ndi bwenzi lanu

1. Kusonyeza ulemu ndi yankho loyenera m'magulu aboma.

Chimodzi mwazinthu zomwe mabungwe aboma amakhala nazo ndikuwonetsa ulemu kwa nzika zina. Kutsimikiza kuti mamembala ena am'banja, tawuni, mzinda, dziko, kapena dera lonse lapansi ndi oyenera ulemu.

Universal Declaration of Human Rights idakhazikitsidwa ndi United Nations General Assembly ku Paris mu 1948. Cholinga chake chinali perekani ulemu woyenera kwa anthu onse kulikonse. Palibe munthu amene samasulidwa.

Kuwonetsa kulemekeza moyo wamunthu komanso anthu ndikofunikira pamagulu aboma komanso dziko laboma.

2. Ulemu umatsimikizira iwo oyenera ulemu.

Tikamalemekeza ena, zimatsimikizira kuti ali ndi ufulu wolemekezedwa komanso kuyenera ulemu. Kumbali ina, tikamalemekeza ena, timakhala kuti ndife osayenerera.

Izi zitha kuyambitsa kuchepa komwe kumakhala kovuta kwambiri kuti amange ndikutha. Akangokhulupirira kuti mtundu kapena fuko linalake kapena mtundu kapena khungu kapena jenda kapena zaka sizoyenera ulemu, zipata za kusefukira zimatsegukira nkhanza.

Taziwona izi kangapo mzaka mazana awiri zapitazi makamaka. Zotsatira zachilengedwe komanso zomveka zochotsera ulemu m'magulu ena ndikuyamba kukanidwa, kenako kusankhana, kenako kuzunzidwa, ndipo pamapeto pake kuphana.

Zimayamba ndi kupanda ulemu. Ndi chifukwa china chomwe ulemu uyenera kufalikira pakati pa anthu onse kulikonse, komanso chifukwa chake ulemu uli wofunikira kwambiri.

3. Zimalimbikitsa makhalidwe omwe ndi aulemu.

Pamene wina akukhala m'njira yomwe imamupangitsa kuzindikira, ulemu, ndi ulemu, zimalimbikitsa kukhala momwemo. Osati nthawi zonse, koma kawirikawiri. Khalidwe lomwe limapindula limakonda kubwerezedwa.

Kapena, ikani mwanjira ina, 'Zomwe zapindula zimakwaniritsidwa.'

Kaya tikufuna kuti khalidweli liyenera kukhala lofala popanda chilimbikitso saphonya mfundo. Ndi chikhalidwe chaumunthu chabe kuchita zomwe zimapindula ndikupewa zomwe sizitero.

4. Zimapereka maziko olimba a maubwenzi.

Payenera kukhala kukayikira kwakukulu kuti akhalebe pachibwenzi chomwe sichipereka ulemu. Anthu sakonda kuchitiridwa zoipa. Anthu sakonda kunyozedwa, kutsitsidwa, kunyozedwa, komanso kunyozedwa.

Ngati chibwenzi chimasowa ulemu, chimakhala chosasangalatsa. Maubwenzi oopsa nthawi zambiri amakhala opanda ulemu ngati chinthu chofala.

Ubale watanthauzo, wathanzi, komanso wopindulitsa ukuwonetsana. Ndizofunikira.

5. Popanda ulemu timataya mtima.

Ulemu ndi chinthu chofunikira kwambiri paumoyo wa anthu kotero kuti pakalibe, anthu samachita bwino. Sasowa kukhala ndi ulemu kuchokera kwa aliyense - koma pali anthu ena omwe ulemu ndiwofunikira.

Bambo wa matenda azamisala amakono, a William James adati, 'Mfundo yofunika kwambiri muumunthu ndikukhumba kuyamikiridwa.' Anthu amene sayamikiridwa saona kuti amalemekezedwa. Ndizokhumudwitsa.

Mbiriyakale yomenyera ufulu wachibadwidwe padziko lonse lapansi ndikulimbana kuti upeze ulemu kwa ena. American Founding Fathers yafotokoza izi ku United States Declaration of Independence motere:

'Timakhulupirira kuti zoonadi izi ndizodziwikiratu, kuti anthu onse adalengedwa ofanana, kuti anapatsidwa ndi Mlengi wawo maufulu ena, omwe mwa iwo ndi Moyo, Ufulu, komanso kufunafuna Chimwemwe.'

Kulemekeza anthu kumatanthauza kupereka, kusunga, ndi kuteteza ufuluwu. Popanda ulemu, maufuluwa adzasowa. Ndipo ngati maufuluwa akusowa, ulemu ungasowenso. Amakhalapo limodzi.

Mapeto

Kotero, ife tawona chomwe ulemu uli. Tawona momwe tingaonetsere ulemu munjira zothandiza. Ndipo tawona chifukwa chake ulemu ngofunika.

Tikukhulupirira kuti sitimangowona kuti ulemu ndi gawo lofunikira m'moyo, koma tikuwona chifukwa chake kuli kofunika kuwonetsa nthawi zonse. Aliyense ndi woyenera ulemu chifukwa chokhala munthu wokhalapo.

chiwonetsero chachikulu jingle njira yonse

Aliyense amafuna ulemu. Aliyense ayenera kusonyeza ulemu. Chifukwa chake tikukhulupirira kuti aliyense adzalandira ulemu woyenera, ndipo aperekanso ulemu kwa ena.

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