Momwe Mungamayimire Nokha

Kudziyimira nokha kumamveka ngati chinthu chowongoka momwe mumadziwira kuti ndinu ndani, ikani malire pa omwe ndi omwe mungaloleze, sankhani nkhondo zanu, ndipo musayambitse nkhondo.

Koma pamene mgwirizano wapano ukuti muyenera 'kuyimilira' kapena 'kudzikweza,' kodi kudziyimira nokha kumawoneka bwanji?

chimodzi. Dziwani Kuti Ndinu Ndani

Kodi mukuyimira ndani? Ngati munayenera kutero Fotokozani nokha ndi khalidwe lanu lamkati kwa mlendo, kodi angamve kuti ndinu ndani?





Pomwe pomwepo, ndikofunikira kudziwa kuti malingaliro sindiye kuti ndiwe ndani. Timasokonezeka kuganiza mwanjira ina ndipo, chifukwa cha nthano ya munthu wolimba, timakwanitsa kudzitsimikizira kuti malingaliro ndi athu.

Tetezani zomwe zili zanu, sichoncho?



Kupatula, nthawi zambiri, malingaliro athu omwe samakhala bwino ndi ife eni.

Si kupusa kuyimirira façade?

M'malo mwake, yesani kulingalira. Pali mabuku, makanema, ndi masamba omwe amapezeka mosavuta.



Kulingalira kumatithandiza kudzimasula ku Id yomwe imagwira ntchito nthawi zonse, ndipo potero amatilola kuti tiwone - ndikuyamikira - ndife omwe tili.

Mukadzikweza, mumayimira anu kudzikonda , osati mtundu wanu wopangidwa kale.

2. Khazikitsani Malire

Ngakhale utakhala wothandiza motani, padzakhala pali winawake amene akuganiza kuti angathe akukuvutitsani kuchita zambiri, kupereka zochulukirapo, ndikukhala ochulukirapo.

Kudziyimira nokha kumatanthauza kukhazikitsa malire kuti musakhale thumba lakutaya, komwe kumatha kukhala thumba la mkwiyo.

Ngati ndinu ogwira ntchito kunyumba omwe nthawi zambiri amasokonezedwa ndi anthu omwe amafunsa ngati simukufuna kuwayendera (popeza simuli 'kuntchito'), kuwadziwitsa maofesi anu kuti-ndi- zoterezi zithandizira thanzi la msana wanu.

Lolani okonda kudziwa zomwe mumakonda ndi zomwe simumakonda. Aloleni anzanu adziwe zomwe ndizosavomerezeka.

Ambiri mwa anthu amkati mwanu amavomereza kuti nthawi yanu siyopanda malire, komanso zinthu zanu sizingathe.

Kunena ayi kwa ena sichizindikiro chodzikonda kapena kudzikweza, pomwe aliyense amene amayembekezera kuti mudzalandira yankho nthawi zonse mosakayikira akusonyeza chinthu chosasangalatsa.

3. Yesetsani, Chitani, Chitani

Monga muzinthu zonse, mukamazichita kwambiri, mumatha kuzipeza bwino. Kuyimirira nokha palibe kusiyana.

Zimathandizanso kuyambira pagwero: inu.

Kuyimirira nokha nthawi zambiri kumatanthauza kuchita tango ndi nkhope pakalilore. Kuyimirira kumatha kukhala kosavuta monga kupitilira liwu loyipa lomwe likuti 'Bwanji mukuvutikira?' mukakhala okondwa komanso olimbikitsidwa kuti musinthe.

Idyani chipatsocho m'malo mwa zimbalangondo zochepa!

Yesetsani kufunafuna kosalekeza pazanema kuti mukhale chete ndi nthawi yokhayokha komanso buku!

Kuyimirira nokha kumakuthandizani kuyimirira chifukwa wekha.

4. Dziwani Ufulu Wanu

Popeza mayiko amafotokozera momveka bwino maufulu ngati mafashoni (zomwe zili mkati, zotentha, ndi zotani!), Tifotokoza izi ponena kuti 'Ufulu Wanu Waumunthu.'

Muli ndi woyenera kulemekezedwa . Zindikirani zimenezo.

Muli ndi ufulu kusamaliridwa ndi kukondedwa. Zindikirani zimenezo.

Muli ndi ufulu womvetsetsa komanso kumvera ena chisoni.

Muli ndi ufulu kulephera.

Muli ndi ufulu wopambana.

Muli ndi ufulu wokhala chete.

Unabadwa ndi ufulu wosangalala.

Titha kupitilirabe. Palibe amene ali ndi ufulu wochitira nkhanza. Palibe amene ali ndi ufulu wokuvulazani. Palibe amene akuyenera kufuna kukhala ndi, kukhala nawo, kapena kunyalanyaza inu.

Ndife anthu, palibe aliyense wa ife woposa mnzake. Chenjerani ndi omwe amakhala moyo wawo ngati kuti nkhonya ndi baji yaulemu.

Mwinanso mungakonde (nkhani ikupitirira pansipa):

5. Phunzirani Kufunika Kokhala Chete

Mukudziwa mwambi wakale uja 'Yankhulani mofewa ndikunyamula ndodo yayikulu'? Chitani izi mopitilira muyeso: lankhulani mofewa - ndipo nthawi zina osatero konse - ndipo anthu atha kulemekeza ndikusilira kudziletsa kwanu.

Pali china choyenera kunenedwa chonena za wankhondo yemwe samenya nkhonya zilizonse, kapena senii yemwe lupanga lake silimachoka pachikwanje chake, kapena mwana wamtendere uja pasukulu yemwe sanatengeredwe chifukwa anthu amamuyamikira mwakachetechete kuti asachite zinthu zake.

Amatha kudziyimira pawokha popanda kuyesetsa kwina chifukwa anthu samadziwa kuti awakwiyitse.

Iwonso, atha kukhala inu.

6. Chilankhulo cha Thupi

Kuyimirira nokha kumatha kukhala kosavuta monga kuyimirira kwenikweni ... molunjika!

Chilankhulo chamthupi chimagwira gawo lalikulu momwe anthu amasankhira kulumikizana nafe. Kugwedeza, kupindika m'manja, osayang'ana ndi ena - zonse zimathandizira pazomwe mungachitidwe moyenera kuti muziyimirira nokha.

Ubwino wokhudza chilankhulo cha thupi ndikuti awa amakhala mayankho mwachizolowezi, osakhazikika. Mutha kudziphunzitsa kuti muchoke pamiyesoyi kuti mukhale olimba mtima kwambiri, otsimikiza mtima.

7. Sankhani Nkhondo Zanu

Monga tanenera poyamba, moyo ukhoza kuwoneka ngati kuyitana kwa omenyera nkhondo. Aliyense akumenya mwina nkhondo yakale kapena nkhondo ya wina.

Sikuti kulumikizana kulikonse ndi komwe kumalimbikitsidwa kulimba mtima kwanu. Omwe akuwona kuti akuyenera kudziteteza kosalekeza kapena udindo womwe adalemba kuti aganizire kuti akukakamira, pomwe kwenikweni ndiwosokonekera.

Osakhala wopusa. Osamverera kufunika kolumpha pamapazi anu, 'splain, pontificate, refute, and / or chest beat at every opportunity. Mudzakhala osatetezeka mukamaganiza kuti simukwaniritsidwa pomwe mukumva kuti mwapeza mfundo yanokha.

Kudzitchinjiriza sikosangalatsa, ngakhale atafuna kuvala modzilemekeza bwanji.

Kukwiya kuli koyipa kawiri.

8. Khalani Oona Mtima

Anthu oona mtima Nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi nthawi yosavuta kuyimirira chifukwa samawononga mphamvu zamtengo wapatali zoteteza kulumikizana.

Izi zimawerengera maubale, izi zimawerengedwa kuntchito, ngakhale mukukumana mwachisawawa ndi anthu omwe simukuwadziwa mukamatuluka.

Ngati mumakhala owona mtima pazikhulupiriro zanu komanso momwe mumayendera kudziko lapansi, kuyimirira nokha ndi nkhani yongonena XY ndikusiya ena kuti achite nazo zomwe angafune.

Simudzawona kufunika koyeserera kuti mudzimve wokulirapo kuti mulankhule ndi ena kuti muwadzudzule osadzinenera kuti ena sangakupezereni mwayi.

Monga momwe zimakhalira ndi munthu wosalankhulayo, mupeza kuti pansi pa ambulera yowona mtima simudzakumana ndi zochitika zambiri pomwe anthu amasankha kugwiritsa ntchito zokhumba zawo ngati njira yokugwetsani pansi.

9. Tafuna, Usameze

Ndi kangati pomwe mudaluma lilime lanu m'malo mongonena zakukhosi kwanu? Izi ndizosavomerezeka m'njira zambiri, koma kuti mudzipangire nokha, ndizodzipweteka nokha.

Ngati ndinu oyenera kumeza mawu anu m'malo mongotafuna ndi kugaya nyama yolumikizirana, pumirani kwambiri, zindikirani kuti palibe chilichonse chovomerezeka chomwe chidzatuluke mkamwa mwanu chingakhale choopsa, ndikuyankhula.

Zinthu zomwe sizinatchulidwe ndi chiwonetsero chodziyambilira cha machitidwe athanzi, oyanjana, kuphatikiza kusagwirizana.

Lankhulani ndikuyimilira nokha mwa kupeza njira zonena zomwe zili m'maganizo mwanu zomwe zikugwirizana ndi zosowa zanu.

Izi zimachitika pakumvetsera m'malo mochita kugaya m'malo moyesa kugwira kwambiri kuti pamapeto pake - ndipo, nthawi zambiri, mosasangalatsa - zimatuluka ngati mawu amkati komanso amisala.

'Koma khalani pang'ono,' ndikumva inu mukulira, 'munanena kale kuti muphunzire. Ndi iti? ”

Funso labwino. Chabwino, m'mbuyomu, zinali zongowonetsa mphamvu popanda kuchita zoyipa.

Apa, zikutanthauza kukhala wofunitsitsa komanso wokhoza kuyankhula moona mtima kuti mudziwitse ena zomwe mukufuna kapena malingaliro anu. Ndizokhudza kulumikizana bwino ndi ena kuti mupewe chisokonezo kapena kusamvana.

Kusiyana kwakukulu.

Kuyimirira nokha sikuyenera kukhala ntchito ya Herculean. Kwenikweni, siziyenera kutero, chifukwa ngati zili choncho, pali china chake chomwe sichikugwirizana ndi njira yamoyo wanu.

Nthawi zonse padzakhala nthawi ndi anthu omwe amatiyesa anthu omwe amafunafuna zovuta ndikuwukira.

Koma kuzindikira choyamba komanso chachikulu kuti simukuyenera kulipira wina aliyense wa inu kuposa momwe mumafunira kupereka ndi njira yodzipezera chisangalalo chachikulu, ndikuchepetsa modabwitsa kuchuluka kwakanthawi komwe mungatsutsidwe.

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