Momwe Mungaleke Kudzifananitsa Ndi Ena

Kuyerekeza-itis ndiimodzi mwazinthu zofala kwambiri m'maganizo kunja uko. Nthawi zambiri zimachitika pambali zina monga kuda nkhawa kapena kukhumudwa, zimatha kuyambitsa tsoka kwa iwo omwe ali nayo.

Kudziyerekeza tokha ndi ena ndi khalidwe lomwe ochepa chabe mwa ife anganene kuti alibe. Ambiri aife tili olakwa pakuyang'ana omwe atizungulira ndikumverera ngati sitikuyerekeza.

Kaya ndi ntchito, chikondi, ndalama, mawonekedwe, zinthu zakuthupi, maubale am'banja, kapena china chilichonse m'moyo wamunthu, kuyerekezera-kumalowa kosavomerezeka ndikutilemetsa.





Nthawi zambiri zimayambira tili aang'ono, mwina tikakhala kusukulu ndikuyang'ana chikwama cha anzathu chomwe chimakhala chotsogola kwambiri kuposa chathu, kapena kuwona gulu lawo la 'zibwenzi' kapena 'zibwenzi' ndikudzifunsa chifukwa chomwe sitili pamzere okonda.

Zimapitilira m'moyo wathu wachikulire pomwe zapamwamba kotala-moyo mavuto kumenya ndipo timawona aliyense amene tikumudziwa akukwezedwa pantchito, kukwatiwa, kutenga pakati, kapena kukwera ndege, pomwe tikulimbanabe kuti tibuke pabedi m'mawa.



Ngakhale kamodzi mwamaganizidwe tili ndi abakha athu motsatizana ndipo timakhala 'achikulire,' nthawi zambiri timakhala olakwa poyerekeza momwe timakhalira ndi anthu omwe timawadziwa. Ngakhale kuti chizolowezi ichi chimazimiririka pang'onopang'ono kwa ena, kuyerekezera-sichinthu chomwe tonsefe timakhala otetezeka tikamakula.

Kudziyerekeza tokha ndi ena ndi komwe kumatilepheretsa kudumphadumpha chikhulupiriro ndikuyesera kudzipindulitsa. Kutsimikiza kuti tidzatero musakhale abwino konse monga omwe atizungulira, sitimatenga ulendowu, osasunthika, kuyambitsa chizolowezi chimenecho, kumufunsa munthuyo ...

N 'chifukwa Chiyani Timachita Izi?

Zimaganiziridwa kuti chidwi chathu chodziyerekeza tokha ndi gawo la chikhumbo chofunikira kwambiri chomwe timayenera kudzimvetsetsa tokha komanso malo athu pagulu lachitukuko. Zimatithandiza kuwonjezera zomwe zikuchitika padziko lapansi komanso kulumikizana bwino ndi omwe timakhala nawo.



Vuto Lofananitsidwa

Kudziyerekeza tokha ndi ena sikuli chinthu cholakwika nthawi zonse. Pokhapokha ngati zachitika ndi malingaliro oyenera, zitha kutero tilimbikitseni ndi kutilimbikitsa.

Komano, imatha kukhala nsanje komanso kudzidalira. Tsoka ilo, nthawi zambiri, kuyerekezera kumeneku kumatilepheretsa kuyesa chilichonse chatsopano kapena kutenga zoopsa, kuwononga chidaliro chathu mwa ife tokha.

Sitimadzipatsa tokha mwayi ngakhale pang'ono wopambana pomwe tikudziyerekeza tokha ndi ena, popeza tikulimbana nawo makhalidwe oyipitsitsa motsutsana ndi mikhalidwe yabwino yomwe timaganiza kuti anthu ena adzakhala nayo.

Izi zikutanthauza kuti palibe chilichonse chomwe tingapindule chifukwa chofananitsa opanda phindu kapena tanthauzo. Komabe, timayesetsa kutaya ndalama zokwanira, kuphatikiza kunyada kwathu kapena kuyendetsa kwathu.

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Ngati mukuwerenga izi, sindingavutike kubetcha kuti kudzifananitsa ndi ena ndi vuto lalikulu kwa inu. Ngati mutawononga nthawi yonse yomwe mumagwiritsa ntchito kulingalira za miyoyo ya anthu ena m'malo mongoyang'ana nokha - yomwe, mwa njira, ndi moyo wokhawo womwe mungasinthe - mungadabwe nazo kuchuluka kwa masiku omwe mwataya, mpaka kumapeto.

Osadziyesa nokha kuti tsiku lomwe mudzachite bwino mudzaleka mchitidwewu. Padzakhala pali winawake kapena china chomwe mulibe chomwe wina amachita. Ndiwo moyo!

Vuto Lamakono?

Anthu akhala akudzifananitsa okha ndi anzawo kuyambira nthawi yoyambira. Sizochitika zamakono. Theodore Roosevelt anati 'kuyerekezera ndi mbala yachisangalalo.'

Komabe, m'mbuyomu, sizinali zophweka kwenikweni kuti tizidzilimbitsa. Instagram sichinali kanthu. Ngakhale malo ochezera a pa Intaneti ndi dalitso m'njira zambiri, lilinso temberero.

Palibe m'modzi wa ife amene ali wowona mtima pa Instagram, kapena chilichonse chomwe tingasankhe pa TV yathu. Tonsefe timapanga chithunzi chosamalitsa cha miyoyo yathu ndikugawana zinthu zabwino. Timapereka zithunzi zojambulidwa bwino kapena tchuthi chachilendo chomwe timapitako.

Sitikufunitsitsa kugawana momwe timawonekera koyamba m'mawa kapena masiku osatha omwe timakhala muofesi tikulimbana ndi abwana athu ovuta.

Ngakhale tonse tili ndi mlandu wochita izi, nthawi zambiri sitimakumbukira kuti titawona anthu ena akuwoneka ngati osangalatsa komanso odyetserako zapa media, sakunena nkhani yonse.

Timayamba kuyerekezera momwe zinthu zikutiyendera ndi momwe zinthu zikuwonekera kuti zikuwayendera, osadziwa kuti nkhaniyo ndiyotani, ndikugwera mwachangu dzenje lofanizira.

Monga Steve Ferrick ananenera, izi zimatipangitsa kukhala osatetezeka chifukwa 'timafanizira zochitika zathu zam'mbuyo ndi zomwe ena onse akuwona.'

Mwinanso mungakonde (nkhani ikupitirira pansipa):

Koma Kodi Mungatani Kuti Muthane ndi Chizolowezicho?

Ngakhale mutakhala ndi moyo wodziyerekeza wekha molakwika ndi ena, pali njira zina zomwe mungasokonezere kulingalira ndikusintha momwe mumaganizira pazinthu zabwino.

Ndipafupifupi kuyesetsa kusintha momwe malingaliro anu ogwiritsira ntchito amagwirira ntchito komanso zikhulupiriro zomwe zimalamulira kotero kuti, pamapeto pake, simudzakhalanso ndi vuto lodzilinganiza nthawi zonse ndi iwo omwe akuzungulirani.

Nazi masewera olimbitsa thupi angapo omwe mungayesere ndi zinthu zina kuti muganizirepo zomwe zingakuthandizeni kusintha momwe mumazindikira kufananizira.

1. Ganizirani Zakuyerekeza Kuyerekeza Kwakachitika M'moyo Wanu

Kodi pali chiopsezo chomwe simunatenge chifukwa chodzidalira? Kodi moyo wanu ukadakhala wosiyana bwanji mukadapanda kukhudzidwa ndikufanizira-itis?

Mukazindikira izi m'maganizo mwanu, mupeza chidwi kudziletsa kuti musadzachite zolakwitsa zomwezo mtsogolo .

2. Dzipatseni Mbiri Pomwe Mungalandire Ngongole

Zachidziwikire, kuyerekezera mwina kukakhumudwitsani kuno ndi uko, koma pali zambiri zoyipa zokondwerera.

Ndikufuna kukhazikika pamoyo wanga

Aliyense yemwe muli ndi chilichonse chomwe mungachite, ndiwe wapadera , apadera, ndipo ali ndi mphatso zodabwitsa.

Mwakwanitsa kuchita zinthu zosaneneka m'moyo wanu. Lembani mndandanda wazinthu zomwe mwakwanitsa, komabe zogwirika kapena zosagwirika, ndipo muzigwiritsa ntchito ngati cholimbikitsira.

Ngati mukuyenera kuyerekezera ndi winawake, yerekezerani INUYO ya lero ndi INU akale, ndikudabwa ndikutali komwe mwachokera.

3. Pewani Nthawi Yanu Yocheza Ndi Anthu

Dzichitireni zabwino ndi kugawa nthawi yomwe mumagwiritsa ntchito pa TV. Dzipatseni mphindi khumi patsiku kuti muwone maakaunti anu. Chotsani mapulogalamuwa pafoni yanu. Tsatirani anthu omwe amayambitsa malingaliro ofananitsa.

4. Ganizirani Kwambiri Zinthu Ndi Anthu Omwe Amakhala Ofunika

Timakonda kudzifanizira tokha ndi anthu omwe sitikudziwa bwino lomwe ndipo miyoyo yawo timangowona pazama TV.

Lekani kupereka chidwi chanu kwa anthu amenewo ndikukhala ndi mphamvu zambiri pamalingaliro anu ndi moyo wanu. M'malo mwake, yang'anani pa abwenzi apamtima ndipo banja lipezekanso polumikizana nawo.

Tulukani ndikuchita, kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi, kuwerenga, kapena kulembetsa kalasi yomwe mwakhala mukufuna kuyambitsa. Popeza ndinu otanganidwa kwambiri, nthawi yocheperako mudzakhala ndi nkhawa yokhudza zomwe ena akuchita.

Dzichitireni bwino, kudya chakudya chomwe chimakusangalatsani komanso kutenga nthawi yopuma. Kudzilemekeza nokha perekani kudzidalira kwanu ndi kudzidalira kwanu kukulimbikitseni .

5. Mukadzifananitsa Nokha, Funsaniā€¦

Kugonjetsa kufananitsa-ndi njira yomwe imatenga nthawi. Simungathe kuyima usiku umodzi. Mukayamba kusilira ena, funsani mafunso awa:

Kodi ndizofunika kwa ine? Kodi mukufunadi zomwe munthuyo ali nazo? Galimoto yamoto? Ukwati wodula? Ulendo wobwezeretsanso padziko lonse lapansi? Chifukwa chiyani mukuzifuna?

Ndikupita kuti? Kodi zingakwane dongosolo lanu la moyo? Anzanu atha kukhala kunja usiku uliwonse, koma ngati mukusungira ndalama kwa nthawi yayitali, dzikumbutseni za cholinga chanu mukadzayamba nsanje.

Ndafika pati? Dzikumbutseni za mndandanda wazomwe mwachita zomwe mwalemba. Tikufunira aliyense zabwino, kuvomereza kuti kupambana kwawo sikukupangitsani kuti mukhale oyenera, ndikupitiliza kulima mzere wanu.