Kodi Kutsutsana Kuli Ndi Ubwenzi Wabwino? (+ Kodi Maanja Amamenya Kangati?)

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Mukakhala m'magawo oyamba aubwenzi, mumatha kuwona china chilichonse kupatula masomphenya a ungwiro womwe umayimirira patsogolo panu.

Lingaliro loti mungakhale ndi mtsutso limawoneka ngati losatheka kuyambira pomwe diso la diso lanu limayenderana ndikuponda ganizo lililonse, chilichonse, ndi chinthu chilichonse.



Akanena kuti madzi amayenda phiri, mumawakhulupirira chifukwa chodziwa zomwe zasayansi!

Ndi nthawi yamatsenga ndipo ngati mulidi ndi mwayi (kapena makamaka kutsimikiza kuwona zabwino zokha), gawolo likhoza kutambasukira masabata kapena miyezi yosungunuka.



Komano mphindi yachisoni koma yosapeweka ifika pomwe wokondedwa wanu anena kapena kuchita china chake chomwe chimakankhira mabatani anu ndipo kusiyana koyamba kofotokozedwa momveka bwino kumabweretsa mutu ...

Nthawi zambiri zimangokhala zazing'ono poyamba, nonse awiri mukadali ndi malingaliro ofuna kunyengerera, koma pang'ono ndi pang'ono, ubale wanu umayesedwa.

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Mbali yabwino ya mfundo izi ndikuti nthawi zambiri sizowopsa ndipo ndi gawo la maphunziro.



Amalola onse mbali ziwiri kuti amvetsetse bwino zomwe zimalimbikitsana wina ndi mnzake.

Nthawi iliyonse yomwe simukugwirizana, muphunzira zambiri za mnzanu, chifukwa chake musapewe kusinthana kwa malingaliro awa chifukwa adzaulula kwambiri ...

… Zowulula kwambiri m'njira zambiri kuposa masiku ndi masabata onse omwe mwakhala mukugwiritsa ntchito zikopa zamagulu poyesera kusunga matsenga atsopano (ndipo, tiyeni tikumane nawo, m'malo mwake zosatheka ) kondani kwa nthawi yayitali popanda kulankhulana pakati panu.

Zachidziwikire, padzakhala nthawi zina pomwe simunawonane. Ndi momwe mumalolera kunyengerera m'masiku oyambilira omwe amasalaza ming'alu iliyonse.

Mudzakhala onse diso lamaso ndi chikondi (kapena, kani, kutengeka ) posachedwa osafotokozanso kusiyana kwamaganizidwe anu. Mlomo umakhalabe wotsekedwa chifukwa cha mgwirizano wabwino.

Koma pamene zifukwa zosapeŵeka ziloŵa, musazithaŵe.

Kulowetsa zala zanu ku lingaliro la kusagwirizana kumakupatsani mwayi wofufuza pansi pazithunzi zabwino za wokondedwa wanu watsopano.

Izi zikuyenera kuchitika kapena mukhala okhazikika kwamuyaya mwaulemu zomwe sizili zathanzi kapena zosasunthika.

Ndikofunika kumvetsetsa ubale wabwino sizikutanthauza kusamvana zero.

Zomwe zikutanthawuza ndikuti mudzakhala ndi maluso olumikizirana bwino nthawi zonse kuti mudzathe kulimbana nawo ndikuthana ndi mavuto amtsogolo.

Aliyense aphunzira kuyamikira mnzake monga munthu wokhala ndi malingaliro osiyana, zomwe ndizofunikiradi ku ubale wosasunthika, wachikondi.

Ndipo, zachidziwikire, tisaiwale kuti zokangana nthawi zina zimabweretsa chilakolako - kulimbikitsidwa kwa mphamvu zonse chifukwa chakuwunikirana mosabisa malingaliro kumatha kubweretsa ubale wosangalatsa kwambiri, wochiritsa.

Palibe mabanja ambiri omwe angakane kuti zodzoladzola zogonana nthawi zambiri zimakhala zabwino komanso zokhutiritsa komanso zosangalatsa.

Pokhala ndi zotsatira zabwino zambiri, ndizodabwitsa kuti anthu ambiri amapita kutali kuti apewe mkangano.

Chifukwa chake chitha kukhala tanthauzo loyipa la mawuwo.

Zowona, komabe, kukangana kumatha kungokhala kusinthana kwa malingaliro komwe sikuyenera kuchititsa kuzunzika nthawi zonse.

Chipani chilichonse chiyenera kukhala ndi ufulu wofotokozera zakukhosi kwawo popanda kuwopa zomwe zingachitike.

Palibe chifukwa chofunira mawu ndi nyimbo.

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Chifukwa chake, zikuwoneka kuti kusinthana kwa malingaliro mosabisa kungakhale koyenera muubwenzi.

Tiyeni tiwone zina mwazifukwa zomwe maanja omwe amakangana angakhale osangalala kuposa omwe amapewa mikangano iliyonse.

1. Chimapangitsa kulemekezana.

Ndizabwino kwathunthu kuti malingaliro anu amasiyana.

Kuwulutsa zotsutsana izi kukutanthauza kuti mumamvetsetsa bwino malingaliro a wina ndi mnzake. Izi zimakulitsa malingaliro anu onse.

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Chikondi chidzakula ngati aliyense wa inu atha kumvera lingaliro losiyana popanda kukwiya kapena kukwiya kapena kukakamira kuti atolere mtsutso wake wotsutsana nawo.

Chikondi ndi cha kulemekezana ndi momwe mumachitira zinthu ndi anzanu.

2. Zimapangitsa kuti banja lanu likhale lolimba.

Ngati chibwenzi chanu chikuvutika kuti zithetse mikangano, zizindikilozo zikuwonetsa kusowa kwa chikondi chenicheni.

Pepani, koma ndi zoona.

Muyenera kumasuka kwathunthu ndi mnzanu ndikunena zomwe zili mumtima mwanu.

Ngati mutha kuchita izi, ubale wanu ukhoza kuyimilira nthawi yayitali komanso zokhumudwitsa panjira.

Ngati, kumbali inayo, mumangika mwamphamvu malingaliro anu owona kuwopa kukhumudwitsa mnzanu, ndiye kuti posakhalitsa kupsinjika kudzatsogolera kuwonongeka kwa mgwirizano.

3. Zimapangitsa chitonthozo mu mphamvu ya mgwirizano wanu.

Chowonadi chakuti muli omasuka kwathunthu ndi mnzanu chimakupatsani chidaliro chodziwa kuti ndibwino kukhala ndi mawonekedwe owonekera polar.

Sizingoyendetsa bwino pakati panu.

Palibe aliyense wa inu amene ayenera kudziyesa kuti achite ngati simuli inu nonse mutha kukhala owona kwa inu nokha.

Izi zimapereka chitonthozo chachikulu ndikupangitsa kuti ubalewo ukhale wolimba.

Nonse ndinu otsimikiza kuti kufotokoza kusiyana kwa malingaliro sikuwononga mgwirizano wanu.

4. Limapereka ufulu ku mantha.

Chomwe mumakangana ndichizindikiro cha kukhulupirirana pakati pa inu ndi mnzanu.

Pomwe pali mantha, sipangakhale chikondi chenicheni.

Ngati mumapewa kunena zakukhosi kwanu chifukwa mukudziwa kuti zingayambitse mkangano, ndipo izi zimachitika ndi mantha kapena mantha pazotsatira, pali china chake cholakwika pakakhala ubale wanu.

Muyenera kukhala ndi chidaliro chonse kuti kukangana sikungayambitse mkangano.

Zokambirana zathanzi popanda kuwopa zotsatira zake zimapangitsa ubale wabwino.

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5. Zimakuthandizani kuphunzira zambiri za wina ndi mnzake.

Kodi mudaganizapo kuti kukangana kulikonse kumapereka chidziwitso chakuya chakugwira ntchito kwa malingaliro amnzanu?

Vumbulutso ili limakupatsani mwayi wabwino kuti muphunzire china chatsopano ndipo mwina mungasinthe malingaliro omwe mwakhala nawo kwa nthawi yayitali pamutu potsatira zomwe mwapeza.

Ngati izi sizichitika - ndipo sizichitika kawirikawiri! - ndiye osachepera mwaphunzira zambiri za wina ndi mnzake ndipo mwakhala ndi mwayi wofotokozera kapena kuteteza malingaliro anu, zomwe zitha kuwunikiradi.

6. Zikutanthauza kuti palibe chinsinsi.

Chofunika ndikuti mukamatsutsana kwambiri, pamakhala mwayi wocheperako woti chidziwitso chisungidwe ndipo chipani chimodzi kapena china chimakhala ndi zinsinsi.

Kuzama kwakukulu kumapita, ndikufufuza mozama zokambirana, kumvetsetsa kwanu kumamvetsetsa zovuta zamakhalidwe amnzanu.

Kumvetsetsa kwakukulu komanso koyenera ndikofunikira ngati mungakambirane zokambirana za moyo pamodzi.

7. Zimathandiza kupewa kunyong'onyeka ndi kusakhutira.

Chinthu chimodzi chotsimikizika: ubale woyenera pomwe onse akumva kuti amatha kufotokoza zakukhosi kwawo amapita kutali kuti ateteze kunyong'onyeka kwa 'yemweyo, wokalamba yemweyo'.

Zilinso choncho kuti ubale woterewu umalola malingaliro atsopano - ngakhale atakhala otalikirana ndi khoma komanso 'njira ina' - kuwulutsidwa popanda kuwopa kunyozedwa kapena kukanidwa.

Izi ndizathanzi komanso zopanda pake. Mikangano imabweretsa chilakolako ndipo sizikhala zosangalatsa konse!

Ndiye, Kodi Kukangana Kuli Kathanzi…?

Ponseponse, maanja omwe samabisa kusagwirizana kwawo, koma amakumana nawo ndikugwira ntchito kupyola, atha kukhala olimba kuposa maanja omwe satero.

Komabe, sikuti kukangana kwenikweni kumakulitsa kulimba kwa mgwirizano wawo - ngakhale zili choncho - ndi kupanga pambuyo pake.

Pali kuzindikira kuti ubale wanu ndi wofunika kwambiri kuposa kusiyana kwanu.

Kuthetsa kusamvana kumaphatikizapo kuvomereza zolakwitsa komanso kukhululuka.

Nthawi iliyonse yomwe mumamenya nkhondo, mumamvetsetsa za mnzanuyo, ndikupanga kulumikizana kwamphamvu kwambiri ndikumvetsetsa bwino.

Chofunika kwambiri ndikuti simuli kumenya koma kukangana .

Palibe kulimbana komwe kumakhudzidwa pakutsutsana - onse awiri amapita kukawonetsa malingaliro awo popanda mawu omwe akukwezedwa komanso osatchula mayina kapena kuloza zala.

Monga agogo anga ankakonda kunena, 'Usakweze mawu. Konzani mikangano yanu. ”

Uwu ndi upangiri wabwino kwambiri womwe ndidalandirapo pankhani yothetsa kusamvana kwamalingaliro, kaya ndi omwe ndili nawo pafupi kwambiri komanso okondedwa kwambiri kapena wina aliyense.

Malangizo abwino omwe ndingakupatseni pomaliza ndikuti maubale enieni siabwino komanso maubale abwino si enieni.

Kukhala limodzi popanda kukhala ndi malingaliro osiyana ndizosatheka.

Aphungu ambiri amavomereza kuti ngati okwatirana akunena kuti sakutsutsana, china chake sichili choyenera m'banjamo.

Pali mwayi kuti m'modzi wa iwo (kapena onse awiri) akungoseweretsa zonse, ndipo pamapeto pake zimabweretsa chisangalalo.

Ndipo yankho la funso loyambilira, 'Kodi kukangana kuli koyenera pachibwenzi?'

Inde, ngakhale si njira yopindulitsa kwambiri yogawana mavuto, kukangana mu maubale motsimikizika kwambiri zingakhale wathanzi pazifukwa zonse zomwe tafotokozazi.

Kodi Maanja Amamenya Kangati?

Monga tafotokozera, pafupifupi maanja onse amakangana, ndi omwe mwina sakufuna, koma akupondereza mkanganowu chifukwa chazikhulupiriro zolakwika kuti siwathanzi.

Koma kuchuluka kwa mikangano kumatha kusiyanasiyana. Mabanja ena amatha kukangana kamodzi pa sabata, ena kamodzi pamwezi, ena amangokhalira kukangana kangapo pachaka.

Kuchuluka kwa mikangano sikokha, paokha, kumakhala vuto ngati ndizokhazika mtima pansi zomwe zimatsatiridwa ndi lingaliro ndi chiyanjanitso…

… Koma likhoza kukhala vuto monga momwe tikambiranira.

Kodi Muli Zochuluka Motani?

Tiyerekeze kuti zokangana zomwe zili mu ubale wanu zakhala zochulukirapo komanso zotsutsana kwambiri…

… Ndipo mumadzipeza nokha mukubwerera kumalo omwewo mobwerezabwereza popanda kupita patsogolo kapena kukonza kulikonse.

Palibe aliyense wa inu amene ali wofunitsitsa kumva malingaliro a mnzake ndipo nthawi zambiri mumakwiya, ndikunena zinthu zowononga zomwe mumanong'oneza nazo pambuyo pake.

Mukuwoneka kuti mulibe mikangano - kubwereza machitidwe omwewo mobwerezabwereza.

Kodi zonsezi zikuwonetsa kuti chibwenzi chanu sichitha nthawi yayitali?

Nkhondo zimatha kukhala ngati nyengo yamkuntho….

Pakapita nthawi, kubwerezabwereza kwawo komanso ziwawa zawo zitha kuwononga zabwino zonse, ndikuwonetsa poyala pabwino pamunsi.

Voliyumu ikakwera, chilankhulo chakukwiya kapena chamwano cha thupi chimayamba, ndipo mbale zimayamba kuwuluka, mzere wadutsa ndipo zabwino zilizonse zathanzi zidatha kale.

Pogwira mawu anzeru a ndakatulo yakale, Rumi:

Kwezani mawu anu, osati mawu anu. Ndi mvula yomwe imamera maluwa, osati mabingu.

Palibe maluwa omwe angakule pamalo oopsa. Ngakhalenso chikondi sichingatheke.

Kuti ubale ukhale wathanzi payenera kukhala kulemekezana komanso kusamalirana.

Mtundu wina uliwonse wa nkhanza, kaya mwakuthupi, mwamalingaliro, kapena mwamawu, zikuyimira kupezeka kwa zosakaniza izi.

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Ngati chibwenzi sichili bwino, nkokayikitsa kuti sichitha.

Poterepa, mwina ndi nthawi yoti muganizire ngati ubalewu ulipo ofunika kumenyera ngati mungakhululukire pun…

… Kapena ndi nthawi yoti mutuluke msanga ndikusunthira msipu watsopano.

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