Zizindikiro Zenizeni Za Chikondi Chosakakamizidwa (Ndi Zomwe Mungachite Pazomwezo)

Mwachidule, chikondi chosafunsidwa ndi chikondi chomwe chimamveredwa ndi munthu wina kwa mnzake chomwe sichibwezeredwa ndi munthuyo. Cholinga cha chikondi chitha kudziwa kapena kusazindikira momwe amakondera kwa iwo.

Mumakonda wina - osachepera, mukuganiza kuti mumamukonda.

Koma simukudziwa ngati amakukondaninso.





Mungadziwe bwanji ngati amakukondani ndi osiyana kwambiri ndi omwe mumakonda?

Muyenera kungoyang'ana zizindikirozo…



Zizindikiro za Chikondi Chosatha

(chimodzi) Kodi mukuchita zozizwitsa kuti winawake asangopeza kalikonse koma 'Zikomo' pobwezera?

(ziwiri) Kodi mumangokhalira kufunsa zomwe mnzake akuchita, pomwe akukhala moyo wowoneka wopanda nkhawa, osakumverani chilichonse?

(3) Kodi pali chithunzi cha munthuyu pafoni yanu mungamwalire ngati wina angadziwe za .. koma palibe njira yomwe mukuchotsera?



Chikondi chanu pa iwo chikhoza kukhala osapemphedwa.

(4) Kodi mumapeza zifukwa zambiri zokhalira pafupi ndi munthu yemwe sagwirizana ndi ena, koma pafupi ndi 'Wow, kodi izi sizangochitika mwangozi? Hei, ngati simukutanganidwa pali izi - Ayi? CHABWINO.'

(5) Mumakhala ndi nsanje bwanji munthu wina wapadera akapukusa moyo wanu ndikukuwuzani za kanema yemwe adamuwonera Winawake?

Mutha kukhala ndi chikondi chosafunsidwa.

(6) Kodi mumadzimva kuti mumagwiritsidwa ntchito, kodi mumadzimva osayamikiridwa, mumalakalaka kuti maso awo atsegule njira yolongosoka modabwitsa yomwe yafotokozedwa bwino pamaso panu?

(7) Kodi mumadziona kuti mukuyembekezera moleza mtima kuti munthu winayo adzakuoneni ndi chikondi chenicheni?

(8) Ngati ndinu amene mumayambitsa kulumikizana, mwina mungakhale mukusowa chikwangwani, koma tiyeni tichitenso dzina ndikuchikonza kuchokera ku 'chikondi chosafunsidwa' ( kuti) si chikondi, ndi kutengeka b) 'Osabwezeredwa' amatanthauza 'osabwezedwa kapena kupatsidwa mphotho') pakuwona zomwe zingachitike: Yakwana nthawi yopita patsogolo.

(9) Kodi mumakhala ndi zokambirana zambiri m'mutu mwanu ndi munthu wapaderayu kuposa zokambirana zenizeni? Chikondi chosafunsidwa.

(10) Kodi muli ndi chizolowezi chouza anthu za 'omwe adathawa'? Kodi mukuzilemba kale pazinthu zaposachedwa zomwe mukufuna? Zosayankhidwa. Chikondi.

(khumi ndi chimodzi) Tiyeni tisangalale pang'ono: kodi winawake wakuwuzani 'Si inu, ndi ine'? Chizindikiro choyera, chowonekera pomwepo.

(12) Winawake anakuwuzani kuti si iwo, ndi inu? Chitsamba chowotcha cha zikwangwani pomwepo.

Ndizoyesa kudziyesa tokha ngati anthu achisoni, omvera, okondana amtima, koma sizoseketsa kuti nthawi yochuluka bwanji chidwi cha anthu omwe amatayika chimangowapatsa zomwe akufuna, osati malingaliro a mnzake?

Nanga bwanji, m'malo mwake, zindikirani kuti palibe aliyense (ndipo izi zimabwerezabwereza m'makapu), PALIBE WINA amene ali nanu ngongole.

Kwa aliyense.

Ngakhale palibe phiri lalitali lokwanira kuti musafike kwa iwo kapena chigwa chotsika, ulendowu ndi wanu nokha.

Palibe aliyense, zivute zitani, mwanjira iliyonse, mawonekedwe, kapena mawonekedwe, omwe amawoneka kuti ayende nanu.

Mukadakhala kuti simunakhutitsidwe kale, nanga bwanji zizindikilo zina zakukonda kwanu zomwe mwina sizingatheke?

(13) Sangalakwire chilichonse

Momwe chinthu chomwe mumalakalaka chakwezedwa kwambiri kotero kuti muli bwino bwino ndi munthu ameneyo osasambitsa zomwe sanganene, zomwe zimawoneka bwino, ndikuyang'ana kuchokera pansi, mwadzipereka.

(14) Kudziwika kwanu kumadalira kuwakonda iwo komanso iwonso kukukondani

Kuyika mtolo wokhutira ndi moyo wanu paphewa la munthu wina kumabweretsa kusamvana kwakukulu pamalingaliro.

Ndikokwanira kuti tizikhala miyoyo yathuyathu popanda kupanganso wina 'wathunthu.'

Ngati chikondi chomwe mumamverera wina chimadalira momwe amakukwaniritsirani, mulidi panjira yakusokonekera.

Uwu ndi mtundu wadyera komanso wotopetsa wa cholumikizira chodalira limodzi .

(15) Mukamaganiza za iwo mumakhala ndi nkhawa

Izi zimachitika chifukwa cha gawo lina la inu, ngakhale zomwe mukufuna kukhulupirira, podziwa kuti kusamvana pakati pa inu ndi munthu yemwe ali pansi panu ndi nkhani imodzi. Mukuchita mantha kuti adzasowa musanawone momwe awiriwa angakhalire odabwitsa.

(16) Palibe kukhudzana kwakuthupi

Ngati zabwino zomwe mukukumbatirana ndizopewera paphewa / m'chiuno, mulingo wapamtima womwe mumayembekezera kulibe.

Kukhudza ndikofunikira kwambiri kulumikizana, ndipo ngati mukuganiza kuti mukukondana, koma inu ndi zomwe mumakonda simugwirana manja kapena ngakhale khalani maso oyang'anitsitsa , ndicho chizindikiro chotsimikizika kuti malingaliro awo kwa inu ndi olimba zanema kuchotsera lingaliro lililonse lachikondi.

Mwinanso mungakonde (nkhani ikupitirira pansipa):

Momwe Mungachitire Ndi Chikondi Chosakondedwa: Malangizo 10

Kugwa mchikondi akuyenera kukhala chodabwitsa kwambiri chomwe mumamva m'moyo wanu wonse.

Koma mukamakonda munthu amene samakukondaninso, zimatha kukhala zowononga.

Kukanidwa kumatha kusiya dzenje lopanda kanthu mumtima mwako. Mutha kumva ngati kuti simungathe kupitiliza, koma mutha kuthana ndi chikondi chosafunsidwa.

Dzikonzekereni pamodzi ndikutsatira malangizowa kuti musamve kupweteka ndikupitiliza ndi moyo wanu.

1. Lolani Kuti Mukhale Ndi Chisoni

Chikondi chosafunsidwabe ndikotayika, ngakhale chibwenzicho sichinayambe.

Munali mutayika chibwenzi ndikumva kukonda munthu wina.

Ndi zachilendo kumva chisoni, kukwiya, ndi kukana pamene mukuchira. Dulani nokha pang'ono.

Maganizo anu ndi abwinobwino komanso athanzi. Mudzachira, ndipo mudzatha izi.

2. Osazitenga Panokha

Chowona kuti munthu winayo sanagwe chifukwa cha inu mwina ali ndi zambiri zochita ndi iwo kuposa inu.

Mwina ali m'malo ena m'moyo wawo. Mwina adangotuluka muubwenzi wanthawi yayitali. Mwina akuthandiza wachibale wodwala. Angadziwe ndani?

Mfundo ndiyakuti mwina sizikukukhudzani.

Kukonda winawake sizikutanthauza kuti adzakukondaninso. Si vuto lanu. Sizitanthauza kuti simunali wokwanira.

Kuvomereza zenizeni za mkhalidwewo ndi kovuta, koma ndiye gawo lofunikira kwambiri pothana ndi mtima wanu wopweteka.

3. Musadzudzule Crush wanu

Sikulakwa kwanu kuti sanakondane.

Monga tafotokozera pamwambapa, mwina sangakhale pamalo oti azikondana ndi aliyense pakadali pano.

Kaya chifukwa chake zidachitika bwanji, sizingakuthandizeni kusungira mkwiyo ndi mkwiyo. Khululukirani munthu winayo ndipo yambani kuchira posiya zokhumudwitsa zomwe zikulemetsa mtima wanu.

4. Dzipatuleni

Nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta kuti tigwirizane ndi chikondi chosafunsidwa. Titha kuganiza kuti ngati titachita zina kapena kusintha njira yathu, itha kuyambika.

'Ndikadangowapangitsa kuti aziwona…' kapena 'Ndikadangolankhula nawo pamaso ...'

Musagwere chifukwa cha izo.

Chinthu chabwino kwambiri chomwe mungadzichitire nokha ndi kuyika pakati panu ndi mnzanu. Chiyembekezo chomwe mumamva ndichinyengo chabe. Chimene mukusowa ndi nthawi yolira maliro.

Dulani kulumikizana konse. Musati 'mwangozi' muthamangire mu chikondi chanu ku golosale kapena ku hangout yakomweko. Osayang'ana malo ochezera.

Yakwana nthawi yoti musunthire, ndipo kupita patsogolo kudzakhala kosavuta kuthana ndi mtunda woyenera pakati panu.

Muzicheza ndi banja lanu kapena anzanu. Muzizungulira ndi anthu omwe amakukondani.

Dzipatseni tsiku limodzi kapena awiri kuti mutuluke ndikulira. Pambuyo pake, osatchulanso dzina la wopondereza mokweza.

5. Muziganizira za Tsogolo Lanu

Dziwani kuti mwapwetekedwa mtima ndipo mufunika nthawi yoti muchiritse.

Izi sizikutanthauza kuti muyenera kudzitsekera nokha kwa miyezi isanu ndi umodzi. Ino ndi nthawi yabwino kulingalira za tsogolo lanu.

Dziponye nokha mu chatsopano. Ngati mutha kudzidodometsa ndikupanganso chinthu chamtengo wapatali pamoyo wanu, ndipambana-kupambana.

Mwinamwake mwakhala mukuganiza zamtsogolo ndi kuswa kwanu kwakanthawi kwakanthawi. Popeza sitimayo idayenda, ndi nthawi yokonzanso.

Kodi mukufuna mupeze chiyani pamoyo? Kodi mungatani tsopano kuti mupititse patsogolo ntchito yanu kapena maphunziro anu? Nanga bwanji zosangalatsa zatsopano?

Sikuti kukonzekera kumangothandiza kuchotsa chidwi chokomera, komanso mutha kusintha malingaliro opwetekawo kukhala chisangalalo pazakutsogolo.

6. Dziwani kuti Muyenera Kupambana

Yesani kudzifunsa nokha, 'Chifukwa chiyani ndikufuna kukhala ndi munthu amene safuna kukhala ndi ine?'

Dziwani kuti mukuyenera kukhala pachibwenzi pomwe wokondedwa wanu amakukondani. Popanda chikondi, simukanakhala osangalala nthawi yayitali.

ndi chiyani chosangalatsa cha ine

Mukuyenera kuposa kukhala chiyanjano chimodzi . Aliyense amene sakudziwa kuti ndinu wochititsa bwanji sayeneranso inu!

7. Ganizani Moyenera

Khomo limodzi likatseka, wina amatsegula.

Mukadakhala muubwenzi womwe udayenera kulephera, mukadataya nthawi yanu yambiri.

Mwina mwaphonya mwayi wina womwe simukudziwa kuti ulipo. Ndani akudziwa zamtsogolo zomwe zakusungirani?

Mutha kukhala kuti mwakumana ndi munthu weniweni wamaloto anu tsiku lotsatira kapena awiri.

8. Pitani Patsogolo ndi Tsiku

M'nyanja muli nsomba zambiri. Popeza munthuyu sanagwire ntchito, pitirizani kuyika mzere.

Ngakhale mutakhala ndi nthawi yoti mukhale ndi chisoni, palibe cholakwika ndi kuthera nthawi ndi chiyembekezo chatsopano. Simungadziwe - mutha kupeza munthu amene angalowe m'malo mwake.

Chovuta kwambiri ndikuti mumatha ola limodzi ndi munthu watsopano ndikukambirana bwino ndikumwa.

Ngakhale tsiku loyipa limatha kukulimbikitsani komanso kudzidalira.

Pitani kunja uko ndikukhala moyo wanu.

9. Fufuzani ngati muli osuta

Kodi munakumanapo ndi vuto ili kale?

Ngati ndi choncho, itha kukhala nthawi yoti muunikenso ngati, mosazindikira, mumagwera anthu omwe sangakubwezereni.

Nthawi zina anthu amakonda kugwiritsa ntchito chinthu chomwe sangakhale nacho, ndipo nthawi zina mwina simukudziwa kuti mumachita.

Ngati mwadzipeza nokha ndi chikondi chosafunsidwa m'mbuyomu, itha kukhala nthawi yoti mufunsane ndi othandizira ndikuwongolera mavuto anu.

10. Dziwani kuti Pambuyo pake Mudzakhala Olimba Mtima

Mukazindikira koyamba kuti bwenzi lanu silikukondaninso, mudzakhumudwa.

Chomaliza chomwe mungaganizire ndi momwe mungakhalire olimba.

Koma mutapambana nkhondoyi ndikubwerera, mudzakhala ndi kudzidalira kwakukulu komanso kudzidalira kuposa kale.

Mumakonda, mwataya chikondi, mudapulumuka kutayika, ndipo tsopano mudzakhala olimba.

Mudzakhala osamala mtsogolomu ndi omwe mumapereka mtima wanu. Mudzazindikira zizindikilo za chikondi chosafunsidwa chomwe chikupita patsogolo ndipo sizingatheke kubwereza cholakwikacho.

Kumvetsera izi itha kukuthandizani kuthana ndi malingaliro anu achikondi chosasinthika.

7 Zomwe Tikuphunzira Pachikondi Chathu

Ndizosowa kuti aliyense wa ife adutse moyo wake wonse osakumana ndi kumverera kokonda mnzake, koma osakondedwa kale.

Koma tingaphunzire chiyani kuchokera kuzikondi zosayanjanitsika munthawi zowawa ndi zolakalaka izi?

Chabwino, zinthu 7 izi poyambira…

1. Simumapeza Zomwe Mukufuna Nthawi Zonse

Inde, mochuluka momwe mungakonderere chinthu kapena kuyesetsa kuti chichitike, sizinthu zonse zomwe zingakhale zenizeni.

Mwina mwakhala mukuganiza za izi, ngakhale kuganiza kuti tsiku lina zidzakwaniritsidwa, koma chikondi, monga zinthu zina zambiri m'moyo, sichimatsimikizika.

Muyenera kuvomereza kuti nthawi zina zinthu sizingachitike momwe mumayembekezera.

Ndikofunikira kuti musawone izi ngati kugonja, koma monga chinthu chomwe sichimayenera kukhazikitsidwa.

Ngati mutha kukhalabe ndi malingaliro abwino ngakhale pamene mtima wanu ukusweka, izi zifulumizitsa kuchira kwanu.

Pali chidziwitso chotsimikiza kuti musapeze zomwe mukufuna - kaya ndi chikondi chomwe chimakhalabe chosasinthika, kapena kuphonya ntchito kapena nyumba yanu yamaloto, mumaphunzira kuyamika pazinthu zomwe zimakupangitsani.

Ganizirani izi: ngati mutadalitsika ndikwaniritsa chilichonse chomwe mukufuna, musayamikire izi.

Mutha kungowatenga mopepuka ndikulephera kusangalala nawo mokwanira.

Kupambana kwanu kudzalawa pang'ono pang'ono mutakhala ndi zokhumudwitsa.

2. Simungapangitse Wina Kukonda Inu

Ziribe kanthu zomwe mungachite kapena kunena, chikondi chenicheni sichinthu chomwe mungakakamize.

Itha kukula ngati zinthu zili bwino, koma ziyenera kuchitika mwachilengedwe, mwachilengedwe, komanso mbali zonse ziwiri.

Mutha kuyesa kubzala mbewu zina - ndi manja okoma mtima kapena mawu achikondi - koma sizingakhazikike nthawi zonse.

Palibe chomwe mungachite kuti mupangitse mnzanuyo kukhala ndi malingaliro omwe mukufuna kuti akhale nawo.

Zomwezo zimapitanso kunja kwa maubale achikondi, nawonso.

Momwe wina amakukhudzirani - kaya amakukondani, amakulemekezani, kapena kukulemekezani zimangokhala kwa iwo ndi malingaliro awo monganso momwe zimakukhudzirani.

bwanji maubwenzi amwana wamkazi ndi ovuta

Ziribe kanthu zomwe mungachite, anthu ena sangakuwoneni kapena kukuwonani ngati anzawo kapena ngakhale ofanana nawo.

Phunziro: osataya nthawi yanu kuthamangitsa anthu 'olakwika' pomwe mutha kuwathera ndi anthu 'abwino'.

Zomwe zimapangitsa kuti…

3. Dziwani Nthawi Yomwe Mungasiyire Pompo

Chikondi chanu kwa wina sichinaperekedwe, koma muyenera kuyembekezera nthawi yayitali kuti muwone ngati izi zisintha?

Komabe, yankho loona silitali kwambiri.

Nthawi ndi yamtengo wapatali ndipo simungadziwe kuchuluka kwa zomwe muli nazo, choncho zikawonekeratu kuti chikondi chanu kwa munthu wina uyu sichingabwezeredwe, ndibwino kuti muziyitanitsa posachedwa.

Zomwe mungakhale ndi chiyembekezo kuti tsiku lina angasinthe malingaliro awo, chowonadi ndichakuti mwina sangatero.

Talingalirani, m'malo mwake, mwa kusungabe malingaliro anu, mwina mosazindikira munganyalanyaze kuthekera komwe kungakhale kwina.

Pali anthu ena ndipo padzakhala zokonda zina, ndipo popitilira ndi moyo wanu, mumawapatsa mwayiwu sibwenzi akadakhala nawo.

Zomwezo zitha kunenedwa pazinthu zambiri m'moyo: kudziwa nthawi yodula zotayika ndi luso lofunika kuchita.

Nthawi zambiri, kuvomereza zotsatira zomwe simukufuna kumalumikizidwa ndikutseguka kwa chitseko chatsopano chomwe mipata ina ikuyembekezera.

4. Khalani Nokha Nthawi Zonse

Zingakhale zokopa kwambiri, ngati wina sakukubwezerani chikondi chanu, kuti musinthe nokha mukuyembekeza kuti mwanjira inayake imawakopa.

Mumasintha mawonekedwe anu, malingaliro anu, machitidwe anu, kapena china chilichonse pokhulupirira kuti adzamvanso mosiyana ndi inu.

Mumayesetsa kukhala omwe mukuganiza kuti akufuna kuti mukhale mwa kuvala chophimba kumaso ndikuchita sewero.

Ngakhale izi zitha kumveka mwanzeru, ndi njira yomwe imayenera kulephera.

Chikondi ndi zinthu zambiri, koma chimodzi mwazofunikira ndikulandiridwa ndi munthu wina monga inu momwe muliri. Pokhapokha mutatha izi mumatha kukhala otetezeka komanso kukhala omasuka muubwenzi.

Yesetsani kubisala zenizeni ndipo mudzakumana ndi mkwiyo, nkhawa, komanso kusakhutira.

Zomwezo zimakhalanso ndi moyo wamba ngati mukuwopa kuti anthu awone mitundu yanu yowona, mudzakhala moyo woopa kuti tsiku lina maubale onse omwe mudawamanga kumbuyo kwa mabodza anu adzagwa.

Anthu osangalala kwambiri komanso maubale opindulitsa amatengera kuwona mtima ndikudzivomereza nokha ndi ena.

Palibe chinyengo, palibe chinyengo, kungotseguka chabe ndikukondwerera wina ndi mnzake.

Chotsani chigoba ndikulola dziko lapansi lidziwe kuti ndinu ndani. Landirani chiopsezo chanu ndipo muwone ngati ubale weniweni ukuphuka.

5. Fotokozani Maganizo Anu

Chikondi chosabwezedwa nthawi zambiri chimakhala chikondi chosanenedwa, nawonso.

Mutha kukhala ndi chidwi chachikulu ndi winawake koma osakhoza kuwauza.

Mumavutika patali, mukuwayang'ana akamayenda m'miyoyo yawo, kuwona anthu ena, kapena kungoyenda pang'ono kuposa komwe mungakwanitse kupitilira nthawi.

Zikumveka bwino?

Tonsefe tikudziwa chifukwa chake mumachita izi, sichoncho?

Mukuwopa kutha komanso kusasinthika komwe kulengeza zakukhosi kwanu kungabweretse.

Pakadali pano mutha kugwiritsitsa chiyembekezo choti tsiku lina, mwina, mutha kukhala pachibwenzi chachikondi ndi munthuyu.

Ngati mumalankhula zakukhosi kwanu ndikudziwiratu kuti sizibwezedwa, simungabwezeretse nthawi. Mudziwa, motsimikiza, kuti chikondi chanu ndi chamodzi.

Ndipo zingapweteke.

Komabe, kudziwa komwe mukuyimirira ndi gawo lofunikira lomwe muyenera kuchita ngati mukufuna kupitiliza monga tafotokozera pamwambapa.

Kungoganiza kuti samva momwe inu mumamvera, mudzatsekedwa. Ndipokhapo pokhapokha kuchiritsa kungayambike.

Kuyankhulana sikuyenera kuyimira pamawu achikondi, komabe.

Magawo onse m'moyo wanu amatha, ndipo nthawi zambiri adzawona kusintha mukamayankhula ndi anthu, lankhulani zomwe mukuganiza, ndikuwonetsa malingaliro anu.

Chifukwa chake musawope kuwonetsa dzanja lanu ndikutsegulira zomwe mukumva kapena zomwe mukufuna - anthu samangokhala owerenga.

6. Dzilemekezeni Nokha

Ngati wina sakukondani monga momwe mumamukondera, zingakhale zosavuta kudziimba mlandu.

Mwadzidzidzi mumawona zolakwika pomwe simunaziwonepo kale, mumayamba kufunsa kuti ndinu ndani komanso kuti ndinu ofunika bwanji.

Musanyengedwe. Mukuganiza kuchokera pamalo opweteka komanso owawa pakadali pano, komabe ndinu.

Zilibe kanthu kuti munthu uyu samakukondani chifukwa pali anthu ambiri omwe amakukondani.

Musalole kuti zokumana nazo zoipa izi zikupusitseni kuti mudzipereke nokha. Simunali woyenera kwa iwo ndipo zili bwino. Mukuyenera ena.

Kufunika kwanu sikudalira momwe munthu m'modzi amakuwonerani.

Apanso, titha kukulitsa mfundoyi kuti ikwaniritse mbali zina za moyo wanu.

Kodi mwakana ntchito yomwe mudapempha? Ndikutayika kwawo.

Kodi mudagulidwa pamsika wanyumba pamalo anu abwino? Mupeza kwina kwabwinoko.

Kodi winawake anakupusitsani pamaso pa ena kuti muchite zinthu zosalimba? Zachisoni bwanji kwa iwo.

Kudzidalira kwanu ndi chimodzimodzi: kuchokera kwa eni.

Chofunikira kwambiri sichomwe ena amaganiza za inu kapena momwe zinthu ziliri ndi momwe mumaganizira za inu nokha.

Khulupirirani kuti ndinu oyenera ndipo musalole chilichonse kapena aliyense kukutsimikizirani mwanjira ina.

7. Njira Yanu Itembenuka Ndikutembenuka

Chimodzi mwazinthu zovuta kuzilingalira mukazindikira kuti chikondi chanu sichiri chikondi chawo, ndikuti maloto onse omwe mudakhala nawo pamoyo amasanduka phulusa.

M'malingaliro mwanu, mwina mwapangana zamtsogolo zomwe mudagawana zomwe mumalakalaka zitakwaniritsidwa.

Koma sichinatero ndipo sichingatero. Ndipo tsopano mukukumana ndi ziyembekezo zosadziwika.

Umu ndi momwe moyo umagwirira ntchito.

Njira - yanu njira - siyowongoka komanso yosavuta.

Pali zopindika, njira zakufa ndi zopinga.

Kumene mukuganiza kuti mukupita mwina kungasinthe kukhala kopita kosiyana (osati kuti pali malo ena kupatula imfa, malo okhawo opita paulendo wanu).

Dziwani izi. Landirani izi. Dziwani kuti simungadziwitse zomwe zichitike mawa, sabata yamawa, mwezi wamawa, kapena chaka chamawa.

Moyo wanu ukhoza kusintha ndipo ungasinthe m'njira zambiri zosayembekezereka, chifukwa chake mutha kudzimangirira nokha ndikusangalala ndi ulendowu.

Ingosiyani zoyembekezera zanu kunyumba sizikutumikirani.

Chikondi chosayanjanitsidwa chimatha kukhala chowopsa, koma ndi dalitso pobisalira. Mutha kukhala mukuphonya mtundu waubwenzi womwe muyenera ngati muli ndi munthu yemwe samakukondaninso. Mukadatha kuphonya chikondi cha moyo wanu.

Musalole kuti nkhani ya chikondi chosafunsidwa isanduke mzimu wowawa. Chikondi ndi ulendo wovuta ndichifukwa chake mudzayamikira chikondi chenicheni mukachipeza. Mpaka nthawiyo, choko ichi ngati chokumana nacho chophunzirira.

Miyezi ingapo kuchokera pano mudzayang'ana kumbuyo ndikuvomereza kuti zonse zinali bwino. Mudzakondanso, ndipo mukatero, mudzakhala ndi wina amene amakukondaninso.

Simukudziwa momwe mungachitire ndi chikondi chanu chosakondedwa? Kambiranani pa intaneti ndi katswiri wokhudza ubale wa Relationship Hero yemwe angakuthandizeni kuzindikira zinthu. Mwachidule.

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